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Some work arounds to keep going and avoid quitting seduction:
Seduction can be taxing, after couple of months/years/decades eventually you will not want to go out and "sarge" aka go out and game and sex/women will not be a strong motivator (since you already getting it or burned out).... However, people ask me how i have been able to do it for so long, though i am not going to project since i am a total "outlier", so I am going to be a bit more objective and show you some that apply to me, but can apply to you and some i seen from other seducers (even if they don't apply to me):
- Trying a different game style.- So going from lets say night game, to day game or vice versa, can prolong the journey.- I did not include online, cause online even if successful, when coming from other styles... Though it provides a "temporary" extension, once you get it, it becomes very repetitive and boring. But, again online can work too. So online is more short term solution due to boredom.
- Trying a different game approach.- Similar to the above trying a different game approach from example from natural game, to technical game or vice versa... Can give you an excitement and help you prolong.
- Trying a different routine/gambit/tech.- For the more of the technical guys that follow gambits/routines etc.... Trying new stuff can help prolong a bit.
- Taking a temporary break and coming back.- This i don't like, but i seen other guys that have done the temporary breaks due to burn out and come back... I personally don't like this approach (but i am projecting)... But, some gurus endorse and like this approach.
- Trying different venues.- Going to game in a different area for day game such as different malls, cities, streets etc.... In night game similar going to different clubs or different areas.
- Trying different cities.- Just like the above gaming in a different city you are used to. Problem with this hard to prolong due to traveling distance if is too far (more than 45 minutes) so is short term
- Trying different countries.- just like the above instead of a city. Tring a total different country. Again, problem is short term solution hard to prolong
- Changing different clothing styles.- After you get laid a lot it will be hard to just use "women" as motivation, so trying different clothing style/different outfits will make you look forward to go out to try your new "Style" or "clothes", in the last few years this has been one of my strongest motivations to go out, i been obsessed with fashion on the last 5 years.
- changing different appearance.- So changing hair style, dye color, facial hair style, body composition.- Again, these also other than "women" has helped prolong my going out.
- Being a coach/influencer/writer/mentor.- You not wanting to be what i call "a time machine seducer" and keep up with the latest tech, social dynamics, trying new angles and innovation..... Then bring it back to the community for the love of the community, or validation, or monetary incentive, or competition etc... will make you prolong your seduction lifetime.
- Trying the alternative.- Some co-workers ask me "you are too old to be clubbing and getting women" and i said "ok" tell me what did you do on Saturday night and go in detail.... "oh i watch Netflix/video game/stay with the kids" and i went "Brah"... Done...
- No drinking or drugs.- This will totally help a lot, specially for night game....
- Getting a younger wing.- Sometimes having a young wing that is hungry and hustling can help you re-juvinate.
- new dance.- These more for seducers that are into dancing, trying new dances and perfecting it can help prolong a bit as well.
- Fitness.- Seducers that are into fitness can use fitness as motivation (for me dancing and walking for hours at club) i burn probably about 1k to 5k calories in a night for example. Some day gamers walk 20-30 k steps on outings. Or to show off your new body.
- Competition challenge.- Some seducers compete against each other and this could be an incentive (though again short term).
- trying crazy shit.- Swinclub game, teaching a girl how to pick up other women, etc...
^ everything i have mentioned i have field tested, some i like more than others, but again i am a total outlier... If you have other you can mention them, that have worked out for you. Also guys remember pick up not static, thing change constantly, you can have a dead season follow by amazing seasons, night outs... Just knowing that is a motivation, for example i think God is a troll, clubs have been popping lately in my area, but again could be the season (spring break), seen tourist as well, out of the blue.... So everything is so unpredictable at times that can also be used as motivation to go out, you never know what crazy adventure you can encounter.
Seduction can be taxing, after couple of months/years/decades eventually you will not want to go out and "sarge" aka go out and game and sex/women will not be a strong motivator (since you already getting it or burned out).... However, people ask me how i have been able to do it for so long, though i am not going to project since i am a total "outlier", so I am going to be a bit more objective and show you some that apply to me, but can apply to you and some i seen from other seducers (even if they don't apply to me):
- Trying a different game style.- So going from lets say night game, to day game or vice versa, can prolong the journey.- I did not include online, cause online even if successful, when coming from other styles... Though it provides a "temporary" extension, once you get it, it becomes very repetitive and boring. But, again online can work too. So online is more short term solution due to boredom.
- Trying a different game approach.- Similar to the above trying a different game approach from example from natural game, to technical game or vice versa... Can give you an excitement and help you prolong.
- Trying a different routine/gambit/tech.- For the more of the technical guys that follow gambits/routines etc.... Trying new stuff can help prolong a bit.
- Taking a temporary break and coming back.- This i don't like, but i seen other guys that have done the temporary breaks due to burn out and come back... I personally don't like this approach (but i am projecting)... But, some gurus endorse and like this approach.
- Trying different venues.- Going to game in a different area for day game such as different malls, cities, streets etc.... In night game similar going to different clubs or different areas.
- Trying different cities.- Just like the above gaming in a different city you are used to. Problem with this hard to prolong due to traveling distance if is too far (more than 45 minutes) so is short term
- Trying different countries.- just like the above instead of a city. Tring a total different country. Again, problem is short term solution hard to prolong
- Changing different clothing styles.- After you get laid a lot it will be hard to just use "women" as motivation, so trying different clothing style/different outfits will make you look forward to go out to try your new "Style" or "clothes", in the last few years this has been one of my strongest motivations to go out, i been obsessed with fashion on the last 5 years.
- changing different appearance.- So changing hair style, dye color, facial hair style, body composition.- Again, these also other than "women" has helped prolong my going out.
- Being a coach/influencer/writer/mentor.- You not wanting to be what i call "a time machine seducer" and keep up with the latest tech, social dynamics, trying new angles and innovation..... Then bring it back to the community for the love of the community, or validation, or monetary incentive, or competition etc... will make you prolong your seduction lifetime.
- Trying the alternative.- Some co-workers ask me "you are too old to be clubbing and getting women" and i said "ok" tell me what did you do on Saturday night and go in detail.... "oh i watch Netflix/video game/stay with the kids" and i went "Brah"... Done...
- No drinking or drugs.- This will totally help a lot, specially for night game....
- Getting a younger wing.- Sometimes having a young wing that is hungry and hustling can help you re-juvinate.
- new dance.- These more for seducers that are into dancing, trying new dances and perfecting it can help prolong a bit as well.
- Fitness.- Seducers that are into fitness can use fitness as motivation (for me dancing and walking for hours at club) i burn probably about 1k to 5k calories in a night for example. Some day gamers walk 20-30 k steps on outings. Or to show off your new body.
- Competition challenge.- Some seducers compete against each other and this could be an incentive (though again short term).
- trying crazy shit.- Swinclub game, teaching a girl how to pick up other women, etc...
^ everything i have mentioned i have field tested, some i like more than others, but again i am a total outlier... If you have other you can mention them, that have worked out for you. Also guys remember pick up not static, thing change constantly, you can have a dead season follow by amazing seasons, night outs... Just knowing that is a motivation, for example i think God is a troll, clubs have been popping lately in my area, but again could be the season (spring break), seen tourist as well, out of the blue.... So everything is so unpredictable at times that can also be used as motivation to go out, you never know what crazy adventure you can encounter.
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