Getting her to win you over gets her to like you more than the other way around
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When you've mastered your process you'll be doing the same things and saying the same things you've said to other girls (most of the time)
This is fun and makes things easier for you since you don't have to figure out what to do or what to say next with every girl you meet
No matter how smooth you get though ,it pays to come across as less practiced
It makes you natural and the girls feel kinda special "to you"
You'll chase and get burned a no of times
Before you hit the right balance of when to persist and when not to
And that's okay
You're learning just like everyone ahead of you did
No one was born perfect
If she gives you the runaround about meeting up again after you close
Or
She gets skittish or skeptical
Don't persist & don't chase
Instead throw the ball in her court
If it's happening frequently especially with girls that you like and would love to keep around ,check on your bf potential
Your process should be congruent from beginning to end
You don't get her chasing you to the bedroom
Then turn around and chase her for sex
Same way you don't chase her for a relationship
If it's chasing,she should chase you for both
You don't have to ask girls for pussy to get pussy
Not even when you're in a relationship
Attract her every step of the way and escalate on her right and she'll put out herself
Natural.
Unnegotiated .
It's okay to bail when you can tell you have low odds of succeeding
Don't beat yourself up over it
Things become more efficient when you can predict your odds of success earlier in advance tbh
You should be all about efficiency
It's not the end of the world when you don't do it right the first time
Every day is a new day to make another attempt
& Do it good
You'll can lower people's guards easily and more frequently when you appeal to their emotions
Society will tell you you're special and all... but at the end of the day, people are all about themselves
Resistance doesn't go away.You just get good at skirting it or beating it
That girl you had an easy time getting will be a hard one for another guy
That girl you had a hard time getting will be an easy one for another guy
Git gud( love this by Hector)
It won't take forever or longer than it has to,when she wants you
Good venues,good logistics,good calibration,good no of good approaches,good fundamentals,good game...good everything
Optimize all these
& The sky is the limit moving forward
One step to being an asshole is having people make things all worth the while for you
They won't hate you for it if they're getting something of value out of you in return
It's way easier to get girls to initiate sex with you when you give them a good time in the bedroom than when you don't
You can easily skirt most rules that girls have that are not in your favor by having killer fundies and top-notch game
Girls will tell you they hate you're seeing other girls and fuck you regardless lol
You ain't playing hard to get right if she feels you're completely outside of her reach & things aren't moving forward
Running the opening and hook phase right ,asking her out first before grabbing her no and doing it on high points will get you more numbers
If she doesn't give hers out ,she's softly rejecting you
Keep it moving
"I don't go out"= I don't want to go on a date with you
"I'm never free/I'm always busy" = Just leave me alone
Pride, coming from a place of having been there and done it before to good effect, is good
Let no one tell you otherwise -
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