approach anxiety

I am starting this journal here with a lot of humility. I saw a few people doing daily approach challenges, got excited and created a challenge of my own. It was to give 3 compliments everyday. The challenge beat me already and I have realized that as a beginner, this is wayyy harder than I...

Hey there Fellas. I'm back with some questions and encounters from my Quest to Master Daygame! Before I jump into my question about how to close the Female target for personal info in Daygame groups, mainly Duo's and Threesomes (ha..ha..ha.. not there yet but soon) I mean Triplets, let me...

I joined the forums a couple months ago and started practicing doing approaches in public in order to try tackle my approach anxiety, which was going okay but I had to take my focus away from practicing seduction during the last month due to other things in life. I practiced some direct...

Boys, i have made it to a very nice country called Switzerland ( of-course, you might have your own opinion and i respect that but i really love this place ! ) I am currently working in Zurich and holy shit, i recognized that i was the problem the entire time I had my excuses in Pakistan (...

I chatted up a couple of girls the other day as I was walking by on a trail by the beach. I had seen them in the water earlier, taking pictures of each other, while I was on my phone texting a friend about plans for the weekend. We talked for probably 30-60 seconds, and in that time the one girl...

I want this post to be fresh air in this ecosystem, especially for all you incels here that even though you know some theory, have not been able to put it into practice and actually get result. This post is going to solve this for you. (and if not I would LOVE your feedback/critizism) This...

When I was working out in the gym yesterday, I saw a girl staring at me as I was taking a break. I smiled at her as she returned the smile, after which I turned to go work out. The same female looked at me again after 15 minutes, and her body language was friendly. I was going to approach her at...

Guys I'm at an intermediate level of the game. I got a bunch of approaches under my belt, won some, lost many but hey at least I'm getting laid more than I used to. Now my problem is I don't get approach anxiety at the beginning of the night, I approach (when I'm good I'm good, when I'm bad I...

Hey guys! So im 28 years old and i first found this site when I was 21, 7 years ago Back then, i had no idea wtf i was doing with my life,dropped out of college at 20 and was figuring alot out. But I was able to use this site, upgrade fundamentals, and find some wings. I did day game, scored...

Uff so much to write here so I will just keep it very short. Honestly overcoming approach anxiety to me feels like quitting smoking. I approach and I DO GET RESULTS, I get dates, I get laids. And then.. I just f freeze again! The bloody anxiety doesn't go away, I just stop approaching and lose...

Did my first approach mission in a while the other day. Alas, as is usual in my current time and place, I  bitched  out on every  last girl. But I  still had some interesting experiences with body  language and got several invitations. Ran  into sticking  points over age, following women, and...

TL;DR:    Iʼve come temporarily to a town of 14,000, but will soon move to a city of 1.7  million, full  of my type. Is  it worth spending  time trying  to overcome deep‑rooted approach  inhibition while Iʼm here in  this town, or should  I  forget girls here, allowing me to move quicker...

I wanted to start this journal to keep me motivated and accountable. I am new to pick-up. A little background. I grew up in a culture that does everything to keep women and men apart. Interaction between men and women were almost non-existent. That was a huge handicap after moving to a western...

Changing Aim The 14 Day Noob Challenge helped me get a better picture of where I am in my Game journey. Having completed 13 out of 14 challenges, and with the new year coming, it's time I sit down and recalibrate my approach to learning Game. I'm asking the experienced PUAs here to help me...

Hello everyone, I've recently gotten a bit disappointed with the number and quality of women that I am meeting through social circle and tinder. And, there are a number of things that I want to iron out when it comes to my vibe, which I think will require a lot of trial and error to get right...

I am currently looking into methods of meeting new women. I have decent game, which I acquired through bars and social circle mostly, but abundance is a problem. I really want to bring more women into my life and achieve the feeling that no matter what, in 2-3 weeks I can find a...

So I went out again with my friend, to that same place we went to and he pushed me to do my first approach outside a club/bar or some uni party. I didn't even had much money to go out (lots of stupid crap like video games I bought to keep myself entertained, also as a junior programmer I don't...

Yesterday I went out with my buddy. I'm feeling more and more tired of online giving less and less results and I kinda just wanted to see some hot girls, so we went to this place with a bunch of little restaurants and places that serve beer and drinks. This beautiful, intelligent girl I met on...

I have recently been going to the mall once a week, mostly on weekends when the mall is popping. The overall goal of getting to the mall is doing Day Game and getting over the fate every man has to go through "Approach Anxiety" I never been good at approach women and starting a conversation out...

So I need some help from you guys from the daygame side of things... I'm been pretty much a night game only type of guy for like two/three years, going out consistenly. I've pulled some cuties and made out with hundreds of girls (I did fuck up many sex opportunities because of terrible...