attainability

I'm hardly flirting, and just focused on being social unless theres a friendly/social reciprocation on her end, that feels like she might want more. I'm never pushy, and try to be decent/non needy/tryhard/creepy, but when i talk to girls I've already added on social, they block, dont respond or...

I know that investment from her side is an important component, and that my and her investment should be fairly similar, with my investment slightly lower. I'm curious however what is that makes a woman willing to invest from her own initiative, without me asking her for it. I dated these two...

I know that investment from her side is an important component, and that my and her investment should be fairly similar, with my investment slightly lower. I'm curious however what is that makes a woman willing to invest from her own initiative, without me asking her for it. I dated these two...

Hey gurus, amateur here! I often find myself in a holding pattern with women. I got out in a holding pattern with one, gorgeous successful 31yo women, engineer works out etc and got myself out by cancelling and rescheduling because of a new girl which is AWESOME but I find myself enamoured with...

I've recently read @Warped Mindless article about Feyman's Learning Technique. If you follow the method, you were supposed to learn things fast. https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/attn-newbies-here-is-how-to-improve-fast.25513/ I decided to give it a try to learn Qualification. One of...

I have recently been educating myself about attainability from Chase's and Hector's materials. One thing which I can't comprehend is the advice of 'moving fast' when your attainability is too low. How moving fast improves attainability? Ok, I understand that moving too slow will result in her...

As much as I hate writing these failure reports, I don't think I can find this last piece of the puzzle by myself. Also, I may become the number one contributor of FU reports on this forum :LOL: One may wonder, why I sound frustrated when I'm meeting a new girl everyday, its cos I dont post all...

Guy came across as unattainable if he has better look, education, intelligence, car, job, etc. i.e. anything better than women he games. BUT personal qualities don’t actually increase your value at all (because women go for behavior) they just lower your attainability. There is that female...

I'm starting to realize that I've lost a lot of girls coming across as a playboy when displaying preselection. Although I do it very subtly, girls are smart to pick up playerish vibes and it hurts my game causing attainability issues. Also, I meet them through cold approach. So, they'd think...

There is that mantra: if all women don’t like you it is caused by you. OK, now how can guy evaluate what he does wrong? Simply, women don’t find me attractive no matter what I do. They don’t see what they want in me. Here is statistics data for me: 15% are cold bitches or full of themselves...

Hello hunters, I'll be as short as possible, There's this girl, who perceives me as high value (feels intense attraction toward me) BUT with whom I screwed for not 'qualifying' properly. Last time we met she told me she wanted to stay as friends because she felt I just like her as a girl, and...

I often run into attainability problems with insecure women i.e. women with low self-esteem. I saw that many guys have the same problem with these women. No matter how we try our attainability (or just relatibility) is never high enough are we get rejected. I have noticed that due to lack of...

Hey guys, I've started to notice that it seems like people get nervous around me sometimes, and I'm struggling to find out why. I would say I'm a chilled out guy, and I don't talk too much. I greet people with a smile / eyebrow flash generally, and I enjoy being by myself. When I'm around...