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  1. James Cruse

    Attraction is not Enough: The Vast Distance from Attraction/Arousal > Sex

    Most of the seduction community is focused heavily on “ATTRACTION” rather than focusing on noticing attraction as a: start to the seduction, an opening, a foot in the door - rather than an inevitable signal sex is about to happen. Alot of men think: “Oh, she’s attracted. I’ll do some other...
  2. Y

    How can i make a good impression on a short date with a milf?

    Hi all! so i have (tentatively) a short, day time coffee date with an older woman that i met on the train about a week ago. I talked to her and i got her number, i told her she was a lovely woman and i would love to get to know her more over coffee (so i tried to frame it non-platonic) Now...
  3. Y

    If i don't feel like escalating on a first date, what should i do to keep her hooked?

    So, i had a date with a girl, who i liked but i did not feel too sure of escalating with her but i tried to escalate (thinking that if i didn't, it would give her a friend vibe) by kissing her at the end, she was nice, when in leaned in to kiss her she softly said no and turned - so i landed...
  4. G

    Conversation recall feedback loop

    Hey guys, I'm not sure if this has been discussed earlier or you already use it in your dates but I thought I'll share this technique which I use on dates that rapidly builds attraction and comfort. This is similar to conversation threading but this technique amplifies it a little more that...
  5. DakenMarquis

    Saving face, status protection and respect

    So before I start this: let me preface, I know women are "silly & cute." But I can help but take offense at my status and image being disrespected. I never blow up of course, but I have the notion that fighting to preserve your respect/status positioning in a group or with a woman violates the...
  6. R

    Does using condoms signal a person is not totally into another person? What about pulling out? What about "don't cum inside me"?

    From another thread @Chase wrote: I don't recall having a problem of asking a woman "do you have any condoms" and that ending the sex. Nor do I recall "I'll be back" and then coming back into the room with a condom. This was women at my house or their house, not in a public place like the...
  7. W

    Are dilated pupils real sign of attraction/interest?

    Many times I have read in seduction literature that if someone likes you, its pupils dilate. But is this really true? However, many times I would meet a girl that will give me strong eye contact with pupils dilated making her eyes almost black. Still, after some time of my let’s say acceptable...
  8. mist

    Leonardo Dicaprio Aka Mr. Steal Yo Girl

    A funny video on what a high quality lover/provider has on a monstrously high value provider. Lmao Maybe Jeff will find girls chase and up his game.
  9. C

    Understanding how attraction and arousal works

    Hey guys. This seems like a simple question but apparently I'm getting confused over something that should be simple to me. It'll make sense after I explain it. I do this thing where if I really want to find out if I'm physically or sexually attracted to the woman I'm seeing with, I would...
  10. T

    What should my approach to getting dates from Tinder be?

    Hello ! lately I am confused about what the best approach is. By 'approach' I mean exactly this: Should I text with her a significant (maybe 1-2 weeks) amount of time (and 'seduce' her) and then ask her out? Or should I go straight and ask her out in the first 5 messages, and if it does not...
  11. Elliot

    Does smoking weed publicly affect attractiveness?

    So today took a walk to go and get high for some reason. ( You could say I'm addicted but I almost love smoking weed.) I have read health benefits on the effect it has on your brain and treating any injuries or infections in the body. It might be social anxiety and judgement I'm projecting on...
  12. R

    Socializing Compliance, Submission and Attraction

    Recently, I have been so mean to a girl and it seems I am getting away with so many shit with her . Each time I think she will get mad at me but she doesn’t . She is just an acquaintance . She is a latina (25 yo) Here’s an example of what I have said : 1- I implicitly told her she was slut. I...
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