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  1. Jan

    LR From a bar to lay in one and a half hour. Bangladeshi Hacker.

    She was at the bar with her friend, ordering drinks when are eyes met for the first time. We smiled at each other and I approached her with some cliche opener like cheers, how is your night or something like that. She was there with a friend, but I had some initial one-to-one time with her, as...
  2. Jan

    Qualification

    I've recently read @Warped Mindless article about Feyman's Learning Technique. If you follow the method, you were supposed to learn things fast. https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/attn-newbies-here-is-how-to-improve-fast.25513/ I decided to give it a try to learn Qualification. One of...
  3. Jan

    LR Did she pump and dump me?

    INTRO I met this woman on a tennis camp. She was there with 2 friends, and I was there with a friend of mine. Our interactions during the camp were purely social. As a matter of fact I barely had any opportunity to talk to her one to one. I mingled with her friends and generally with...
  4. T

    FU Girl Wanted Sex But Had Continuous LMR

    I went on a coffee date with a girl from Hinge. The date went well (flirting, strong eye contact, sexual intent was shown by both parties, kino, etc). Within the first 20 minutes of the date, she was already asking where I lived and if I lived by myself. Fast forward to the end of the coffee...
  5. G

    Conversation recall feedback loop

    Hey guys, I'm not sure if this has been discussed earlier or you already use it in your dates but I thought I'll share this technique which I use on dates that rapidly builds attraction and comfort. This is similar to conversation threading but this technique amplifies it a little more that...
  6. Jan

    Difference between rapport/emotional connection and comfort

    I have recently read Rollo Tomassi's blog post where he argued that there is a difference between rapport/emotional connection and comfort. I have always somehow meshed these concepts in my head as one. Comfort stage seems to be my weak point (or maybe it's rapport). I have spent some time...
  7. Jan

    How to be respectful to a woman?

    I have had several instances where I had lost an already interested girl (or even one I already had sexual relationship with) due disrespecting her one way of another. So far the most common ways I feel I disrespected her, are the follows: - DIRECT ASK FOR SEX EARLY - asking several girls...
  8. T

    Girl Leaves the Interaction Shortly After Isolating

    I’ve recently gotten to the point where I am able to move/isolate women after I open and reach the hook point. (Night Game at Bars) However, I’m reaching a sticking point where the girl will say she has to ‘go find her friends’ just minutes after we get to a new part of the venue or even if we...
  9. Jan

    She froze every time I escalated. How to comfort this?

    I met this chick on Tinder. She is 26. Before the date we talked for few days. We also talked sex. She said that she is looking for a dominant man, she told me about the toys she has, and what kind of fun she likes. We went out for a date in a cafe, and a walk afterwards. We kissed few times...
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