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Overview Deep diving can be a powerful tool, but you need to know what to look for. While studying international management, I was introduced to a cool leadership topic that lent itself to pickup: VABEs. Values: What does she consider important? Assumptions: What do she take for granted...

I really like the opener that @StrayDog uses, "I can tell you're putting a lot of thought into this decision." I use it, but I struggle to follow up. I used it today, and she smiled and said "I'm checking everything out," to which I replied "Yeah, they got a lot of good stuff here." And she...

Went out on a date with a quite pretty college girl. On the date, she was keeping an aloof mannerism, and threw out some subtle statements, which I think indicate she think she is the better one. Some of them are such as: "A lot of guys are chasing me in college right now" "Guys only know how...

Does plowing work for you? I’ll get responses, but no questions for me, or any conversation that is unprompted. And I don’t want it to turn into an interview of me just asking questions. At some point she’s got to reciprocate, ask me a question.

There's a situation I've been running into recently with a guy who hangs out in one of my social circles. He is mid-twenties, fairly smart, but very full of himself... I hate speaking with him one-on-one or with a small group, because he just talks endlessly about himself or his ideas without...

One of the problem I encounter after opening a girl is, the girl will be responsive but her emotion will be neutral and talk just a little. I tried using the keywords the girl gives to create rapport to open her up more, but I am not sure if I did it correctly. Saw a girl wearing earphones in a...

Met similar cases long ago where the girl straight up reject me but I don't know how to handle it. That day I was dressed up nicely to do some pickups with a friend. This girl was standing at the McDonalds kiosk machine ordering food. The following is the convo: Me: Sitting in McDonalds...

I did some rapport building during pickup as @Will_V suggested, but I felt there is need to add more man-woman topics. However, I am not sure how to add them. Here is a typical convo: Me: Hi. Just now I walk pass by I saw you, I think you look a bit attractive, so come say hi to you Her: Oh hi...

I will usually open with something pretty standard like: "Hey how's it going? I just wanted to meet you real quick." After the opener, I will introduce myself and ask how they know each other but it rarely gets more than a few words out of them. I then proceed to go into interview mode...

I've started going out to bars alone at night during the weekdays. I'm a pretty attractive guy with a decent sense of style and I notice a lot of women looking at me, positioning themselves closer to me, trying to get my attention etc... But I'm so self-consonance about my social skills that...

Hi I have felt that I have nothing to add to the conversation with people, and find my self being silent and quiet most of the time, after analyzing my mindset, I realized I talk only when I have the right thing to say, and unless I have the right thing to say I don't speak, this makes me come...

It's really frustrating when you've done everything right and the girl is also into you and you blurt out something which is a deal-breaker for the girl and it's game over :confused: There are hell lotta variables I need to be careful in saying. Again, it's not the same with every girl...

Hi everyone! I am quite new here compared to a lot of the masters here in this forum. I have read Chase's eBook "How to Make Girls Chase" and have been reading on the forum for the last year or so, but this is my first time posting. A little bit of background about myself: I am 21M, living in...

hey guys! Is this possible for girls to not really be much of a talker ? I understand they can be into you but i ran out material on a 1 hour date talking to her (a shy inexperienced girl) she said she isn’t intreating(not necessarily) which could be true and it doesn’t give me much to work...

Howzit all. I'm pretty sure there's articles written on this somewhere - I can't seem to find them so I'd appreciate anyone sending me a few. I'm working on my night game and have become good at approaching women that are alone or with their girlfriends. Any advice how to approach, open and...

Good afternoon friends, I have faced certain conversations that took me off guard and i would like to know what pros would have done 1. How to respond to the "I don't know you" question? simply tell her all about me and ruin the mystery? what to say? (I found this one as the form of last minute...

Hi All, I have this repeated experience: I cold-approach a girl at a coffee shop. Great interaction as far as I can tell I ask for her number and get it. I make sure I continue the conversation as much as I can When I follow up, I get SILENCE! Or she flakes! This is happened 5-6 times...

A subtle but powerful key to managing conversations with women. Game generation one tended to rest a lot on spitting game; the art of leading and plowing with multiple stimulating techs. And definitely useful. Using statements followed. Muti-threading and others. These are the more famous...