escalation

Basically this question, to give some context: I approached this set in a bar, there were 3 girls, 2 0s and one 1 who i got closer to when some absolute social blackhole was making a fuzz with the other 0s. We started talking, deepdiving and she seemed pretty receptive. I applied a good amount...

So since I moved to the Bay Area in Mountain View. I get a lot of choosing signals from girls but I suck at acting on them. I was over reliant on online dating in Toronto, but it's harder in the Bay.. As I read articles on girls chase about how women flirt I have had strong choosing signals...

This is similar to a conversation I was having with JM about what I eventually figured out that I needed to do when I was using Dating apps in Latin America to reduce or completely remove flaking and notoriously late dates while in Latin America: A Method to get women to commit, their...

I’m a teen guy, been talking to this girl that came on holiday with me with a few other friends for the past week or so. I’ve been asking her to go out alone on walks at night, and she always says yes. The other night, I found a way to hold her hand, by pretending I was giving her something then...

Posting this for future reference. I dont have a specific question here, tho feedback is always welcome - might help me spot other stuff i need to work on. tl;dr Had a stunner over last night and i botched the escalation, as i was worrying too much about potentially fucking-up with such a...

Hi, so in about 12 hours i will be going to a coffee date with a tourist i cold approached her today and asked her if i could take her to coffee, she agreed she has a busy rest of the day, as she said "because then I plan a lot of excursions" so the coffee date will take place at 9 am in the...

So, as you might know, i am quite new to cold approaching and dating and very, very shy about escalation (cultural conditioning that i am undoing and have undone to quite an extent at the time of writing). Right now, even though i do get horny from time to time or can get sexual urges, i...

So, i had a date with a girl, who i liked but i did not feel too sure of escalating with her but i tried to escalate (thinking that if i didn't, it would give her a friend vibe) by kissing her at the end, she was nice, when in leaned in to kiss her she softly said no and turned - so i landed...

This past weekend, I pulled a girl from the bar for the first time in 7 months. It was pretty smooth sailing at the bar. Handled typical objections (finding her friends & how is she gonna get home afterwards). I actually remembered to move/isolate her. I did better at leading than I have in...

Small breakthrough in female psychology for me. Maybe "water is wet" for some, maybe helpful for some others. Could also be that I read this stuff here already before but it just resurfaced in my consciousness now. I fucked up with a girl a couple days ago. I think I have other chances with her...

I have successfully made women give me handjob by simply taking her hand and putting it on my cock, or inside my pants. But how do you guys make her give you head during escalation? Most woman blow me during sex on their own, but I'm wondering if there are some techniques to do it proactively...

Recently I've been trying to start approaching girls (mostly daygame) when I was out and about. I'm inexperienced and rather introverted, but an experience from a couple of months ago led me to try and improve this area of my life. So I met this girl at my gym. Pretty short, with a pair of...

I have been with 23 women, majority from daygame. About half of them were relatively easy to bang after you get them home: slow dance neck kissing ass touching kissing pussy touching undressing fucking But! The other half put up a fight for every inch of the escalation. You are laying in bed...

As I explained in the other post, I'm facing a lot of wild cards or curve balls which I don't know how to address and I'm getting the same results since I'm doing the same thing over and over again. Since there are different wild cards, with every girl and I've been facing a lot of different...

My mood & dressing: I had a wild weekend with lot of alcohol and still recovering from hangover and have an upset stomach. Yet I managed to work today. I was waiting to get home and crash early. I didn't look my best but not too bad I think. I was dressed in CK pullover with a jacket on top...

Hello everyone, It's 2AM and I'm writing this cause I feel like an idiot and I want my dick to shrivel and fall off since I have no real use for it anyway. 2 dates tonight. Both from online, I'm getting really consistent results using the process outlined by @Regal Tiger. I got laid twice last...

During escalation to sex I’ve found it very profitable to command her to help along in the process. After you make the initial definitive sexual move which in my opinion would be kissing, it opens up the door to having her comply with more sexual things. Of course you can have her comply prior...

Okay this is kind of a compound question. I'll start with the question and then backtrack to the story. 1) What the hell do I do when I'm out on a date, and another girl that I'm into calls? 2) If you're dating a girl that's kinda open minded but from a religious background, how aggressive can...

I've been puzzled over all the numbers I get that just become endless small talk or conversations that don't lead to dates. Even when someone agrees to go out there's only a 1 in 10 chance they will show. Maybe I need to stop texting and call instead. Ideas?

Haven't made a post in a while but I was able to get laid (yes) and I may tell that tale sometime in the future but for now here's one that just happened. Not entirely sure if this count as a FU but ill errrr on the side of caution this time with just a FR label. I did a direct open with...