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    Expectations Recruiter GF

    Summary of the text below for the less patient: Do You think it is possible and on what conditions/compromises/expectations to find a serious long term girl/wife who is hard into sharing/watching a boyfriend with another girl? All Your thoughts on the matter are welcome. Bare with me, I’ll try...
  2. Jan

    OR Two identical scenarios: "I don't know you long enough"

    I had two very similar scenarios, both originating from a bar pickup. Both of them were there with a friend. We had a cool conversation but they left kind of early and they gave me their phone number. We texted and set a date. In both of these situations, the girls were kind of in a rush. Not...
  3. TwoNameGame

    What to look for when deep diving: VABEs

    Overview Deep diving can be a powerful tool, but you need to know what to look for. While studying international management, I was introduced to a cool leadership topic that lent itself to pickup: VABEs. Values: What does she consider important? Assumptions: What do she take for granted...
  4. AdamC

    Which One are You? - A Vampire, Werewolf, or Pirate?

    So, a little while back, I came across one of the lecture videos of a pretty well-known Psychologist who's incite I find very applicable, and he described a recent study some google engineers did on the types of sexual fantasy characters females search, and they came up with 4 Archetypes...
  5. Jan

    FU Expectations mismatch on a date and poor sexual vibe

    PRE-DATE The report is about a 50+ MILF I met on Tinder. During convo on Tinder I stated pretty early that I'm looking for fun here. She replied to me that she is also looking for fun but multi-dimensional. She clarified later that she is looking for someone to go on dates with, go to cinema...
  6. Jan

    Expectations mismatch

    I have recently been very close to a successful seductions but I failed at a certain stage because she wasn't able to meet my expectations, or I wasn't able to meet hers. I look for short term fun and they usually seek something more meaningul. I feel like there is almost inherent mismatch...
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