expectations

Overview Deep diving can be a powerful tool, but you need to know what to look for. While studying international management, I was introduced to a cool leadership topic that lent itself to pickup: VABEs. Values: What does she consider important? Assumptions: What do she take for granted...

So, a little while back, I came across one of the lecture videos of a pretty well-known Psychologist who's incite I find very applicable, and he described a recent study some google engineers did on the types of sexual fantasy characters females search, and they came up with 4 Archetypes...

PRE-DATE The report is about a 50+ MILF I met on Tinder. During convo on Tinder I stated pretty early that I'm looking for fun here. She replied to me that she is also looking for fun but multi-dimensional. She clarified later that she is looking for someone to go on dates with, go to cinema...

I have recently been very close to a successful seductions but I failed at a certain stage because she wasn't able to meet my expectations, or I wasn't able to meet hers. I look for short term fun and they usually seek something more meaningul. I feel like there is almost inherent mismatch...