#firstdate

Does anyone have any recommendations for books/techniques/articles or whatever for first dates? I heard about the Black Dragon method, but I haven’t been able to pinpoint where he talks about first dates besides a couple articles.

Dating App Dates: Wasn’t really going to post much about dates I get from the dating apps, since I usually do pretty well in regards to those, but I’ve had a string of bad ones. For context, I’ve been on about 50 first dates in the past two years, all from Bumble or Hinge. About 30% of them I...

So, i had a date with a girl, who i liked but i did not feel too sure of escalating with her but i tried to escalate (thinking that if i didn't, it would give her a friend vibe) by kissing her at the end, she was nice, when in leaned in to kiss her she softly said no and turned - so i landed...

Hey guys, I went on my first ever date yesterday night. I'm from India and I'm 16. I'm new to this so ill try my best to right an engaging field report. I have a really aesthetic and high value profile on instagram, with really good pictures of me, of parties, and people etc. Boosts up my...

Met this Latina a couple weeks ago. I already had a trip planned to her city for this week. I told her this, and she told me, cool then lets keep in touch, maybe we get a drink. I ping her once before the trip, we text/build rapport a bit and i leave it at that. So fast-forward to today. I...

I greeted her with a hug and complimented her on her outfit. After I got my coffee, we sat at a table and had some basic get-to-know-you talk. I did a cold read on her ethnicity by assuming she was Puerto Rican (she was mixed B&W). She mentioned that she used sunscreen, which I teased her about...

Omw back home from a puzzling short date. Met her 2-3 weeks ago in the city. Shes a cute uni student. The initial interaction was very short and she gave me her number on her initiative. Weird already. She always replied very quickly and briefly to my texts and arranging the date was super...

Hey guys had a girl who has been into me,and flirting etc, we kissed, went on a date bout 2 wks ago, made sure to make discretion and casual frames, and have stayed in touch over snapchat/ number. Issue is we were flirting last week, I was teasing her about her kissing technique (mind you kept...

I met a girl at the nightclub last Saturday and danced with get she grabbed my hip and I pulled her in and kissed as I thought it was an escalation window. She also kissed back and ran back to dance with her friends. I ran into her again ,teased her for being a sloppy kisser and then I talked a...

If I scheduled a date for Saturday (on Monday) and sent her a ping text on Thursday, should I also text her Friday or should I just wait till Saturday?

This is interesting, read till the end :) I'm a bit excited tbh since I've always dreaded texting. This is a huge win for me since I got the girl to come on a date only through texting. Maybe I cracked the texting code? Thanks @Skills :) I have a few questions at the end of the post...

My mood & dressing: I had a wild weekend with lot of alcohol and still recovering from hangover and have an upset stomach. Yet I managed to work today. I was waiting to get home and crash early. I didn't look my best but not too bad I think. I was dressed in CK pullover with a jacket on top...

Hello there, Last friday I asked this girl from my class out, she said yes and it went pretty nice. We made some physical contact and she hugged me at the end. However, I see her at school everyday and it's becoming incredibly awkward and I just don't think I have the courage to walk up to her...