frame

"If we are going to have sex tonight, I'm not gonna see you again." I have heard this few times already. Her frame here is something like - if you are going to push for sex tonight, I will treat you as a lover and won't see you again. Or you can slow down, and I will treat you as a boyfriend...

So I had an... 'interesting' conversation with a friend of mine who is a natural, but dismisses cold approaches. I've been trying a slower social circle game with this shy clasmate (unlucky obstacles reducing time to talk). My friend told me that you will end up friendzoned at some point if you...

I met this chick in a bus. She was on her way to university, I was on my way to work. I sat next to her and opened with "Anything interesting on tik-tok?". She was sitting next to me browsing on her mobile. "Yeah, it's quite interesting." "Really, what is it? Videos of funny cats or...

Has anyone else noticed the need for both masculinity and vulnerability in day game? While trying to improve my posture I noticed I get more looks, but my personaility becomes more hard and stiff - fundamentals improvement Meanwhile when I take myself less seriously (be more vulnerable), i can...

Journal, question, "field observation", whatever, just thought that this situation is starting to become a bit interesting: I've been seeing (and sleeping with) a really hot girl lately. With "really hot" I mean guys turn their heads after her as we walk by, she did some modelling in her teens...

Hi all, Got this text from a few girls over the past months. Some girls suggest this in a kinda cute, shy way (group A). Other girls are quite condescending, i.e. "i'm busy, so make it spontaneous", or "please let's make it spontaneous, i don't like planning lately" (group B). My attitude as...

Welcome to Frame Challenges, a fun frame control exercise where we present to you awkward, challenging, and uncomfortable situations and challenge you to frame your way out of them. Do you have what it takes? This was a scenario I was faced with recently and I think it would be a nice exercise...

So there was this girl I was with, fairly cute, and a great girl personality wise. She was pretty compliant with me overall and everything was going well. We are in the same social circle by chance, so we saw each other again at this place. I walked into the place and there she was, sitting two...

Hello, first time posting on the forums but long time lurker, so feel free to go crazy on the jargon hahah :) I'm interested in how one can maintain one's frame strength over time, particularly after having been a weak man for a long time. I think most men that go through big transformations...

I've been in the community for 4 years now (28 now, known about it since 2007 but couldn't practice it till recently due to logistical issues). I have an 8 lay count but I'm very in-experienced (only was really attracted to 2 of the girls I've layed, lost my vCard 4 years ago, had very little...

Hey Guys, We often regard as a society that college is awesome and that we laugh at those without degrees, is dumb or kind of. This idea is great. Will Smith is a simp and so on. I like to highlight that there is a level of danger to this. We all heard the term 'echo chambers'. But also not...

This post is Abit long. But thought I share something during this global lockdown. and don't worry if you don't get this. I hope ppl don't. Haha. There's dark/it is what it is, stuff. Anyway, A recent post had 2 sentence by Tony D which he noted, "Don't let the image of who you think people...