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  1. Cugel

    FR Airplane mode

    The stars finally aligned and my randomly selected Economy Light seat was right next to that of a pretty girl of about my age. She sported a golden septum piercing. I despise nose piercings of any sort, but those through the septum especially; they bring to mind bulls instead of babes...
  2. G

    FR How do you escape from a date when you're not attracted to the girl?

    I just returned from a date and it was very painful to endure. I felt sorry for both of us but at the same time I felt I could've reduced the suffering (lol) if I had cut short the date. She was a polish chic who approached me when I was sitting at the square a couple of days ago. I was looking...
  3. R

    Does using condoms signal a person is not totally into another person? What about pulling out? What about "don't cum inside me"?

    From another thread @Chase wrote: I don't recall having a problem of asking a woman "do you have any condoms" and that ending the sex. Nor do I recall "I'll be back" and then coming back into the room with a condom. This was women at my house or their house, not in a public place like the...
  4. M

    LTR not so interested in sex any more

    Hey! So, some background. Have been together with this girl for around 5,5 years now. I am 39, she is 32. For a time we even lived together, but we always kept our separate places on the side, and now for the most part we live apart again. For the record, I have been the one, who wanted to keep...
  5. C

    Understanding how attraction and arousal works

    Hey guys. This seems like a simple question but apparently I'm getting confused over something that should be simple to me. It'll make sense after I explain it. I do this thing where if I really want to find out if I'm physically or sexually attracted to the woman I'm seeing with, I would...
  6. W

    girl flaked as soon as we arranged date

    Hi everybody, Hope you are all healthy and doing well. Girl canceled a date about an hour after we agreed for time and location with some sillly excuse. I approached that girl in park two weeks ago. She is barely average looking and I think that my fundamentals are better. She was receptive, we...
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