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  1. AspiringStoic

    Golden Stuff for Beginners

    Hey guys, I just read a great post that I felt would be extremely useful to beginners especially. Its from Tyler Durden and his old Tyler's Digest before RSD was all the rage. I personally don't care about loyalties or hatred towards any particular instructor. I am open to learning something...
  2. Jan

    How do you solidify your mindset, vibe and frame?

    Social interactions and game are a complex topic. There are thousands of factors at play, nuances, general rules and exceptions of the rules. I realized that my "performance" is very volatile. There are nights or parts of the night when I'm in a good vibe/mindset and things are working as...
  3. Gsi2810

    Night game post... series of bad sets lead to approach anxiety

    Guys I'm at an intermediate level of the game. I got a bunch of approaches under my belt, won some, lost many but hey at least I'm getting laid more than I used to. Now my problem is I don't get approach anxiety at the beginning of the night, I approach (when I'm good I'm good, when I'm bad I...
  4. Calibration

    No more Mr Nice guy! but not wanting to settle down

    Hey guys! I read "No more Mr Nice guy" book 3 years ago and one of the things that hit me hard was that I didn't want to settle down was because of my insecurities which I hadn't realized until I read the book. So, I trained my mind to think that I'll do pickup to overcome my insecurities, which...
  5. C

    Missed signs and subtle cues??

    Hey guys. I made a recent post regarding my speed dating experience with a girl I've met recently. This experience came up after I decided to ground myself in natural mindset and balance that out with technical game. But it seems I still have some work to do. Based on how I would usually handle...
  6. trashKENNUT

    Need Some Help With Mindset Triggering

    I been struggling with this. I read an old notes and Chase advice me to "rather than see women as battles, see them as do I want to stand out in a crowded place or go to a place where it's less crowded." Logically I understand this but I can't seem to separate that going for the hunt for women...
  7. U

    When should you stick with it or give up?

    I realise that I struggle to determine whether I should stick with a girl or move on when meeting girls. I think one of the biggest problems I have is sticking with a girl that's showing me good signs, and no negative signs. I think it's because I always think there's a better girl around the...
  8. Colt Williams

    Beware of "Novel Girl Syndrome"

    You walk into your class in college (or a bar, or a party, or a restaurant, or any location where there might be women) and you see an absolutely beautiful girl across the room. You think to yourself, "wow, she's the most beautiful girl I've seen in a long time." Maybe you strike up a...
  9. U

    Socializing Best way to deal with ladder climbers?

    I have recently started a new job and noticed that my team members participate in social ladder climbing behaviour quite often. I want to fit in well with my team, but it's quite off putting. The problem is the more I'm around these people, the more I feel like my behaviour is starting to...
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