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So me and my ex broke up on Sunday night. It is now Wednesday. I've already come to terms with our break-up. The break-up itself was healthy and we're still friends, she even joked about "coming back" in 2 months, which I laughed at. Honestly, I rather she doesn't try to come back as it would...

I’m not talking visually 10/10 I’m talking whole package. Funny, smart, emotionally intelligent, creative, gorgeous, self confident. As I’m gaining experience and levelling up I’m seeing more and more beautiful women but I’m finding the REALLY good ones; That value authenticity and...

We have been dating for a year and our conversation just ended up on this topic, and she told me that she mostly masturbates to the thought of me/us but she has also masturbated to thoughts of someone she had slept with 5 months before we started dating. Theres been no contact with this person...

Hey, Any advice for a situation of LTR of 7 years gone sour? (I know – another relationship attraction drop timeframe.) We are not living together currently. I am 40, she is 34. But surely are sharing some logistics still. I would be up to move things forward but only with an enthusiastic...

Fellas, For those who are or have been in a one-sided non-monogamous relationship, how do you set up meets with side girls while having a live-in girlfriend? For instance, say her logistics aren't optimal at the time. And how to handle the question from them of never meeting at your place...

Hi all, I used to be on the ASF forums as PUA_in-training, got the hang of things but wasn't a pro, got what most people would consider a lot of sex, then got into an LTR and forgot a lot of it/went soft. Now I still have the voice in the back of my head/the 'instincts' from stuff I intenralised...

To make a long story short. I was hanging out with my gf the other night till she went to bed. Things went well. Then her college dorm neighbor(literally just one step across the hallway) invited me to her room. Now I've been flirting with this girl for some time now, but she doesn't know I have...

After having dated numerous girls that turned to short- and long term hookups since 2014 I've begun to look more and more for something with potential. Now I've found one and we've seen each other a lot the last 3 weeks, unlike how I used to only see someone once a week at most. Bit about me...

A little bit of background: I have been going out with this girl a couple of months now. She is doing her semester abroad and she is probably gonna be here for 2 more months. We started this out as a casual relationship, but it somehow got serious. The sex has been good, but it was not mind...

I have been going out with this girl a couple of months now. She is doing her semester abroad and she is probably gonna be here for 2 more months. We started this out as a casual relationship, but it somehow got serious. The sex has been good, but it was not mind blowing or anything for either...

Hi everyone! First, a bit of background: I recently met this girl at work. I'm employed there full-time as my graduate role whereas it is more of a summer job for her. She is the same age as me, comes from a family of half Middle Eastern and half South Asia, but fully raised in New Zealand. She...

I've been around for a long time, but not regularly, in the dating world. Sometimes I did nothing for a long time, then I became more active again, then I was in a relationship. But the older I get, the more rejections drag me down. When I walk around town, I make eye contact with women I meet...

I have been on and off with my friend's roommate for a while now. We never had sex or anything, but we have gotten closer in the past three months. She has a bf for about an year now, but he is not emotionally available to her. Few months ago, she started cuddling with me one day when we were...

I need help. I met this girl as work a couple of days ago. We started talking, it was a nice conversation. may be pretty neutral and then I had to be on some other floor for sometime and I told I would comeback. My shif ended 30 mins before her's and I started chatting to her again. This was all...

So I'm a senior in college and the year just started. There was this community event where I met this girl who I think is literally beyond beautiful. The first night was just normal chit chat here and there... but I managed to get her instagram! I messaged her later that night and I got a...

Hello everyone, I was going through my past relationship and seeing where I could have done things better, and I found this point to be incredibly difficult to solve. How much should one control his girlfriend, in a monogamous relationship? By that I mean, what would you allow her to do, and...

Ok so last year I started a new job at Starbucks. I had worked there during highschool and I came back to it later on. My first day I walked in, there was this girl who I thought was super cute but I didn't wanna ask out or flirt with because of the old "don't shit where you eat rule." But she...

Guys I want to know your opinion on this. I was on a date with this girl last Thursday so not far off, and there were somethings that were kinda bugging me about her. But I will keep this general. Has anyone been on a first date with a woman and she tells you she's looking to settle down and...

I avoid using most guys. Because I notice that I have it somewhat. Men want validation. I was curious as to why there's many long distance relationship this days. I realize that's it is an easier tripwire salesfunnel. Second, it gives you the illusion of going there into sex. Third, having...

The situation is I never had sex with my ex girlfriend. I dumped her a few days ago and would like to get her back. I know to succeed in getting her back, I must have sex with her. However, she has unfriended me on Facebook and ignored my two calls yesterday. I know to not pursue her and focus...