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  1. H

    Endgame reason for LTR

    Hey guys Been reading GC for some time and really appreciate the stuff. Believe I go about the things in similar way(s), always looking for more angles to tackle things. Love it. But here's the thing. Can't seem to find (maybe I missed it) the reason for a LTR from a top guy's perspective...
  2. I

    I've never been in a relationship or dated before and it frustrates me that I never have?

    I've never been kissed by a man. I've never held hands with a man. I've never had sex with a man . I've still don't have children of my own yet and all that other stuff and I'm 34.
  3. M

    Reten problems… can it be fixed?

    It’s weird… and perhaps almost unbelievable, but in a year I’ve laid over 73 women but yet I’ve failed at retaining anyone for something longterm. It’s not really hard for me to get laid, in fact, if I wanted to lay one girl per day, I probably could achieve that. I don’t think I’m there yet...
  4. Skills

    Long-Term The serial monogamy lifestyle- Riding the pair bond rush from pure evil (repost)

    Ok guys i just got a massive legit headache talking to poly guys that never have or minimally have done monogamy, about monogamy, most of them kjing... Anyways, before i post, the name of the poster/author is pure evil he was one of my favorite poster in nextasf, now retired flirted with coming...
  5. theblackpanther

    How often should you see your gf?

    I'm one month into my relationship with my gf in college and things are currently going great. My question is, how often should I spend time with her? I know Girlschase says to hang with your girlfriend 2-3 times a week but I'm just wondering since me and her live in the same building, and it...
  6. H

    Girl with a bf

    My friend's flatmate has a bf. I came to know her a few moths ago and all these time its been just a normal Hi-Bye thing. From last week I have been hanging out more with my friend because he is going through his divorce and stuff. This girl knows about these things and a couple of days ago, the...
  7. F

    Is this rape?

    My friend was dating x. My friend and x and had been arguing... Friend 2 swoops in and tells x that friend 1 was fucking another girl and has moved on... Friend 2, who I no longer consider a friend lied as friend 1 was with me and the boys the whole weekend (he's my roommate) and was actually...
  8. ulrich

    Long-Term Shy feminine girl LTR - What am I getting into?

    Hey guys, So I started dating this new girl who has everything I like in a woman. She is very feminine, beautiful and intelligent. The thing about her that strikes me odd (in a good way) is that she seems very shy and inexperienced. She is close to 30 but apparently only had a couple of long...
  9. J

    Exes Should I rekindle the fire?

    Hi folks, I'm the sappy fool who wrote this post half a year ago. https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/developing-feelings-in-an-open-relationship.23869/ A lot has happened since then, and I'm back for you folks to bust my balls and give me some clarity on my shit. Here's a recap of what...
  10. Y

    Does the dating advice apply to all countries ?

    I will be very forthcoming I am a guy in my mid 20s, from Pakistan Never had a girl friend in school, college or university. suffered from the pain of unrequited love ALOT. Tinder and Bumble don't work too well in the country I read some of the articles written by Chase ( and by Alex ) i...
  11. F

    Overview post?

    Hey guys! I haven't been on in a while, but I had a question, but first here's some context. So I read these articles and I think they're great. But I forget a lot of the stuff I read... but I wanna master this stuff. I think it would be cool if there was one article that gave a great overview...
  12. T

    Special Girl How to make her feel 'special' again

    Hello hunters, I'll be as short as possible, There's this girl, who perceives me as high value (feels intense attraction toward me) BUT with whom I screwed for not 'qualifying' properly. Last time we met she told me she wanted to stay as friends because she felt I just like her as a girl, and...
  13. T

    Long-Term GF doesn't feel the same after 1 week apart

    Hi guys, I have a problem that I'm not quite sure I know the correct response to. My GF and I had been making fantastic progress in our relationship, and we were at our best stage, both clearly feeling quite emotional towards each other, then after this point we didn't see each other for a...
  14. WittyJester

    Reasons to cheat/breakup with someone?

    What do women do that cause men to cheat or breakup with their ex?
  15. J

    What Did She Really Say? One Man’s Cry to Understand Women

    Hello, my name’s Jibri. I understand women speak in code, especially around one another. I also understand women are not 100% honest or forthcoming in relationships. What’s the problem? I don’t know what my girlfriend really means when she says certain things to me. Hell, I don't know what most...
  16. S

    Is being in open relationships the secret to getting lots of women?

    Think about it. Most of the core tips or themes from this website are being non needy and not chasing women. And I don't think that's something most men can do consistently very easily. Why have like 20 times the testorone of women make us like 50 times more hornier. Top it off with that fact...
  17. Chase

    Drama The "Frustration --> Drama --> Resolution" Cycle

    There are low drama relationships, and there are high drama relationships. And there are outliers on both ends: relationships so low-drama they're almost no drama... and relationships so high drama it seems like the couple's always at war. If you're in any kind of relationship where there's a...
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