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    Calls & Texts Getting out of the provider zone & back into the lover zone

    I invited this first girl to join in my birthday celebration last Friday. (32 yo with 2 kids) She came by herself (super high interest) and we found a table to sit at and we basically picked up where we left off after the first time we met. Getting to know each other, flirting, teasing, etc...
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    How can i make a good impression on a short date with a milf?

    Hi all! so i have (tentatively) a short, day time coffee date with an older woman that i met on the train about a week ago. I talked to her and i got her number, i told her she was a lovely woman and i would love to get to know her more over coffee (so i tried to frame it non-platonic) Now...
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    Is holding hands a good way to test the girl's comfort level with you?

    So, as you might know, i am quite new to cold approaching and dating and very, very shy about escalation (cultural conditioning that i am undoing and have undone to quite an extent at the time of writing). Right now, even though i do get horny from time to time or can get sexual urges, i...
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    Advice for first date with highly introverted girl

    Hello all, I have been bad at updating on a couple situations with girls I had asked about here before. I'll save the updates here, but just want to say thanks again for the excellent advice. Things went really well and I managed to shake my oneitis I was suffering from with the last girl in...
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    Is She Following the “Third Date Rule?”

    I met this girl at a bar one night, I wasn't able to pull her home but I did get her number. A week later we went on a coffee date and sat across from each other (I know that’s not ideal but there weren’t any couches etc). It was basically more of a feeler date (get-to-know-you questions mixed...
  6. Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem

    FR Conservative girl gives HEAVY resistance

    So I pick up this girl at her apartment. We were gonna go to an arcade but I offer we go for a hike instead, just because it was so nice out. I was hungry so I suggested we get some food. I've read your supposed to introduce sex as a topic of conversation just to put the idea in her head, so I...
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    Girl to Girl Texting

    Evening! Me and my wife met a girl at the bar and had a threesome. Now we’re texting her as my wife from my wife’s phone using the techniques laid out in “How to Text a Girl.” Should it be something more feminine/chatty instead? At first we got immediate replies with availability to meet Friday...
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    Date Plans Really good first date, but girl on fence about second date, saying she didn't feel a romantic connection?

    Got out of a 2 year relationship a few months ago, and am getting back into dating. I met this girl on a dating app, and went for a drink with her last Thursday. I couldn't quite believe how many things we were on the same page about (attitudes to socialising, music, enjoyment of cooking...
  9. Calibration

    What are some situations to decide on a second date?

    Today I instant-dated a girl and she was super into me but I had to go out shopping with my friend later. So, I didn't escalatea lot. I didn't think it was too much of a big deal to end the date and take her number, until I ended the date and asked her number and she suddenly went cold. When do...
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    Serious difficulties to get 2nd dates

    Hey hunters I am having huge difficulties to get 2nd dates and to get girls engaged on a continous basis beyond the 1st date. And I got no idea what Im doing wrong My 'seduction/date journey' is as follows: I am usually meeting up with girls from Tinder, I arrange the date in less than 5-10...
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