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Hello everyone, Since I've had my breakup a while ago, I'm trying to improve myself, and turn myself into a better person. I've started working on my fundamentals, and I've started working on talking to more girls. My question is this: how the hell do you keep motivated to do massive changes...

Preferably women who are not available (married or in an exclusive relationship) because then you will look at them without the Shimmer of the "Possibility of Sex" blinding you to their cracks and flaws. Women who are "off limits" to you. Just as having an Alpha Dad is a good example, having a...