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  1. D

    FR Field Report With Her Friend Group

    So this was the second time in 2 years I interacted with a girl's friend group and it's something I have not exactly studied. We went to an escape room which was one of the 3 options I gave her. We first met at a bar and they were vibing, one thing I suck is is paying attention when there is...
  2. S

    Socializing Group conversation dynamics

    I have run into situation where when 3-4 people are having a conversation. one of the guys (Lets call him A) starts locking in on another guy and makes the conversation su h that it is between them. now with 4 or more people the person A and whoever he got locked-in with will be ignored by the...
  3. Railer

    Expelled by her social group. One text message to fix this?

    In yesterday's outing I did get the girls number, but the final interaction left a bitter aftertaste, leading me to think she will probably block me as soon as I text - unless I manage to recover right away. Any ideas?
  4. Calibration

    What do I do when I bump into a friend who suddenly ignores me?

    This could be a very basic question but I'd like to know different perspectives It's happened a few times. It's mostly with guys. From what I've deduced, they'd be butthurt for not inviting them to one of the parties or I'd have hooked up with a girl they were trying to get for a long time...
  5. Darius

    Handling girls you laid in your social circle

    Hello everyone, Recently, there was this new girl from one of my social circles that I ended up in bed with. We spent a night together, then in the morning decided to keep things secret between us. Problem is, she told some other folks that she was coming over to my place to have a drink (that...
  6. Beck Bass

    FR Lone Wolf Caught up in a Teenage Shitstorm

    So yesterday I went out solo, since my "wing" was doing something else (two weeks ago we went out and I approached 2 girls and made out with both, but nothing else came from it, still it felt good to "be back", last week we went to the same bar and the police shut it down like as we arrived...
  7. D

    Not living on my own

    Guys, I'm planning to move to a new city, and this time I will be living with a male roommate after living on my own until now, so I have been almost independent and a loner from the very beginning and have a hard time getting along with a group of people, but now I have decided to become more...
  8. D

    Socializing Responding to friendly ribbing, teasing

    I have read chase's articles on being playful, bantering, shit tests, how to give zingers, and pretty much everything else he has written on this topic. I still have trouble responding to banter and light tease aimed at me, I tend to get tongue tied and a little angry when I'm unable to...
  9. L

    FR Club game fiasco

    I’m sure you guys can enlighten me on the psychology behind this man’s behavior. My friends either couldn’t or feigned ignorance. So my friends and I are at the club. I look around and see one man in his 30s who’s my kind of my type. He’s there with a friend (or wingman?). I don’t do anything...
  10. Evoke

    Improving social life at Uni

    Hi everyone. I've just started Uni in the UK, about a month in now, and to be honest it’s really not going as good as I'd hoped. I've made some decent friends(Just people that know each other within my accommodation, kind of split between more popular and less into 2 groups) however I feel like...
  11. U

    People nervous around me?

    Hey guys, I've started to notice that it seems like people get nervous around me sometimes, and I'm struggling to find out why. I would say I'm a chilled out guy, and I don't talk too much. I greet people with a smile / eyebrow flash generally, and I enjoy being by myself. When I'm around...
  12. U

    Socializing Lonely at the top? Struggling to find similar people

    I've been a reader of girlschase for a while and it has improved my life a lot in many ways. I'm at a stage in my life where I feel kinda stuck in choosing who to socialize with and struggle to fit in with groups of people. Most of the people I come across usually have social ladder climbing...
  13. T

    Social Group Problems

    I have often triggered an insanely violent reaction in people before they become cold and indifferent even resentful towards me. Some at first try to befriend me seeking something for which I do not know, I suspect that they notice the effect which my good-looks have on the opposite sex and...
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