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    Fear of Tension leads to lying, freezing and capitulation. How to handle?

    Hello! Moral/social/sexual tension makes me back down, capitulate or freeze. Rarely lie which I hate. Ex: Setting: Buffalo wings, I am seated at the bar. Waitress walk behind me. I call to her. She turns. I ask her a question and she responds. I’m thinking of her response(so I my eyes up and...
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    Breaking tension

    So my friend and I have been talking about different ways to handle the awkwardness that often pops up when you first approach girls. One approach is to show her that you are socially aware and acknowledge she/they are uncomfortable. You do this by saying: "Hey I realize this is a bit awkward...
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