text game

I invited this first girl to join in my birthday celebration last Friday. (32 yo with 2 kids) She came by herself (super high interest) and we found a table to sit at and we basically picked up where we left off after the first time we met. Getting to know each other, flirting, teasing, etc...

Texting is uncharted territory for me. I am treating this as a learning experience; I refuse to give up on her without testing tactics or trying to fix mistakes. I used the "Good morning ☀️" recommended by @Skills and @Bob Z and got a convo going for about an hour. Y'all saved me from the...

Got this girl’s number from the bar over the weekend. Texted her the next day to setup a time to meet but she had plans. Waited a couple days and reopened her (Tuesday). She was responding very fast and clearly had high interest. I did a shitty job of leading the convo to us meeting up. She...

Hi so i approached a girl (a 2-set actually) and i liked one of the girls, we had a nice (but brief) chat and then we exchanged numbers she even said, right there and then, that it was very brave that i came up to her and approached her However, the next day when i texted her she simply said...

Met this hot Latina with full-body tattoos while daygaming last week. I approach her informational, then i compliment her style. She thanks me and we exchange numbers. We have a bit of a language barrier, but here the texts (some in english, most are in spanish and i translated them): One...

Hey guys had a girl who has been into me,and flirting etc, we kissed, went on a date bout 2 wks ago, made sure to make discretion and casual frames, and have stayed in touch over snapchat/ number. Issue is we were flirting last week, I was teasing her about her kissing technique (mind you kept...

Met this Asian gal a couple days ago. Usual indirect-then-compliment approach. Now, im cool with the fact that she was not feeling it anymore. That can happen and its completely fine. (EDIT: might have been on her period too) How would you pros have played this?

This is something that i keep tripping on. Whats the best way to text girls that dont really have time to chat due to time-consuming jobs / rather hot insta profiles that take all their time? With these girls i cant seem to make the standard "flirt-softclose-hardclose" procedure work. My...

My response here will dictate the terms of engagement going forward so I need to nail this. So I saw this girl at a club fair we had at school. She was bad and was giving me intense eye contact but I kept it professional and talked about the club blah blah blah. I didn’t take her number cause...

I went on a coffee date with a girl from hinge. The date went well, handled any resistance/objections better than I ever have before (inviting her to my place & LMR in bed). One of the best (coffee) first dates I’ve ran from start to finish. We ended up having sex and when she left I told her...

There's this girl I've had two dates/hookups with, ended up in my bed both times, and she's been kinda iffy with me over being kinda not in a super outgoing mood over these past two dates. Now I asked her to get drinks with me at this place, she said she had to make up her mind between that and...

I am improving my text-game these days... I wanted to ask a quick feedback for what to write after sex. Just had a girl sleep over from friday to saturday, leaving saturday morning. I did not send her any text on sunday, but nomday 17:00 i sent this: "Hey ************, trust you got to...

Hey folks, Met this chick couple days ago. She's hot and very feminine, and was all giggles and smiles when I approached. We talked a few minutes, then she had to go and catch her flight back to Monaco. She suggested we keep in touch, so we traded digits. Sent her an icebreaker, to which she...

Last Friday I met this girl at the end of St. Paddy’s night and brought her back to my place. We fucked a couple times that night (which ended my 6 month dry spell). The following morning we fucked yet again. She enjoyed the experience and we exchanged numbers & snapchat info. We’ve texted a...

Gents, I met this girl back in November. I cold approached her and we went for a coffee. We traded numbers. We met again end of Jan (we couldn't meet earlier), and we went for a walk and another coffee. Never kissed. Overall facetime: 3.5h. Now, I realize I give off massive boyfriend vibes...

Picked up a girl and have some chat, then I got her number and continue texted her. When trying to invite her out, she say "I still don't know much about you yet, I need to know more about a person before going out with him". What does this mean? Should I just keep texting her and share more...

If I scheduled a date for Saturday (on Monday) and sent her a ping text on Thursday, should I also text her Friday or should I just wait till Saturday?

So I've been starting to have some success with online dating and this is one of the first times that I've had a a woman be this blunt with her intentions to meet up and fuck. Things seemed to be going well in the interaction and just like that... unmatched. Should I have gone with a soft close...

If you look at my journal day 6, I met a girl at a birthday party and got her number. In person we agreed to a date, that's tomorrow, on campus. Here are the texts: Me: Hey x, its y from the birthday party (3 hours later) her: Hiii her: I just got home (two laughing emojis) (15 minutes...

Okay so about the crushes: there's this girl I see in college cafeteria everyday, she's so bad its insane. I want to fuck so bad. Probably the most attractive girl I've seen in a long time, and I've seen a lot of hot girls. My question about her is: Should I approach her now with my very bad...