This is similar to a conversation I was having with JM about what I eventually figured out that I needed to do when I was using Dating apps in Latin America to reduce or completely remove flaking and notoriously late dates while in Latin America:
A Method to get women to commit, their...
Continued from the last entry of my journal (university Latina in boots).
The Date
Duration: 1 hour 10 mins
Prelude
I have never been on a date before. Since we met on campus and are both students, I invited her to coffee on campus. I read Girls Chase articles and planned a 3 point bounce...
Got this girl’s number from the bar over the weekend. Texted her the next day to setup a time to meet but she had plans.
Waited a couple days and reopened her (Tuesday). She was responding very fast and clearly had high interest. I did a shitty job of leading the convo to us meeting up.
She...
Real quick, thanks for all your help! I've gotten further than ever before thanks to all the support. I'll link the tactics that helped.
Overview
Ethnicity: White
Position: Sitting
Outfit: T shirt, shorts, crew socks, sneakers.
Duration: ~7 min
Result: Number + response
Background...
I got some advice from someone on this, but he recommended I get some other opinions, and share it with the group...
I'm not hot on posting as much as I have this past Month, but I've been pushing hard, and been having some very interesting experiences!
So I potentially have a meet-up...
Pretty simple really.
You shoot her a text asking her something:
What's you favorite style to dance?
I live in X (they always ask me where I live). How about you?
What's the best beach spot you've been so far?
Doesn't matter what, but you've been going back and forth nicely and suddenly she...
Hey there...
So I'm curious how I'd do a phone call to girl who isn't responding to the scheduler text...
Here's the txt message chain:
Wednesday 8:32PM
Me: Hey Diana, it's Adam C from the TV show,l. Save my number~
Yesterday 3:32 PM
Me: Hope you have a fun dance class tonight Diana!
Our...
Hi all,
So really quick opinion please,
For context, rn I am in Colombia, Medellin.
Met this girl at the gym, asked her out, went out next day. The date was fine, I wouldn't say there was super chemistry, anyways we ended up in my place started making out and she decided to leave. Like a...
So I had a great date with this Japanese girl, but she is not responsive to texts.
We met at bar and we hit it off... we concerned about work, life in Japan, our dating experiences, what we are looking for. She was sitting across from me and I made a move beside her and kissed her on the...
So I went on a date last night with this Nurse.
We hit it off, I sexually escalated perfect, we were making out an in each others arm at a bar.
I was half joking about me being a dog, and wanting to take her home, but she said she wanted a second date.
This was our text after we parted...
Told a girl that her gym white shoes are kinda cute, her reply was "Thanks! This shoes is very stable for workout." Initially, I thought she is just replying back without any friendly connotation, but further down the text, she replied things like "Thanks! You are a very sweet person. I hope you...
There's this girl I've had two dates/hookups with, ended up in my bed both times, and she's been kinda iffy with me over being kinda not in a super outgoing mood over these past two dates. Now I asked her to get drinks with me at this place, she said she had to make up her mind between that and...
I approached a girl and she was quite receptive and talkative. Went back and texted her, we went back and forth texting, and she was also receptive and even asked me questions about myself.
Then when I asked her about her schedule for a coffee date, she said let's continue talk on phone.
(back...
Approached a girl from behind. Below is the conversation during a pickup. Seems there can be improvement but not sure where.
Me: "Hi"
Her: "Hi"
Me: "Just now I walk pass by I saw you. I think you are attractive. Just come to say hi"
Her: "Oh hi haha. I thought my stuff fell off or something."...
Picked up a girl and have some chat, then I got her number and continue texted her. When trying to invite her out, she say "I still don't know much about you yet, I need to know more about a person before going out with him".
What does this mean? Should I just keep texting her and share more...
So I made out with this girl over the weekend.
She’s in the periphery of my social circle.
We planned a date for Sunday. I’m worried that if I don’t text her or do like a mini date before Sunday she will loose attraction. How do you know if a girl is going to flake or not?
Also something...
A chic I met yesterday during lunch break. In person interaction was great. I think I fucked up texting a bit and had to double text with a long text. Anyway, I said I'm 32 and she was 18 and she didn't seem to mind in person. When she asked my age, I said 65 and joked around and made her guess...
In yesterday's outing I did get the girls number, but the final interaction left a bitter aftertaste, leading me to think she will probably block me as soon as I text - unless I manage to recover right away.
Any ideas?
I met a super hot chic today in a park. Tbh, I was a bit intimidated by her looks (I know, I know). I opened her direct, complimented on her hair. She was investing and the conversation lasted a good 15 mins or so and I left the conversation since I had to go somewhere. She was a psychology...
I'm not sure if this fits in the FU section, as you'll see below.
Anyway, I met this cute chic a month ago in a supermarket. Had a brief interaction but she was into me I guess. I just opened with my name with a winky face over text but she wrote a whole paragraph about how she enjoyed our...