Hey gurus, amateur here! I often find myself in a holding pattern with women. I got out in a holding pattern with one, gorgeous successful 31yo women, engineer works out etc and got myself out by cancelling and rescheduling because of a new girl which is AWESOME but I find myself enamoured with...
Journal, question, "field observation", whatever, just thought that this situation is starting to become a bit interesting:
I've been seeing (and sleeping with) a really hot girl lately. With "really hot" I mean guys turn their heads after her as we walk by, she did some modelling in her teens...
There is that mantra: if all women don’t like you it is caused by you. OK, now how can guy evaluate what he does wrong? Simply, women don’t find me attractive no matter what I do. They don’t see what they want in me. Here is statistics data for me:
15% are cold bitches or full of themselves...
I think I have an inner game issue. When I date women of equal or lower value (relative my own perceived value), I can date or bed them with ease.
When I deal with women of higher value I fail almost every time.
I think I become more hesitant/fearful/unwilling to take the same risks/more needy...
What are your thoughts about being a nurturing man?
(Helping a girl cook, move, take care of her while sick...)
Personally I am a very helpful dude and I like to help people whenever I can but I have noted that this has neutral to bad reactions from women I'm wooing.
Particularly the sick...
Hey guys, I've started to notice that it seems like people get nervous around me sometimes, and I'm struggling to find out why.
I would say I'm a chilled out guy, and I don't talk too much. I greet people with a smile / eyebrow flash generally, and I enjoy being by myself.
When I'm around...
Hi Guys,
Did you guys know that every girl changes her value within different systems/social circle?
When Hector noted that HB9 was conservative and being ignored while HB7 was being playful,
I remembered I got gamed by this aggressive HB7.
Because she saw me and this HB9.
She was meek but...