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TLDR:
1. Going to the same places compounds. May be girls who're not sexually available when you 1st meet but will fuck you when they're another time
2. Talk to EVERYONE to build momentum. It really helps and keeps your vibe on point.
3. Keep moving. Don't be the boring guy in the corner be fluid and put up high numbers in a socially graceful way
4. Be fun but don't slip into being a degenerate and start cumming in girls raw @topcat 60-90 is reallllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
Longer version:
I had a very productive day and wanted to blow off some steam come night time.
Out of my x3 rotation. x1 has dropped off, another x1 will likely drop off and I'm bored of the 3rd lol. Also been on x2 dates that went nowhere.
Had a couple incentives to go out. I call up my local friend/wing who's always up for a good night. He says he's not keen and I just say "All good bro, I'll let this marinate, feel free to call later if you change your mind.
The Venue(s) / Cocktail Bars
If you read my previous LR's or nightgame guide in my signature you know I absolutely love local cocktail bars. Good ratios, pretty easy to get in and the girls you meet have a good chance of being a part of rotations too. My nightgame conversion is getting a lot better as I learn the nuances.
There's a fine line between being super fun but projecting some future potential without being too keen.
Building Momentum / Interactions
The girl I sleep with
What's interesting about nightgame for me. Is that you'll hit a ton of no's and dead ends but the girl you sleep with 99% of the time will do so easily.
So I bar hop to the original bar, see that it's not as good and go back. This makes me take the venue and burn it to the ground.
While walking through the crowded bar I feel a girl bump into from behind, I turn around and she perks up "I recognise you!"
Turns out it's the Asian girl I be-friended and met with @hey_lover from this report here. By the way bro she told me she had to help you get into a taxi home... Didn't know you got that drunk on me ahahah
Vibing
She starts teasing me about me "ditching my friend" for a girl the last time she saw me out. I start laughing / playing dumb. We have friendly chit chat and I ask her if she still has a boyfriend and it turns out they broke up last month. Mashallah.
I give her a little ping and say "honestly I was being super respectful before but I found you attractive and definitely would of hit on you". She doesn't recoil, get weirded out and stays in set so I know it's game on.
Compliance / moving her around
The pull
Handling her guy friend
Sex
I may just be off a high but every once in a while I sleep with a girl who sets the bar higher than the last girl who set the bar. She was in that category & I really enjoyed it.
She was vocal, passionate, affectionate as well as just my type. She's basically a better version of the girl from this LR. Funnily enough both Cantonese too.
We ended up going 3/4 rounds up until 5 in the morning. With one of the rounds in my pool too.
It's also unlike me but have to be honest I did end up not only fucking her without a condom but cumming inside her too :/ she's on the pill but it's reckless still
Have to keep drunk DWW in check as I had condoms but stopped using them with her
Pillow talk/ retention
Sadly this girl to her own admission is in her "hoe phase" so I'll just be one of many. She's only been with x30 guys and I didn't give mine but just said it was higher (which it is I'm at 60+ these days)
Spoke about girl guy dynamics, how she gets into relationships with "nice guys" but then gets bored and how like me she found rotation of 3 is the sweet spot ahhaah. Also she recently had a club bathroom pull like me.
She also didn't stay the night as she's up early and I know from experience girls like that are a lot less likely to stick around but ah well.
Told her to text me when she got home (she hasn't) so I'll focus on form and give her a ping later today and if something comes out of it great. I know to maximise my chances I'll have to be chill, low maintenance & fun.
Also hungover and have to get myself ready for an old Italian flame coming to visit from Italy. She's into intense sex so I'm going to have to re-charge lol
Life is good - onwards and upwards x
1. Going to the same places compounds. May be girls who're not sexually available when you 1st meet but will fuck you when they're another time
2. Talk to EVERYONE to build momentum. It really helps and keeps your vibe on point.
3. Keep moving. Don't be the boring guy in the corner be fluid and put up high numbers in a socially graceful way
4. Be fun but don't slip into being a degenerate and start cumming in girls raw @topcat 60-90 is reallllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
Longer version:
I had a very productive day and wanted to blow off some steam come night time.
Out of my x3 rotation. x1 has dropped off, another x1 will likely drop off and I'm bored of the 3rd lol. Also been on x2 dates that went nowhere.
Had a couple incentives to go out. I call up my local friend/wing who's always up for a good night. He says he's not keen and I just say "All good bro, I'll let this marinate, feel free to call later if you change your mind.
he changes his mind and not only calls me later, but arrives to my place 30 minutes early lol
The Venue(s) / Cocktail Bars
If you read my previous LR's or nightgame guide in my signature you know I absolutely love local cocktail bars. Good ratios, pretty easy to get in and the girls you meet have a good chance of being a part of rotations too. My nightgame conversion is getting a lot better as I learn the nuances.
There's a fine line between being super fun but projecting some future potential without being too keen.
Typical fuckboy attire, my aesthetic is probably erring on homeless too. Light blue denim jacket, layered with a black cotton shirt with dull white buttons and a grey t-shirt. That's then combined with my favorite black ripped jeans and all black vans which are ripped & falling apart. A lot of girls guessed I was a bartender which is the lover role I want to play
Building Momentum / Interactions
I get to the 1st bar early at 10pm. I then get free entry to 2-3 bars which allows me to hop between them throughout the night to maximise the chance of meeting someone I hit it off with. This has served me VERY well this year
I normally clown guys for being weird but the guys out last night were on good form. My first interaction was a group of 2 guys and one of them even tried to set me up with a girl he had just met. Attractive but not my type & got the vibe the feeling was mutual. Mostly vibed over football teams (soccer for you US guys) and calling each other good looking #nohomo lol
We hop to a different bar after not getting many bites in the 1st. The 3rd bar we had in mind looked empty so we skip passed it. In the queue meet a really nice and suave artist looking guy. We vibe and find out he's there for a friend's birthday
This is a good way to easily start talking to girls. While waiting in the queue I typically ask "how long have you been waiting" followed by "how's your night going" if it's a remotely warm response. I'm then cold reading where the girl is from as I'm basically screening out for logistics 10-15 seconds in, this night my guy too was "your vibe SCREAMS [area I live] I get x2 decent responses, couple girls with boyfriends which I screen by saying "Do you have a boyfriend who'll beat me up??" with a playful smile and pretending to look around scared
Hook a girl who's sat by herself and nodding along to the song playing. I go up to her, ask if she's waiting for a boyfriend to which she says "No I'm not, I do have a boyfriend but he's not here and in another country" I basically take this as she's single lol and we start dancing. She's half British half American. Dances really well and has a super cute outfit. Snake boots, nude/cream shorts and a simple top. I bounce her outside where I bump into her friends and I'm fun, social and chill. We then go back to another dance and I plant the seed "Can I steal you later" she replies with "maybe" and subconsciously I lose interest lol. She then says some shit about "you can peck me on the lips" and I reply "nah I'm a tease" before following up with "What do you think of my vibe?", she says "she says she likes it too much, I'm enticing and she has to go see her friends before she does something" I give one last "Be enticed by me with a playful grin and holding my hand out" She grabs it but saying "She has to go" I don't force it and we depart on fun smiling terms. This girl will definitely cheat on her boyfriend in the next month or so. Wouldn't want to be him orrrrr she just likes getting the attention but my money is on cheating.
Me and my friend start talking to x2 girls as we notice they're with the guy we met in the queue. This gives us a smooth in as we say how do you know xyz, he's super cool... Are you the birthday girl? Conversation go's from playful to a little confrontational and when I try to raise the energy up to fun x1 of the girls is still being bitchy. At this point I switch off and walk into the bar. She was either on drugs or her ego's been artificially boosted lol. For those wondering it's those big baggy jeans, white dirty grey/black air force ones with a tiny top with all her boobs out. To be fair I've had quick pulls with those types before but it wasn't happening so I moved on... They also lived too far away
The girl I sleep with
What's interesting about nightgame for me. Is that you'll hit a ton of no's and dead ends but the girl you sleep with 99% of the time will do so easily.
So I bar hop to the original bar, see that it's not as good and go back. This makes me take the venue and burn it to the ground.
While walking through the crowded bar I feel a girl bump into from behind, I turn around and she perks up "I recognise you!"
Turns out it's the Asian girl I be-friended and met with @hey_lover from this report here. By the way bro she told me she had to help you get into a taxi home... Didn't know you got that drunk on me ahahah
DWW is backkkkkk to his favorite kind of girls. She's a petite, curvy chinese girl with long dark hair, big round brown eyes and red painted nails.
Sucker for a good outfit, she had knee high leather boots, a leather jacket and white long sleeved top
Vibing
She starts teasing me about me "ditching my friend" for a girl the last time she saw me out. I start laughing / playing dumb. We have friendly chit chat and I ask her if she still has a boyfriend and it turns out they broke up last month. Mashallah.
I give her a little ping and say "honestly I was being super respectful before but I found you attractive and definitely would of hit on you". She doesn't recoil, get weirded out and stays in set so I know it's game on.
Compliance / moving her around
- We dance together in the dance floor
- I hold her hand and walk through the crowded bar to outside to get fresh air, while there a random guy says "say my name at the bar and you'll get free drinks" >> to give extra detail I do this by walking in front of the girl and putting my hand out so she gets used to me leading
- We try it and hilariously actually get free drinks. I thought he was just drunk but he pulled through... What a guy ahahah.
- We're physical but not over the top. Just dancing close, holding hands as we move together but I'm purposely not kissing her and letting tension build.
The pull
- I plant the seed "can I steal you" she plays dumb and says "what do you mean" and I say I want to steal you and I promise to give you back with a playful smirk
- She says one of her guy friends is staying back with her and I say cool we can drop him off so he gets back safe and then go. I can't remember her reply but I remember just thinking it was on and it was worth me sticking around. No real way to teach this, think it's just gut feel and experience
- One of the things when pulling as that you and the girl need to be a team. If you find yourself forcing it or being the sole pusher it won't go anywhere. You want the girl to be enthusiastic or at the very least compliant and willing to take suggestions. You also want to make sure that while you're seeding the pull you're still keeping the energy fun and enjoyable. So in and out of logistical conversations I was people watching her friend who was with a guy and making funny comments, teasing her for being a posh girl and making sure the energy doesn't it drop. It has to be a consistent flowwwwwwww.
Handling her guy friend
- He ended up being a cool guy. We walked him back to her place which was 10 minutes away and all attempted to speak in a liverpool accent. Completely illogical and don't know how we got there but that's what happened. He didn't cockblock simply read the play and left us to it. What a champ.
- While at her place we both use the bathroom separately then in her bedroom/living room I'm looking at her stuff and making comments.
- Turns out she's into tarrot readings, crystals and all that shit. Don't know why I find these kind of girls so dam alluring
- She basically asks to be pulled about 5 minutes in by saying "How far do you live from here?" I order the uber and we shortly leave the guy in her bed.
Sex
I may just be off a high but every once in a while I sleep with a girl who sets the bar higher than the last girl who set the bar. She was in that category & I really enjoyed it.
She was vocal, passionate, affectionate as well as just my type. She's basically a better version of the girl from this LR. Funnily enough both Cantonese too.
We ended up going 3/4 rounds up until 5 in the morning. With one of the rounds in my pool too.
It's also unlike me but have to be honest I did end up not only fucking her without a condom but cumming inside her too :/ she's on the pill but it's reckless still
Have to keep drunk DWW in check as I had condoms but stopped using them with her
Pillow talk/ retention
Sadly this girl to her own admission is in her "hoe phase" so I'll just be one of many. She's only been with x30 guys and I didn't give mine but just said it was higher (which it is I'm at 60+ these days)
Spoke about girl guy dynamics, how she gets into relationships with "nice guys" but then gets bored and how like me she found rotation of 3 is the sweet spot ahhaah. Also she recently had a club bathroom pull like me.
She also didn't stay the night as she's up early and I know from experience girls like that are a lot less likely to stick around but ah well.
Told her to text me when she got home (she hasn't) so I'll focus on form and give her a ping later today and if something comes out of it great. I know to maximise my chances I'll have to be chill, low maintenance & fun.
Also hungover and have to get myself ready for an old Italian flame coming to visit from Italy. She's into intense sex so I'm going to have to re-charge lol
Life is good - onwards and upwards x
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