LR 1st date lay provider game

[Swati]

Yo pimps, first lay of the year breaking my earliest streak.

met this girl online, and she was decently receptive/ high interest from the beginning. Got the digits and chatted back and forward.

***I removed a lot of emotions in texting, removing emoticons, exclamation marks, question marks, etc. from recent experience and advice, I've changed it up, emojis are feminine.

On the date, cute/pretty girl, with a bit of darker skin tone color, sexy to me, wearing eye glitter.

When we first met, it was during nighttime, so a bit obvious she was interested in fucking. At first, if I tried to pull her I feel like I would lack a social frame, and built negative momentum from the start, bad bad, so I just decided to go to dinner. when we first arrived she sat next to me, a good sign, even if she didn't choose to I would have insisted on her sitting next to me. that way is easier for me to run kino on her. putting my hand on her knee and thigh lightly while talking, fractionating my touches. when we were leaving she went to the bathroom, maybe I didn't pay attention but she might have checked her makeup, etc...

She offered to split the bill, but I declined. I told her to get me something else later. Never felt like paying for the date would get me to lose pussy. But you have to read energy. of course don't just invite girls for food. I invited her for coffee/ walk around near a park but happened to be hungry. On dates, eat just enough to be not hungry, or else you be in a food coma, with your fatass gut hanging.

IF I WERE to lose pussy it wasn't because I PAID for the date it was because I might have fuck up somewhere else. if you split the bill, it's SUCH A turn-off for girls in general. micro-level you lose a bit of frame as well unless you have a lot of lover quality. test compliance and frame then decide if you want to invest in getting food.

She didn't know how to use chopsticks, I gained leadership/authority inside of her mind since it was her first time, I taught her how to use them and fed her.

After dinner, as we were walking I was ramping up my kinos with my hand on her lower back when we were changing directions and holding her hands.

I seeded for the pool in the apartment I lived at and bought a bottle of wine. When I told her I lived here, she gave me a token of resistance.

"ok, I'll go home since you are at your place"

"no, come check it out "

"ok..."

or my other tactic is to straight-up ignore her if she's being annoying, "this way" grab her hand see if you grab back to test compliance, and continue pulling, of course with calibration, don't caveman the girl

Didn't kiss her until we got back to my place. I turned on all the lights, and showed her my balcony. While she was looking over the view I approached from behind, grabbed her waist, and went for a kiss, she's probably the most aggressive kisser I've ever met, lowkey biting my lips and shit. then fractionated out to open the wine, wink wink… took a couple of sips of the glass, told her to take off her shoes.... starting escalating on her again, no LMR

Don't fuck doggy style on the 1st round, you bust way toooo fast

2nd round when she was stroking me:
"Don't even think about putting it in without a condom"

LOL

I proceed to grab a condom and continue. Next time I should be like

"I want to feel you and I'll put one on later"

sucking me off under the sheets, her pussy was shaved pretty well. went 3 rounds with her but she couldn't cum....
*be happy to hear about your experiences on girls cumming/orgasm

Throughout the week, I've noticed the security guard opening the gate slower recently, monitoring me pulling hoes back to back. Ill have to find a resolution to this in the upcoming.

 

[Echoes]

Nice job rolling through everything!

As for getting girls "there", there's the basics of a good rhythm and finding the positioning for a nice full motion to apply that pacing to (which admittedly takes time to discover and implement). There's always the aspect of manhandling her as much as you can while still keeping a good motion going. In missionary, adding some weight onto her, grabbing the back of her neck, and spreading fully over her (several options: elbows against her shoulders, your head past her head looking "down", literally wrapping an arm or arms around her torso). In doggy, get her to cross her arms behind her back and use her like a plaything, it's great for both moods, especially if you move her in a way where she's going from 5%-100% of your length in a consistent motion

One little technique I found came from seeing how girls get a spike from you cumming. You do faux build-ups and slam into them as if you're cumming and pausing for a moment. It takes practice, and calibrating to each girl, but should help spark most girls (and you can train them into it). One of my favorite versions of this is when she's on her stomach and you're smothering her with a hand over her throat and the other holding a wrist drown. You get a nice motion and keep it going and whisper into her ear, "want to cum?" "want me to make you cum?", and once she's begging for it, then whisper "then cum", as you slam your hips home (I like to continue pressing in, feeling a bit of vibration as my body is being stopped by hers).

To be fair, I focus on providing a good time to problematic levels (self-induced ed if I'm not 100% rock hard), so I avoid finishing as much as possible. I got a feel of how many almost-finishes my body would do before just not even trying to finish anymore, and aim to catch the tail-end, just so she's satisfied I finish. I also am endowed such that 95% of the time I can be as rough as I want with no cervix bashing, so bigger guys may not be able to slam in like that (too many times, at least), as in my experience that 5% of the time really sucked for her during and after.

 

[Beck Bass]

if you split the bill, it's SUCH A turn-off for girls in general

Don't agree, but each to it's own. If I'm feeling generous and like it's no big deal I pay, but in general I have no problem with them paying their stuff and me paying mine. I think it can be bad if you don't know how to handle it, you can sound like a cheap skate depending on how you bring up the subject (I mostly just avoid talking about it and act like I'm gonna pay mine and her hers, and like it's the natural thing... Though some girls deff fish for you to pay for it, like oooh I can't find my card lol, if it's no big deal I pay because I just rather move on and fuck the girl already lmao, but if it's some expensive date - which I don't do with random hoes anyway - this isn't flying)

 

[Skills]

Don't agree, but each to it's own. If I'm feeling generous and like it's no big deal I pay, but in general I have no problem with them paying their stuff and me paying mine. I think it can be bad if you don't know how to handle it, you can sound like a cheap skate depending on how you bring up the subject (I mostly just avoid talking about it and act like I'm gonna pay mine and her hers, and like it's the natural thing... Though some girls deff fish for you to pay for it, like oooh I can't find my card lol, if it's no big deal I pay because I just rather move on and fuck the girl already lmao, but if it's some expensive date - which I don't do with random hoes anyway - this isn't flying)

Ok again, the key is not to get in COURTSHIP traditional dating aka dinner or anything similar to traditional dating.... The dude should always pay and should not be more than 20 both of you, you should take the masculine role even if she is offering to pay, i always pay, but again my average cost is 5 to 10 bucks max (or 20 both) cause i don't do courtship dating (aka dinners).... Paying for a date taking the masculine role will always yield the highest odds...and nobody in this forum not even @mist and his wallmart date is cheapter than me, and i always 10,000 x my investment.... always...