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Hey everyone,
I've really realized how important it is to be a genuine, warm person today. Hopefully this FR shows that
To the story...this morning I finally got my brother to read the GC primer on fashion, and got him convinced that wearing the same sweats and oversized shirt was just not cutting it anymore. Great day for him! We swung over to the big city to get that shopping done. While testing his new clothes, I talked to this fantastically cute girl [we'll call her CuteAussieGal] working there, we had a great conversation, and got her number before I left to the counter to purchase my brother's new apparel.
Anyways, hanging out at the cash register and CuteAussieGal heads behind the counter. I don't want to start another conversation with her to keep the anticipation of our next meet up, so I exit the store to wait
outside.
I sit down on a strange, modern-esque bench with another attractive girl by my side [we'll call her AttractiveKiwiWoman]. This conversation also goes very well, so I grab her number. And just after, she says "Alright, if I don't go in now, they're going to kill me for not working!". And then it dawned upon me they work in the same store...woops!!
I try sending ice breaker texts at different times so that they wouldn't notice my little mistake. My first text leaves to AttractiveKiwiWoman 10 minutes after I meet her, and I send a text to CuteAussieGal about an hour and a half after I see her.
Here was the ensuing text convo with AttractiveKiwiWoman:
At 6:47 I also get another text message, but by CuteAussieGal saying (I'm also going to add my initial text for clarification purposes):
At this point I decide I'm going to keep talking with AttractiveKiwiWoman, since she's obviously the leader type of the two, and if I win her, I'll probably win both (so from the beginning):
I almost went down the gamey, "well if it's a good day, I can try and get 356 numbers" route, but I'm glad I went for warm, genuine person instead. Probably doesn't work in every situation, but I think their close-to-auto-rejection states needed it.
Anyways, I think I'm just going to phone call CuteAussieGal tomorrow afternoon so I can get her out, and then text AttractiveKiwiWoman a bit later to get her schedule.
Would love to hear questions, comments and critiques from anyone
Cheers,
Jake
I've really realized how important it is to be a genuine, warm person today. Hopefully this FR shows that
To the story...this morning I finally got my brother to read the GC primer on fashion, and got him convinced that wearing the same sweats and oversized shirt was just not cutting it anymore. Great day for him! We swung over to the big city to get that shopping done. While testing his new clothes, I talked to this fantastically cute girl [we'll call her CuteAussieGal] working there, we had a great conversation, and got her number before I left to the counter to purchase my brother's new apparel.
Anyways, hanging out at the cash register and CuteAussieGal heads behind the counter. I don't want to start another conversation with her to keep the anticipation of our next meet up, so I exit the store to wait
outside.
I sit down on a strange, modern-esque bench with another attractive girl by my side [we'll call her AttractiveKiwiWoman]. This conversation also goes very well, so I grab her number. And just after, she says "Alright, if I don't go in now, they're going to kill me for not working!". And then it dawned upon me they work in the same store...woops!!
I try sending ice breaker texts at different times so that they wouldn't notice my little mistake. My first text leaves to AttractiveKiwiWoman 10 minutes after I meet her, and I send a text to CuteAussieGal about an hour and a half after I see her.
Here was the ensuing text convo with AttractiveKiwiWoman:
Me 5:44 : Hey its Nick...save my number.
Her 5:45 : Haha okay saved
Her 6:47 : So weird one of the girls from work said she met a guy called Nick on her break![]()
At 6:47 I also get another text message, but by CuteAussieGal saying (I'm also going to add my initial text for clarification purposes):
Me 6:30 : Hey CuteAussieGal, glad to have met you- Nick
Her 6:47 : Hey it was nice meeting you too
At this point I decide I'm going to keep talking with AttractiveKiwiWoman, since she's obviously the leader type of the two, and if I win her, I'll probably win both (so from the beginning):
Me 5:44 : Hey its Nick...save my number.
Her 5:45 : Haha okay saved
Her: 6:47 : So weird one of the girls from work said she met a guy called Nick on her break
Me 7:46 : Yeah, that could be possible. I'm a pretty social guy.
Her 7:50 : Haha nicehow many girls numbers do u get a day?
Me 7:57 : Well, if I meet a girl, and there's interest from both of us, I want to see what it'd turn into. No expectations, just see where it goes.
Her 7:59 : Haha well atleast ur honestshould I keep talking to you though?
Me 8:01 : Sure, why not? You seem pretty cool
Her 8:06 : Haha thankyou your not too bad yourself![]()
I almost went down the gamey, "well if it's a good day, I can try and get 356 numbers" route, but I'm glad I went for warm, genuine person instead. Probably doesn't work in every situation, but I think their close-to-auto-rejection states needed it.
Anyways, I think I'm just going to phone call CuteAussieGal tomorrow afternoon so I can get her out, and then text AttractiveKiwiWoman a bit later to get her schedule.
Would love to hear questions, comments and critiques from anyone
Cheers,
Jake