2 women in bed, no sex

[Reave Krieger]

Hi everyone.

Yesterday I managed to take two (2) women home with me from a club. They were friends.

Both slept in my bed and I escalated with one of them. She let me do everything with her except putting my hand onto her vagina (not even through her pantyhose).

The way she resisted was by taking my hand and putting it away. She didn't say anything. This happened twice!

Was this just token resistance (and I could have done it regardless) or didn't she want to be labeled as a slut by her friend (who was already asleep by the way)?

Maybe I didn't persist enough?

 

[Man-O]

Presuming you had an open sexual vibe they should've known what was going to happen and not resist you much. Unless of course you hadn't warmed them up.
Whenever escalating you should follow the rule "2 steps forward, 1 back".

Ex.
+2 You touch her breast -> She resists by taking your hand away.
-1 You make some space and caress her somewhere less intimate or do something completely else if she resists a lot, like ignoring her or annoying her (turning on lights and do some absurd activity). I believe Drexel refers to this as punishment.

Then you try again maybe somewhere else. The point is you make her forget about her worries as you create a variation of different emotions. Almost like when you change venues before taking her home.

 

[Reave Krieger]

Man-O

First of all: Thanks for your reply!

I have no idea if I was in an open sexual vibe or not. The problem here is: I can't tell myself but needless to say I was horny. But I don't know how I come across when being horny, that is.

Actually I did exactly follow this rule. I touched/caressed her all over her body and she complied. Then I went to her vagina and she resisted. I went 1 step back and touched her body... Then tried again. And she put my hand away again. Maybe she didn't like me all that much or had her monthlies, idk.

Maybe it'll work the next time...

Jumok93

 

[Man-O]

I have a feeling she resisted because the friend was in the same room/bed. You'd have to engage that dilemma, which could've been to a 3sum.

Projecting sexuality is very important (being open and none-judgemental, see sex as no big deal etc.). There are tons of articles about it.

Search for "sex talk" and you'll find some of it.

Here's a topic with some great tips. viewtopic.php?f=2&t=10212

Enjoy.