3 Compliments Per Day Challenge

[Social_Artist91]

Hi Skilled Seducers!

I am new here. I have always been quite shy and introverted all my life. Over the last few years however, I have made a conscious effort to change this. I have taken some Improv and drama classes and also some public speaking classes and have improved quite a lot. I have also got into lifting and bulked up a bit as I had always been thin all my life. I have also done online dating and had some success and had the first relationship of my life. Ihave lurked on here and have read a lot but now I finally feel I am ready to start working directly on my real life girl getting issue.

I recently came across a video by a guy on YT that really hit home with me.

I also saw another thread on this forum of a member doing a 30 day challenge of approaching 4 girls per day. All of this has inspired me to start my own journey.

I think doing actual approaches and getting numbers and stuff is still something that is a bit of a stretch for me. So I think I will start with a challenge to compliment 3 girls per day. I don't want to put a fixed target of the number of days. But since tomorrow is the beginning of December, I will try to do 3 weeks at least till before the holiday period starts. Lets see if I am able to compliment 3 girls every day and if it makes me bolder and more confident.

 

[Social_Artist91]

1 December 2024

Wow this is harder than I thought. In just 1 day my respect and admiration for all those who are doing this increased tenfold.

I managed to compliment 3 girls. Actually 4 but one was a blowout.

1. Asian
2. Got ignored
3. Ukrainian MILF
4. Just a compliment on her style.

I realize that apart from just fear of talking to the girl, fear of what people around me will think is also very high for me.

 

[Stark]

If you can get this done , even for 3 weeks straight, you’ll start progressing to the next level- teasing, flirting, compliance.

You’re going to start seeing faster results in terms of getting dates and lays if you can stick to this challenge

 

[Social_Artist91]

If you can get this done , even for 3 weeks straight, you’ll start progressing to the next level- teasing, flirting, compliance.

You’re going to start seeing faster results in terms of getting dates and lays if you can stick to this challenge

Thanks. Yes in just 2 days, I see how its pushing me out of my comfort zone. Forget 21 days, even 3 months from now if I am able to easily approach, I would be ecstatic.


2 December 2024
Today was also tough. But managed to do it. 2 of them were girls who were walking. The walking ones seem way more intimidating. So I will try and focus on them.

1. Milf, Compliment on sweater
2. Cute Arabic girl, compliment on hair.
3. Stylish girl, complimented her style.

 

[alexlaguma]

Keep going bro.

3 a day + reflection on what happens / the patterns ... you will notice your skillset improve dramatically within a few months.

 

[Social_Artist91]

3 December 2024

Wow the most amazing thing happened today. I went out to do my 3 compliments.

I was at a Christmas market in my city and I saw a black girl who looked stylish. It was crowded so I had quite a bit of anxiety. But finally I went in and gave her a compliment on her style.

She was amazing friendly right from the start and started asking me questions. She was leaving the city and just killing the last few hours before heading to the airport.

We started talking and then just decided to have a drink together at the Christmas market and hung out together for a couple of hours.

This is amazing. I have swiped my life away on apps for months and not had a single date. I just start going out to give compliments and then this happens. Wow!

 

[Social_Artist91]

4 December 2024

I dropped the ball yesterday. I had a long day and finished late. I think I over estimated my own willpower and underestimated the resistance.

The thought of having to do 3 compliments at that time sounded like a mountain. I realize maybe I need to be more humble. If the goal was just 1 compliment, I could have probably been able to get myself to go do it.

So I am thinking of changing it to 1 compliment per day so that at least I never miss a day. But I will try to after doing the first one, do more.

Is there a way I can edit the title of this thread? Or do I need to start a new thread?