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This sounds like AFC simple stuff, but is actually upper intermediate / advanced.
I used to escalate as hard as possible on dates, but that isn’t precision gaming. The 3 date structure improves closing rates exponentially.
Also, one key is that you are not pretending to screen her. You are legitimately using the 3 dates to decide if she’s worth it.
XXX wrote:
So you do a 3 date spread? Interesting.
Water:
A day 3 spread is very solid on getting great sex with hotter girls with no LMR. Which to me is highly preferable to battling it out psychologically in the bedroom against LMR, usually ending in either a blowout or buyer remorse cleanup after sex. Every girl in America will fuck you on the 3rd date, its the acceptable "m not a slut time frame among chicks. So run your game tight to get you to day 3 with as little time spent as possible, and you're having great sex with hotter girls who are excited to fuck you.
And like L_____ says it can be done in very little time.
3 date structure:
Day 1 - 30-45 minute coffee screen (10% chance of turning to lay)
Day 2 - drink or activity (2 hrs max, 50% chance of lay. If its not "on" in under 2 hrs, cut the date short while the vibe is hot because you have work to do.)
Day 3 - come over. (99% chance of lay)
Cost? 4 hours max, total. This is less time than you're spending on your one-date attempts.
XXX wrote:
I've never ended a date on a high note either, so that's a new concept for me...
Water:
This is because you're playing "blow me or blow me out" game, where you set yourself up to end in rejection if sex doesn't happen. YOU need to cut the date short, not let HER do it by blowing out your escalation attempts. "Blow me or blow me out" is a beginner exercise, not masterful game to laying as many hot chicks as you come in contact with as possible.
I used to escalate as hard as possible on dates, but that isn’t precision gaming. The 3 date structure improves closing rates exponentially.
Also, one key is that you are not pretending to screen her. You are legitimately using the 3 dates to decide if she’s worth it.
XXX wrote:
So you do a 3 date spread? Interesting.
Water:
A day 3 spread is very solid on getting great sex with hotter girls with no LMR. Which to me is highly preferable to battling it out psychologically in the bedroom against LMR, usually ending in either a blowout or buyer remorse cleanup after sex. Every girl in America will fuck you on the 3rd date, its the acceptable "m not a slut time frame among chicks. So run your game tight to get you to day 3 with as little time spent as possible, and you're having great sex with hotter girls who are excited to fuck you.
And like L_____ says it can be done in very little time.
3 date structure:
Day 1 - 30-45 minute coffee screen (10% chance of turning to lay)
Day 2 - drink or activity (2 hrs max, 50% chance of lay. If its not "on" in under 2 hrs, cut the date short while the vibe is hot because you have work to do.)
Day 3 - come over. (99% chance of lay)
Cost? 4 hours max, total. This is less time than you're spending on your one-date attempts.
XXX wrote:
I've never ended a date on a high note either, so that's a new concept for me...
Water:
This is because you're playing "blow me or blow me out" game, where you set yourself up to end in rejection if sex doesn't happen. YOU need to cut the date short, not let HER do it by blowing out your escalation attempts. "Blow me or blow me out" is a beginner exercise, not masterful game to laying as many hot chicks as you come in contact with as possible.
