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I need your help with something.
So every time I get a girl on a date, I have a sort of three Factor identification with her. First when I actually meet her at the designated place I hug her and see her response. If she hugs me that's fine, if she refuses to hug me right away, she is on short notice - one more fuck up from her side and she's done.
Second when we sit down at the cafe I tell her to sit down on the couch and sit down next to her - if she refuses to sit ass to ass with legs touching and she wants to sit on the chair in front, or tells me to sit on a chair because she would 'see me better' or any other excuse - then strike number 2.
And the third filter that I try to do before we even order anything is to touch your hand. It doesn't work with touching your leg because she would probably tolerate that, even if she doesn't really like touching, but a hand she will quickly move away.
So my question is how severe should I filter girls on these things in your opinion?
I think that if she doesn't hug when we just meet and specifically tells me that she doesn't like touching that's a 99% probability that nothing's going to happen, because she either doesn't see me as a man at all - only as a companion to fill her boredom, or she's just that messed up in the head that she doesn't like men's touch.
Either way in this case I would just specifically look for another filter that she can miss, so I can filter her out and go home immediately. Second filter the one with the not sitting together only works if she truly is mesmerized with me, but just not ready to touch and just a little bit too shy but that happens very rarely
Usually it's just a girl who thought this would be a friendly meeting, not a date even though I always specifically called them out on a date. So here I would give it an 80% possibility that nothing's going to happen or it will just be unnecessarily difficult. And in this case - 3-4 hours I would waste on a very risky date with much rather be spent on approaching, where I could get another several dates from.
But the third filter is not that severe - if she's sitting next to me but just refuses to touch your hand I might talk to her convince her that I'm not a moron and then tell her that I appreciate girls who like touching so I would give this one a 50/50 what are you guys think?
So every time I get a girl on a date, I have a sort of three Factor identification with her. First when I actually meet her at the designated place I hug her and see her response. If she hugs me that's fine, if she refuses to hug me right away, she is on short notice - one more fuck up from her side and she's done.
Second when we sit down at the cafe I tell her to sit down on the couch and sit down next to her - if she refuses to sit ass to ass with legs touching and she wants to sit on the chair in front, or tells me to sit on a chair because she would 'see me better' or any other excuse - then strike number 2.
And the third filter that I try to do before we even order anything is to touch your hand. It doesn't work with touching your leg because she would probably tolerate that, even if she doesn't really like touching, but a hand she will quickly move away.
So my question is how severe should I filter girls on these things in your opinion?
I think that if she doesn't hug when we just meet and specifically tells me that she doesn't like touching that's a 99% probability that nothing's going to happen, because she either doesn't see me as a man at all - only as a companion to fill her boredom, or she's just that messed up in the head that she doesn't like men's touch.
Either way in this case I would just specifically look for another filter that she can miss, so I can filter her out and go home immediately. Second filter the one with the not sitting together only works if she truly is mesmerized with me, but just not ready to touch and just a little bit too shy but that happens very rarely
Usually it's just a girl who thought this would be a friendly meeting, not a date even though I always specifically called them out on a date. So here I would give it an 80% possibility that nothing's going to happen or it will just be unnecessarily difficult. And in this case - 3-4 hours I would waste on a very risky date with much rather be spent on approaching, where I could get another several dates from.
But the third filter is not that severe - if she's sitting next to me but just refuses to touch your hand I might talk to her convince her that I'm not a moron and then tell her that I appreciate girls who like touching so I would give this one a 50/50 what are you guys think?
