32 y o me targeting 20 year olds, am I too old?

[thats_a_penis_disgustang]

A question about age difference. I'm a 32-year-old 6'4 full-headed hair Slim even a bit muscular man. I mostly target college-age girls and I only do day game. Even though I had success with every age group from 18 to 32. One of the questions that often arise when I approach girls on the street is how old I am because obviously I don't look 20 even though I have a good skin and I dress well. Sometimes even after I tell them that I'm basically 10 or more years older than them they still agree on a date and there's no problems at all but sometimes they act like this is a defining Factor for not going in a date with me. And in that case it looks very weird because she looked like she was ready to go on a date she liked me she was smiling she was impressed by my comfort and approach but then she heard my age and said oh that's too much. So do you think that this is just another thing that they say to not continue the conversation? Similar to anything else they might say for example I'm sorry I don't meet people in the street I have a boyfriend or anything else you would say if you just don't like the guy or don't feel comfortable meeting new people in general. Or is that a serious consideration? Because when I was 22 and I was approaching 18 year olds 10 years ago I still remember some of them saying I'm too old for them and then that time I really believed that the four year difference is so significant that I am forever locked out from the girls younger than me. What do you think?

 

[Chase]

This is just a common thing with that age group, man.

Most 18-22 y/os are in college, where they are immersed in age-peers and strictly regimented by age.

To an 18 y/o university freshman, a 19 y/o sophomore seems SO MATURE.

A 22 y/o senior? Holy crap, that is grown up. Almost unrelatable!

By comparison, her professors are practically ancient.

So that is the lens some chicks that age range will view you from when you approach. Unless you ooze so much charisma, value, and authority that you override it, you won't get around it with those girls.

But then there are a bunch of girls that age range who aren't actually that deep into the "age-regimented college" lifestyle.

There are girls in that age range who actually prefer older men and feel thrilled at a very mature guy talking to them.

There are girls in that age range who are super curious to meet an older guy and think, "Wow! I've never tried a guy that age before!"

There are girls that age range who are sick of guys their own age, and when they hear you are older think, "Hmm! Maybe he is different!"

Also, the hornier/lonelier she is, the less likely she is to fall back on, "OMG, age gap!"

It's just a roll of the dice. You don't know which one you are going to get.

The only thing you can do is approach and find out which camp she falls in.

Finally, also remember... if a girl is not interested, she will use whatever comes to mind first to reject you:

• If you're short: "I only really go for guys over [height taller than you]. Sorry."
• If you're young: "You're a little too young for me. Sorry."
• If you're older: "You're a little too old for me. Sorry."

Etc.

The reason she gives is never the full reason, because if you excited her ENOUGH, she would not CARE about the height, age, or whatever else!

Chase

 

[Skills]

A question about age difference. I'm a 32-year-old 6'4 full-headed hair Slim even a bit muscular man. I mostly target college-age girls and I only do day game. Even though I had success with every age group from 18 to 32. One of the questions that often arise when I approach girls on the street is how old I am because obviously I don't look 20 even though I have a good skin and I dress well. Sometimes even after I tell them that I'm basically 10 or more years older than them they still agree on a date and there's no problems at all but sometimes they act like this is a defining Factor for not going in a date with me. And in that case it looks very weird because she looked like she was ready to go on a date she liked me she was smiling she was impressed by my comfort and approach but then she heard my age and said oh that's too much. So do you think that this is just another thing that they say to not continue the conversation? Similar to anything else they might say for example I'm sorry I don't meet people in the street I have a boyfriend or anything else you would say if you just don't like the guy or don't feel comfortable meeting new people in general. Or is that a serious consideration? Because when I was 22 and I was approaching 18 year olds 10 years ago I still remember some of them saying I'm too old for them and then that time I really believed that the four year difference is so significant that I am forever locked out from the girls younger than me. What do you think?

nope, caveat your fundamentals, have to be right.... do a search on this, has been discussed to death...

 

[DarkKnight]

As @Skills says.. when guys say they have good fundamentals a lot of times there is still a loooot of room for improvement

But I also believe your vibe is very important. If you feel self conscious they tend to sense it.. but when you feel entitled it also oozes from your vibe. This was a problem I had after the lockdowns I suddenly felt "too old". Well we are a couple of years further and that concern has erased. I have young girls hitting me up and I believe it is because I feel cool and smooth again

Hint I have not become any younger

 

[POB]

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