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So I had two dates this Sunday.
First date was a 23 year old girl, very very pretty, even by Russian girls standards. On the first date I tried my hardest, as I always do, to prove her that I will be the best boyfriend in the world, we touched, we even kissed, we went to my apartment, I jerked off her pussy, but then she had an iron Wall of China when it comes to actually having sex.
I saw that she really likes me, but maybe because she really liked me, she thought, she would blow her chances with me. Date ended with nothing, as always, she promised me she will do everything, whatever I want to do to her, but on a second date, just to not be a whore.
Then I probably had enough of these kind of dates and I had the revelation, I kind of leveled up, I had about an hour to read the boyfriend disqualification materials for the third time maybe, and by the second date with the 36 year old gorgeous woman, I was ready to exude only lover value.
She really picked up on all of my hints, the only problem is when we went to my home she didn't come inside. That's very not typical for girls on dates with me, usually about 9 out of 10 girls come up. I have this perfect process, where we go to the supermarket to buy some bullshit, and then we nonchalantly go upstairs to kind of leave it there, with the understanding that after that we'll just go walk in the park that's nearby.
She really strongly resisted going upstairs, maybe she had some horror stories of her friends of abusive men, I don't know. So we kissed in the nearby park I sent her home, because it was very late, I texted her 'tell me when you get home', she texted back 'if I don't will you spank my ass?' So I thought okay this is on, and she just needs to sit on the idea and the second date will just be having sex from the first minute.
We flirted a bit, until she texted me two days later, saying that she had a lot of thought put into it, and she is decided that one night stands are not for her.
So the question is, was that a connection issue? Was that just some really bad experiences, that did not let her come upstairs where almost everybody else does? Or was that really no other way this could have played out because she firmly decided she doesn't want to have night one night stands at 36 years of age?
First date was a 23 year old girl, very very pretty, even by Russian girls standards. On the first date I tried my hardest, as I always do, to prove her that I will be the best boyfriend in the world, we touched, we even kissed, we went to my apartment, I jerked off her pussy, but then she had an iron Wall of China when it comes to actually having sex.
I saw that she really likes me, but maybe because she really liked me, she thought, she would blow her chances with me. Date ended with nothing, as always, she promised me she will do everything, whatever I want to do to her, but on a second date, just to not be a whore.
Then I probably had enough of these kind of dates and I had the revelation, I kind of leveled up, I had about an hour to read the boyfriend disqualification materials for the third time maybe, and by the second date with the 36 year old gorgeous woman, I was ready to exude only lover value.
She really picked up on all of my hints, the only problem is when we went to my home she didn't come inside. That's very not typical for girls on dates with me, usually about 9 out of 10 girls come up. I have this perfect process, where we go to the supermarket to buy some bullshit, and then we nonchalantly go upstairs to kind of leave it there, with the understanding that after that we'll just go walk in the park that's nearby.
She really strongly resisted going upstairs, maybe she had some horror stories of her friends of abusive men, I don't know. So we kissed in the nearby park I sent her home, because it was very late, I texted her 'tell me when you get home', she texted back 'if I don't will you spank my ass?' So I thought okay this is on, and she just needs to sit on the idea and the second date will just be having sex from the first minute.
We flirted a bit, until she texted me two days later, saying that she had a lot of thought put into it, and she is decided that one night stands are not for her.
So the question is, was that a connection issue? Was that just some really bad experiences, that did not let her come upstairs where almost everybody else does? Or was that really no other way this could have played out because she firmly decided she doesn't want to have night one night stands at 36 years of age?
