4 approaches a day challenge + Going solo from now

[Spyce D]

I had a really good wing with whom I gamed for a while last week who helped me get out of the rut .

But , he won't be available for some time .

So , I decided to use whatsapp groups to find another ones .

Weird thing in pua community ( atleast outside of this forum) is lack of understanding and inclusivity .


So , it's hard to find wings with whom you vibe well .

Anyways , the situation is very similar to the one mentioned in this article .

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Funny thing is I have to wait for a wing but there are lot of chicks in my commute .

Basically , I only did indirect - direct game with my wing ....when I am alone ...I only do indirect .

A former wing who got his girlfriend from direct Daygame ( he left game after that ) .... recently advised me to go solo ....and not focus on getting wings ...

And I had a really weird experience today winging with a guy .... This guy was inter-advance but I didn't vibe with him ...
making me realise that I can't be dependent on others for my life .

I think it's time for me to start 4 approaches a day challenge for the next 30 days .

4 number is pretty small ....but good to build momentum .

But the thing is I don't mean approaches as in just opening and then ejecting ...

I mean 4 approaches with a minimum of one minute conversations .

Cuz due to my indirect approaches ..I got slightly good at holding conversations.

No more spam approaches , my career is my first priority .

Going out and gaming ( spam approaching ) for hours doesn't feel plausible to me , anymore .

Already done it in the past 12 days.

 

[Spyce D]

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Will be using this

 

[James D]

Before starting the approach 4 girls a day challenge, I remember going through the journals on the boards to check whether anyone had actually completed the full challenge for 30 days.

I don't recall seeing anyone completing the total 30 days.

I saw up to 18 days I think.

(please correct me if I'm wrong though!)

Of course, some of them already got the results they wanted so they stopped.

Nevertheless, it's important to keep in mind that there will be days where you won't wanna approach.

Your job is to push through and get those 4 approaches done no matter what.

Hell, the day I laid my first girl from day game, after sex in the park, I went to the nearest mall and got my 4 approaches in

If you do get your 4 approaches in every day for 30 days, without spam approaching, with the clear intention of leaving with her agreeing for a date and giving you her number...

Or if you're doing nightgame, with the clear intention of leading the interaction as far as you can...

You will see tremendous results.

Guaranteed.

More than just getting dates and maybe lays, you'll learn so much in terms of approaching itself.

Let me know your biggest takeaway after the 30 days!

Mine was the ability to read what a girl is up to during the day and act accordingly.

Put me in any mall and I can tell you right away "This girl is waiting for her boyfriend/friends", "This girl is here to run an errand, she's quite busy", "This girl is here alone, casually strolling about" etc etc

I'm back in my home country at the moment. It's a small tropical island. I've never done a single cold approach here (lost my viriginity when i went off to college in a big city)

I went to the mall and did 4 approaches.

Number closed all 4 of them.

As of now, 4 dates on the line.

That came from knowing which girls to approach.

Just wanted to share that

 

[Spyce D]

Ths

Before starting the approach 4 girls a day challenge, I remember going through the journals on the boards to check whether anyone had actually completed the full challenge for 30 days.

I don't recall seeing anyone completing the total 30 days.

I saw up to 18 days I think.

(please correct me if I'm wrong though!)

Of course, some of them already got the results they wanted so they stopped.

Nevertheless, it's important to keep in mind that there will be days where you won't wanna approach.

Your job is to push through and get those 4 approaches done no matter what.

Hell, the day I laid my first girl from day game, after sex in the park, I went to the nearest mall and got my 4 approaches in

If you do get your 4 approaches in every day for 30 days, without spam approaching, with the clear intention of leaving with her agreeing for a date and giving you her number...

Or if you're doing nightgame, with the clear intention of leading the interaction as far as you can...

You will see tremendous results.

Guaranteed.

More than just getting dates and maybe lays, you'll learn so much in terms of approaching itself.

Let me know your biggest takeaway after the 30 days!

Mine was the ability to read what a girl is up to during the day and act accordingly.

Put me in any mall and I can tell you right away "This girl is waiting for her boyfriend/friends", "This girl is here to run an errand, she's quite busy", "This girl is here alone, casually strolling about" etc etc

I'm back in my home country at the moment. It's a small tropical island. I've never done a single cold approach here (lost my viriginity when i went off to college in a big city)

I went to the mall and did 4 approaches.

Number closed all 4 of them.

As of now, 4 dates on the line.

That came from knowing which girls to approach.

Just wanted to share that

Thats awesome ...
Man .

I chat up a lot of chicks but do not see it as approach .

To me 4 approaches a day means what you said .

 

[Beam]

Before starting the approach 4 girls a day challenge, I remember going through the journals on the boards to check whether anyone had actually completed the full challenge for 30 days.

I don't recall seeing anyone completing the total 30 days.

I saw up to 18 days I think.

(please correct me if I'm wrong though!)

I completed the full 30 days at the end of 2020 (I missed a day or two but made up for it by extending out the time. Also a lot of days because I had momentum I ended up talking to more than four anyway. For me I had success getting dates with some beauties but faltered at the date stage so didn't actually end up getting laid (closest I got was lying on top of her on my couch passionately making out). But the lessons I learnt from the challenge led to me getting laid soon after.

Let me know your biggest takeaway after the 30 days!

Mine was the ability to read what a girl is up to during the day and act accordingly.

Put me in any mall and I can tell you right away "This girl is waiting for her boyfriend/friends", "This girl is here to run an errand, she's quite busy", "This girl is here alone, casually strolling about" etc etc

This. I can read more subtle body language now. I can tell by her reaction if she's genuinely flattered but has a partner, I can tell when there is no interest, I can tell when she's in awe.

It really helped finetune the process of going from open to number close. Most of the same basic structure I use today to number close still comes mainly from what I learnt in the 30 days. Learning how to persist when she says she's in a hurry, funny gambits to initiate physical contact, different ways to open depending on the situation (indirect direct, direct etc), not just going for a number but talking to her about where you want to take her beforehand etc. My date game has tanked lately but my daygame process for getting dates is still quite good despite it being a couple years since doing the challenge.

 

[James D]

@Spyce D

How's the challenge going?

 

[Spyce D]

@Spyce D

How's the challenge going?

Actually , it's going good .

Generally I am opening 2-6 chicks regularly and since saturday ...I have been going direct which lead to snapchat close and a few conversations .

By going indirect , indirect-direct ...I was able to build up enough momentum which lead me to open chicks directly without stress .

Though , I still can't open chicks if they are walking in crowded areas. It happens in metro stations , sometimes.

But , hey ! The more I practice ..the better it will be.

 

[James D]

Actually , it's going good .

Generally I am opening 2-6 chicks regularly and since saturday ...I have been going direct which lead to snapchat close and a few conversations .

By going indirect , indirect-direct ...I was able to build up enough momentum which lead me to open chicks directly without stress .

Though , I still can't open chicks if they are walking in crowded areas. It happens in metro stations , sometimes.

But , hey ! The more I practice ..the better it will be.

Cool!

Keep us posted

 

[Spyce D]

Cool!

Keep us posted

Right now , during the commute ... I did 2 direct approaches that too solo for the first time ever .