LR 7-Eleven to Bed: My first daygame instant pull

[Atlas IV]

Recently, I was very hung up on a girl that I screwed things up with. A daygame cold approach, she was hot and obviously very attracted to me, but I forgot about the sparatuza effect and over-invested on the texting and follow-up date, which I think caused a plummet in attraction. She ghosted me.

Reading @Will_V's reply to my journal recently also made me think carefully about escalating more quickly with girls to avoid the slow death of attraction that can happen with insta-dates. This stuff was weighing on me, and I think motivated me to move faster in the context of this seduction.

Anyway, yesterday it was my last night in town. I'd just finished packing and had smoked half a joint and drank some kratom (a kind of energizing herbal drink that makes you slightly euphoric), and around 7:30pm I went out to eat some noodles. On the way back I stopped by at the 7-Eleven. as I walked down the steps out of the shop, a girl with hair cropped like the girl from Pulp Fiction passed me on the way in and flashed a brief but very warm smile. I looked back and noticed she had a great ass. I opened my mouth to open her but nothing came out, I was too fucking high.

I walked down the street a little, then decided to circle back, and caught her just as she was mounting her scooter and putting on her comically-oversized helmet. I opened with "that looks way too big for your tiny head" with an exaggerated suspicious expression. Almost immediately, she grinned, took off her helmet, stood up and took out a box of ice cream she had just bought and just started eating it in front of me. I sure didn't expect that, but took it as a sign of interest... (I guess?)

Feeling like I had nothing to lose since this was my last night here, I decided to push this interaction as far as I could. I moved her over to a table by the sidewalk.

Most of the verbal side of the interaction was just me horsing around - partly because I was high and didn't feel like having any serious conversation. it turned out that this is exactly what she wanted, as she works in a stressful sales job talking her head off all day, and doesn't feel like talking much outside of work.

I used the chocolate ice cream to make some stupid sexual jokes, she fed me a couple of spoonfuls and I gave a super exaggerated reaction comparing it to orgasms. She laughed.

At one point she asked me where I live, which I took to be a green light. I told her I live just around the corner, but leaving town in the morning. I asked if she was going to give me a lift home. She said sure.

After some more silly banter, we hopped on the scooter. Being straddled behind her definitely felt very sexual with my cock pressed into her lower back, my hands resting firmly on her hips. It was like a preview of what was to come. As she rode I touched her exposed back commenting on how soft her skin is, then joked that I'd better not distract her too much or she might crash and we'll die. She laughed.

We arrived at my condo, and she went and parked the bike in a parking spot, probably anticipating that I was going to invite her up. I said she should come and check out the guitar that I mentioned. She pretended to hum and har about it, but I could tell that her mind was made up.

We got into my room which was a total mess as I was in the middle of packing. I cleared the bed and got out my guitar. explaining that it's a beautiful handcrafted instrument from Spain, that it's alive and has a soul. I pulled her closer to smell it (Indian rosewood is quite fragrant when it's fresh).

I played some flamenco improvisations, which got a dreamy look in her eyes. This usually works like a magic spell. I taught her a chord and used that to escalate touch, beginning by kissing her neck. She resisted a little though, saying she cannot have sex with a stranger she just met. I pulled back a little and put on a movie, and continued the escalation as we were embracing.

I don't remember who said this (@StrayDog?) but I learned from someone here that the most powerful way to get a girl horny is to simply put her hand on your cock. I do this with almost every escalation now and so far it gets them wet without fail. So I did this, making sounds of pleasure, and put my hand down her pants and started to rub her through her panties. They were soaked.

I stood up, flopped out my dick and grabbed her by the hair. With delight, she got to work. After a while of mutual pleasuring, it was time. I had no condoms, but she didn't seem to care. I rawdogged her for probably a good half hour and came on her tits, then a second time an hour later. Gotta say, the thought that I'd just picked up this girl from outside a convenience store barely an hour ago made the sex extra satisfying for me.

She thanked me afterwards, saying she really needed some good sex. I could sense that she had decompressed a little from the stress of her life. This was definitely one of the most enjoyable daygame lays I've ever had. Nothing but laughing, fun, good sex, and positive vibes (and free ice cream).

Cold Approach Is

Takeaways:

- No doubt this chick was probably ovulating which was why I was able to pull her so quickly. still I'm proud that I didn't screw it up (I increasingly feel that seduction is not so much about doing the right thing as it is about avoiding mistakes). I did nothing fancy, just horsing around and treating her like a silly kid while ramping up the escalation.
- I did quickly run through the Comfort & Trust gambit when I first encountered resistance. This allowed her to verbalize to me that she does not just sleep with any random guy. (Actually, this exact same thing played out with the girl of my last daygame SDL report, which makes me think that simply allowing girls to tell you they are not a slut is actually a powerful way to disarm LMR.)
- It's good to push the bounds of what you think is possible. I definitely did not imagine when I left the house to go to 7-Eleven that I'd get a ride back with a girl, then fuck her brains out. Now that I have this fun reference point, I'm going to be more bold when I spy opportunities like this in the future.

 

[Stark]

Cold Approach Is

Indeed. Nothing beats the endorphin rush of a cold approach conquest. You'll be beaming this positive energy for the next few days

On the way back I stopped by at the 7-Eleven. as I walked down the steps out of the shop, a girl with hair cropped like the girl from Pulp Fiction passed me on the way in and flashed a brief but very warm smile.

It reminds me of that scene from Californication, Hank Moody & the surfer girl

I opened with "that looks way too big for your tiny head" with an exaggerated suspicious expression. Almost immediately, she grinned,

From @Will_V 's latest post - 'cold approach open is more about offering her pleasure simply by meeting you'. Excellent example

I did quickly run through the Comfort & Trust gambit when I first encountered resistance.

The best LMR buster out there.

It's good to push the bounds of what you think is possible. I definitely did not imagine when I left the house to go to 7-Eleven that I'd get a ride back with a girl, then fuck her brains out.

Saving this LR to keep reminding myself of this. Almost every girls has had a fast sex experience or is craving for it in her fantasies. 'Anything is possible'

 

[James D]

Loved reading this!

Cold approach rules indeed

 

[Will_V]

@Atlas IV nicely done! And hilarious, especially this:

I looked back and noticed she had a great ass. I opened my mouth to open her but nothing came out, I was too fucking high.

Some other great stuff you did:

I decided to push this interaction as far as I could. I moved her over to a table by the sidewalk.

You saw how compliant she was from the get go, and you kept building more and more of it.

At one point she asked me where I live, which I took to be a green light. I told her I live just around the corner, but leaving town in the morning. I asked if she was going to give me a lift home. She said sure.

That was the best part. Would have been so easy to get stuck thinking about logistics, but you just rode her compliance all the way home. Like, "how the fuck do we get home? I know, we'll use your scooter" lol.

I don't remember who said this (@StrayDog?) but I learned from someone here that the most powerful way to get a girl horny is to simply put her hand on your cock. I do this with almost every escalation now and so far it gets them wet without fail. So I did this, making sounds of pleasure, and put my hand down her pants and started to rub her through her panties. They were soaked.

Nice, I haven't done that a lot - I'll usually pull her in for the kiss and let her feel it that way. Seems effective though, might do it more often.

She thanked me afterwards, saying she really needed some good sex. I could sense that she had decompressed a little from the stress of her life. This was definitely one of the most enjoyable daygame lays I've ever had. Nothing but laughing, fun, good sex, and positive vibes (and free ice cream).

If you send her some good vibes over text every now and then, I'm sure she'll be down next time you're around.

 

[Bismarck]

Reads like a movie script.

I love her reaction to your opener lol. Never got a reaction like this before. Do you think she may have been a little high herself? (That would explain her ice-cream purchase (=munchies material)).

Interesting your observation that allowing her to verbalize that she's not a slut is enough (when you take one step back, then wash, rinse, and repeat forward) to overcome LMR. I suppose it lays the groundwork for her to then be able to rerun the tape over her head the next day and not feel guilty or that she acted slutty.

What do you say exactly, from Alek's C&T gambit, could you share? There's also that YT video "Tea and Consent" that Skjoldr spoke about.

 

[Atlas IV]

@Will_V,

Thanks for the feedback man! Your writings have really inspired me to improve my game.

@Bismarck,

Regarding the gambit - usually I follow it more or less line-for-line as per @Teevster's script. This time though, I just kinda spat it out as I couldn't remember the exact phrasing (plus we were already getting intimate).

I basically just said: "you know, I have a female friend recently who told me something interesting... She said that the best sex comes not from a certain position or a certain technique, but from comfort and trust (said these words slowly and with emphasis). Like, most guys who watch too much porn think it's all about a certain position or angle, but when you trust each other enough to know that the other person won't push past your boundaries. That allows you both to feel comfortable with each other - and that's the key to amazing sex. What do you think about that?

She agreed, but said that for her sex is something she will either decide to have or decide not to have with someone. I think this was her way of telling me that she is not a slut, which was perhaps a way of giving herself permission to sleep with me.