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Ok, so I kinda discovered this by accident. But basically, when I go on dates, I often like to show girls pictures on my phone from my travels. Most everything on my phone is pretty tame. Mostly hikes, cities, etc. But I also happen to have a couple pics from parties of girls making out with each other. So, a lot of the times, I'll just scroll on my phone as I'm showing pics. And eventually, I run into the makeout pic. I just says something casual about it like "Oh, that was just one of my parties" or something along those lines and continue swiping and talking about my other more normal pics. Some girls will verbally say something about it, others won't mention it, but they'll have an expression on their face like "woah, I didn't see that coming".
I don't recommend having a bunch of these in your phone because i'm sure a lot of girls will view you as a "party guy" which will in turn lower value. But if the rest of your pics are of you doing cool things (ex. traveling) and then you just have one or two of those, I think it can really have a positive effect.
Also, a lot of the time, i'll just randomly stop going through pics even when there is obviously more (I'll make sure she's already seen the makeout pic). And almost every time later on in the date, girls will ask to see my phone again cause they want to look through my other pics. And of of course, i'll always refuse with a playful/sexy smile. Eventually, they'll usually try to physically take the phone from my hands, And I of course, won't let them have it (all while maintaining a playful vibe...you don't want to look like you're actually being evasive or hiding something). This creates intrigue, challenges the girl and it also creates a fun game which involves a lot of touch. It also solidfies the comfort you've already built because most girls know that they wouldn't be willing to play hit/wrestle a guy who they don't feel comfortable around. It's always yielded positive results and increased ST.
I don't recommend having a bunch of these in your phone because i'm sure a lot of girls will view you as a "party guy" which will in turn lower value. But if the rest of your pics are of you doing cool things (ex. traveling) and then you just have one or two of those, I think it can really have a positive effect.
Also, a lot of the time, i'll just randomly stop going through pics even when there is obviously more (I'll make sure she's already seen the makeout pic). And almost every time later on in the date, girls will ask to see my phone again cause they want to look through my other pics. And of of course, i'll always refuse with a playful/sexy smile. Eventually, they'll usually try to physically take the phone from my hands, And I of course, won't let them have it (all while maintaining a playful vibe...you don't want to look like you're actually being evasive or hiding something). This creates intrigue, challenges the girl and it also creates a fun game which involves a lot of touch. It also solidfies the comfort you've already built because most girls know that they wouldn't be willing to play hit/wrestle a guy who they don't feel comfortable around. It's always yielded positive results and increased ST.