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A Cute gym girl that shows signs of Mixed Signals

Seraph

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So a few days back, this girl sent me a follow request on my Instagram. she had been noticing me in the gym but not as quite. she seemed very introvert and only talked to the few girl friends and a guy friend she had. She is very cute and the gym boys sure have a crush on her

So after she gave me a follow request, I started flirting with her on Instagram like in a funny way and then talked to her to find out that she is indeed an introvert and she has problems with people and attaching to people, due to her last relationship where she is still not that well moved on. She posts move on/therapy memes posts on her insta stories.

I am an extrovert and I like social interactions.
I had conversations with her the day after she followed me on Instagram. But yesterday is what I would like to talk about--
Yesterday I kind of went ahead and humorously flirted with her when I met her at the gym and I did see her get shy and blushing multiple times with her breaking eye contact but me still looking down her eyes. She also told me I was cute and all. She is definitely that introvert who doesn't initiate conversations but Instagram is her safe space where in she posts what she might be feeling like based on her current feelings.

While one day she sends me cute posts while the next day she just doesn't text me that much. And I think she is kind of showing mixed signals, either playing with me as friends or just not ready to attach after her last relationship.

So I wanted advice from you guys on how and where should I head with this-
  1. How to go ahead with her ? Like in general what should I do ?
  2. How should I approach her in the Gym and what to talk about ?
  3. How should I behave with her on the socials ?

Thank You
Regards
Seraph
 
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Marcellus

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Just ask her out man.
Shes smiling and blushing, calls you cute and is happy when you talk to her.
Just drop something casual "we should get some food sometime". No need to waste mental energy on all this stuff, just ask her out
 

Jan

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She ain't sending you mixed signals. It's just one day she is busy with stuff and another day she is not.

She gave you enough signals to ask her out. Stop thinking about these introverted/extroverted things and just tell her that she is cute, that you enjoyed talking to her on Insta and just ask her out.
 
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