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“If you were me…”
These four words are great for a specific situation. I was in a grocery store and was considering the idea of grabbing a quick snack.
If I’m in the mood for something and I know what I want, I grab it.
But I decided to use my authentic indecision (super key here) for this situation.
I see a woman. We exchange glances and smile at each other.
We’re about a good four feet apart staring at the candy shelf.
“If you were me…what candy would you go with?”
“Hmm…”
My internal dialogue says “OK, there we go. This works.”
She continues…”do you like chocolate?”
Me: “Yes. But I’m in no mood for it.”
Her: “Sweet or sour?”
Me: “Oh definitely sour.”
I end up grabbing a big ass bag of sour gummy bears.
So this wasn’t bad. I think this works well since it’s a situational setting.
However, I may feel at times I might come off as indecisive (which I’m not all the time).
Only in situations where I’m not sure what the hell to get.
But at the end of the day, I think it’s a pretty cool way to start a conversation using a specific situation.
So to my fellow Skilled Seducers: do I keep this here weapon in my arsenal or should I do something different going forward without looking indecisive?
These four words are great for a specific situation. I was in a grocery store and was considering the idea of grabbing a quick snack.
If I’m in the mood for something and I know what I want, I grab it.
But I decided to use my authentic indecision (super key here) for this situation.
I see a woman. We exchange glances and smile at each other.
We’re about a good four feet apart staring at the candy shelf.
“If you were me…what candy would you go with?”
“Hmm…”
My internal dialogue says “OK, there we go. This works.”
She continues…”do you like chocolate?”
Me: “Yes. But I’m in no mood for it.”
Her: “Sweet or sour?”
Me: “Oh definitely sour.”
I end up grabbing a big ass bag of sour gummy bears.
So this wasn’t bad. I think this works well since it’s a situational setting.
However, I may feel at times I might come off as indecisive (which I’m not all the time).
Only in situations where I’m not sure what the hell to get.
But at the end of the day, I think it’s a pretty cool way to start a conversation using a specific situation.
So to my fellow Skilled Seducers: do I keep this here weapon in my arsenal or should I do something different going forward without looking indecisive?
