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A night of bitch-shielding!
This Saturday I went out again by myself, since long time and I notice things have changed.
The first bar I met a lot of friends and we had a great time. I lost a cute girl because I didn't do anything with it.
Me and a buddy, who also loves going out often went to another bar. I met a lot of bitchy women.. "go away" (and she used her foot to push me away from the chair I took beside her), "we don't want you here", "please go, me and my friends are talking", "what are you doing here?"
Not sure if it was my approach.. but I felt totally detached from most of them and I even went back to some of them, like.. why?? there are also great guys out there.
I knew these women have had a lot of bad experiences with guys hitting on them but I was sincerely why?? I was like.. I'm me! I saw you girls, why are you like that?
That was a great change because I wasn't emotionally disturbed by it and just went on. Cool stuff.
Later we went to another place and there was some bitchy women again. The first ones I went over to. Whatever.
So I was just going around and see where my light was invited.
For example I went to a "U" table with a group of 6 girls and I stood there and wanted to say something but I only got one of the girls at a times attention for 2 seconds or so. So I dropped it and went on.
I was feeling like a newbie to this proactive night-game. I don't really get it. Girls in groups are totally alert if a guy comes!
So I went outside with my friend and chilled for a bit. My friend was talking to a girl behind me and then suddenly I get eye-contact with a girl and her friend coming over and we begin to talk.
Next thing I know I'm sitting with a cute girl who was totally different from all the girls I had met tonight. She was open, talkative, cute and she didn't seem needy.
We went upstairs with her friends and danced even though I didn't feel like it so I told her, "I don't feel like dancing.. I just wanna with be you".
We went somewhere private. Exchanged numbers before I left.
This Saturday I went out again by myself, since long time and I notice things have changed.
The first bar I met a lot of friends and we had a great time. I lost a cute girl because I didn't do anything with it.
Me and a buddy, who also loves going out often went to another bar. I met a lot of bitchy women.. "go away" (and she used her foot to push me away from the chair I took beside her), "we don't want you here", "please go, me and my friends are talking", "what are you doing here?"
Not sure if it was my approach.. but I felt totally detached from most of them and I even went back to some of them, like.. why?? there are also great guys out there.
I knew these women have had a lot of bad experiences with guys hitting on them but I was sincerely why?? I was like.. I'm me! I saw you girls, why are you like that?
That was a great change because I wasn't emotionally disturbed by it and just went on. Cool stuff.
Later we went to another place and there was some bitchy women again. The first ones I went over to. Whatever.
So I was just going around and see where my light was invited.
For example I went to a "U" table with a group of 6 girls and I stood there and wanted to say something but I only got one of the girls at a times attention for 2 seconds or so. So I dropped it and went on.
I was feeling like a newbie to this proactive night-game. I don't really get it. Girls in groups are totally alert if a guy comes!
So I went outside with my friend and chilled for a bit. My friend was talking to a girl behind me and then suddenly I get eye-contact with a girl and her friend coming over and we begin to talk.
Next thing I know I'm sitting with a cute girl who was totally different from all the girls I had met tonight. She was open, talkative, cute and she didn't seem needy.
We went upstairs with her friends and danced even though I didn't feel like it so I told her, "I don't feel like dancing.. I just wanna with be you".
We went somewhere private. Exchanged numbers before I left.
