A Rant on Pickup and Women

[AspiringStoic]

Really think about this:

What do women/girls do to us that is so bad?

Like really....

Men do horrible things to women. Like:

They murder them.
Beat them up.
Abduct them.
Rape them.
Stalk them.

Women do none of these things to us. They just leave us alone.

Whats the worst things women do to men?

Whats the worst thing a girl has done to me?

- Ignored me and continued walking when I tried to talk to her.

- Acted polite but disinterested and did not answer me enthusiastically when in a conversation.

- Told me she is not in the mood to chat or talk.

- Told me she is not interested.

- Said no when I asked her for a date.

- Said that she has a boyfriend.

- Agreed to a date, gave me her contact and did not respond to me when I messaged.

- Suddenly stopped responding or responded very infrequently or after long intervals.

- Agreed to a date on text and then still did not come out or respond later.

Like really compare these to the kind of things men do to women!!!!

Is there even any comparison??

AT WORST, what they do is just LEAVE US ALONE LOL

So think about this the next time you feel "scared" to approach a girl.

Think about it the next time when a girl does ANY of the above things to you.

Just compare it to what men do to women and feel GRATEFUL for how NICE women actually are.

They represent absolutely no 'danger' to us except the ones we inflict on ourselves mentally, by ascribing our own 'meanings' to their actions.

No woman would come after you and actively try to harm you when you are just trying to get on with life and stay away from trouble.

No woman beats us up when we approach them.

The next time you feel you got a "brutal rejection", or get "flaked on" or get "ghosted" and you feel its the WORST THING that has happened to you,

The next time you feel that this whole pickup thing is so HARD,

Just think about how the WORST THING that happened to you is so tame in comparison to the WORST THING a girl has faced or has had to be scared of when it comes to dealing with men!!

Just think about it, thank your lucky stars that you were born as a man and carry on with your journey.

P.S. If some of you had bad divorces etc sure you might have had girls do "worse" things than what I wrote. But generally for a guy doing pickup what I wrote is all that applies.

We often think about how "easy" it is for girls, (the entire Manosphere is built on whining about this) but I think its high time we recognize that its worse for them in so many ways.

 

[bgwh]

You've been reading too much feminist fear mongering material. She's more likely to get hit by lighting than be murdered or abducted.

As for "being beat up", if you mean by random people, again, we're talking less odds than having a building fall down on you. As a guy you're far more likely to get beaten up by random peope.

And if you mean in relationships: women engage in as much (or more) physical violence (especially when one-sided). Think the Amber Heard kind where it's combined with psychological violence, while pummeling his head, and mocking him as being weak and that nobody will defend him coz he's the man.

You have to realize that women enjoy huge privileges in dating, and they'd like to keep them. This is one reason that they over-exaggerate dangers/disadvantages to such an absurd level.

 

[KJ Francis]

I think this is fair up to the lay. In terms of approach anxiety, it's for sure true your fear is way worse than the likely reality. Nothing bad will happen, and very beautiful girls are often really kind.

We can approach late night on the street, bring girls to our place, or go to theirs without much fear of safety risk. Comfort and trust are not as immediate for her.