A sad case but a lesson learnt

[needforlove101]

Hi guys, this is my very first post so sorry for the length as I'm going through an emotional rollercoaster atm.

Quick background about me:
I've been studying game for a couple years now and now that I entered university (In UK) it feels great to move closer to the life I wanted - thanks chase. I've read Hector's book on King of College and it feels good to start to have movie like moments in life - thanks hector
I would consider myself a natural with girls (well I really don't want to brag but I'm a very intelligent person when it comes to understanding work and people) but have always been interested in a very specific niche - the shy, cute virgin girl over the party outgoing girls
I used to be a shy reserved person but over the years of studying girlschase I've become very charismatic and dominant and high value - taking part in many sports and its only week 4 of uni but I have the respect of men and the glances of women, being out in town and feeling like John Travolta - a top dog.

However, now ill go through everything about this one specific girl type I've always wanted -shy, cute virgin girl

• She comes from an all girls school before uni and seems very inexperienced - think rural girl, she's very small but a very pretty face however from what I gathered is a quiet girl - she's not clever in any ways (she does some shitty subject that involves reading) but I would just like to experience having a gf like that for emotional support - is this the best type of girl for that? that's what I feel missing in life - a girl for emotional support.

The Case:
If anyone could provide feedback on anything I've could have done better in this seduction that would be great

1. Met her in freshers week over a sport- noticed her - not very sporty but v cute, started by chatting to all the girls there to gain preselection and making good talk with the bois there, I'm v good at the sport in question so I was also dominating in the game. I've managed to first ask for her snap - no resistance. Then as the sport session ended and everyone was leaving she ended up 'by magic' walking back with me alone , I did some good talk about her major, can she cook etc - building rapport and trying to deep dive and using lots of incidental touch (bumping shoulders and also guiding her through traffic). I managed to get her number without any resistance however we approached the group who is in their block she ran back to them without saying bye or anything - clearly a sign of inexperience as I sense here nervousness.
2. Followed up with some casual texting the next day - "hey ... hope u had a great and safe night - name", at this stage she responds about 1-3hrs - no big plays during the first week of meeting her as this was freshers week and everyone caught the flu - managed to get the "get well soon meme" in there.
3. Did the standard text date text about week 3 of meeting her (I'm writing in week 4) - "hey ..., hope ur feeling better .blah blah blah.. what's ur schedule for like this weekend or next week for a bite or drink?" - she had a driving test that weekend so she went home but said I said to keep Saturday free and she said "I don't think ill be doing anything then anyways "
4. Now we are on to the interesting stuff - week 4: so firstly the date is planned for Saturday, so I texted her Wednesday at 9am (one text) - "hey how did ur test go, also hope u enjoyed ur little break" and she did not get back to me till the next day at 8pm but she did respond very warmly answering my question and trying to relate to my comments in the text, now this I would call slow texting/playing hard to get? - any reason why as I saw on her snap maps that she was clearly ignoring me - (not talk on snap cuz that's just social media and that's no good for seduction right)
5. anyways managed to arrange confirm the time and place of the date on Friday (day before)- local uni coffee place but however her texting response was now even slower - asked her if she's free at 1 ish we can go for something better than SPAR, anyways she confirmed that at midnight.
6. So Saturday comes about and this is where I say at 9am to meet me in specific location and at 1:20 - she did not respond to but left on read, followed by an anti-flake text at 12:40 saying "its a bit chilly - bring a coat" - which she finally responded to that she would bring a coat or jumper
7. Now I meet her and walk her over to the coffee shop - I'm very fashionable (get a lot of comments) and was clearly showing high value - especially in body language. I ask her how she's doing etc - small talk as we are waiting in the queue - she's quiet but responsive - I'm merely relying on my body language at the moment
8. Now once we get our food I sat ourselves inside and managed to within 2 minutes sit next to her - excuse being "show me a picture of ur dog" - I asked qualifying questions and building similarity - and she was responding well - I'm not sure how good my deep diving as this type of girl seems shallow in nature - ie not too many hobbies/stuff going on in life but to say the least my convos are better than any other boys that try to talk to her (connection and relatability). now I probably spent around 35minutes in the coffee shop and then told us to take a walk - I said ill show her my room - its a different accommodation block - she happily agreed.
9. The walk there took about 10 minutes during this time was some good talk (ie about family - I do not disclose much info about myself to be a sexy mysterious man but implicit value of rich good family) but I mostly let the tension get stronger by being content with the silence - she ended up asking me questions to which I reply and ask questions back - using strong body language and again using protective touch - which there was no complaints.
10. We end up at my accommodation block - it was a quiet day Saturday and I used some explicit value to tell her about the girls and boys in my flat being very receptive to me and basically sucking up to me - which she was impressed
11. Now here's where I fucked up - now from reading articles we all know that the 1st date is the best chance to fuck a girl. so she enters my room - nice and clean but I forget to tell her to take her shoes off. She stands in the centre of my room - I show her my room and talk about what it is like living here - its a quieter accommodation block than hers (less parties, nicer ppl) and I tried to give her a fucking kiss by leaning in (probably 2/3minutes in) but she politely declined and just leaned a bit back and said no (we were standing) - I then tried to offer her water - she declined. Now I'm not panicking or showing nerves at all (I'm very controlled person) so I just casually go back to conversation - death adverted?
12. Now here's my thinking here - ok there were no signs for a kiss and I miss timed it. So I got her to sit down and played some music (the whole event of all this in my room lasted about 10minutes total max - as the rule to kiss a girl is 10min but DID I DO IT RIGHT?) and engaged in talk and used my story about she's very similar to someone I knew (basically implicit value preselection story) which she was very inquisitive and intent on listening here. I sat next to her and carried on talking but at this point mentally I put so much effort in mentally just to get her to the date that I said fuck it no more. I would have and I did check her body language and eyes - she just had normal eyes and body was neutral facing towards the wall (I was sitting to the side of her reasonably close) - SO there were no signs she wanted to kiss but she wasn't going cold. SHOULD HAVE I GONE IN AGAIN and try to manhandle kiss her?
13. Now at this point I'm still in control and I decide its time to go back to her block (one of my friend there has his birthday so I got to give him a gift), so 10 min walk followed - did the same thing I did in the first 10 min walk - talking like nothing happened but I knew deep down she was thinking that I tried to kiss her and failed. Im currently feeling sad and ashamed that I didn't persist. But anyways still maintained strong confident manner touching protectively.
14. Ended up at her block and ended sitting down in a small group at this point 4 ppl - my mate there was sucking up to me cuz I was teaching him stuff and I just kinda ignored her but could clearly tell she was turned on now - flicking her her looking at me but staying quiet and mostly looking at her phone - oh god this feels so sad to type. Basically being dominant - another girl was there and I engaged in good convo with her - basically I showed I was very smart and very popular and very charismatic for about 1hr - husband like value. IS THIS BAD VALUE TO DISPLAY - but I do display this value cuz that's who I am so what do I do to offset HIGH VALUE?
15. anyways I ended up leaving on my own terms
16. Now I had something formal that evening and I got so drunk I texted her that I felt incomplete and sad sometimes that night - Should u ever drunk text a girl - I feel as tho its good for attainability as a high value guy - at this point she left me on read that night. I knew I fucked up ((? had I sent her into auto rejection cuz I'm too good for a shy girl?
17. Today as am writing this Sunday, I texted her "oh fuck" as a reply to the drunk text and tried to call her at midday - no response - left on read didn't even answer. IS this auto rejection or simply so much emotion for her that she has to just take a break? - DID I COME OF AS CLINGY or needy?

Im so sorry for this rant but I felt I nearly had her - she was attracted to me for sure in body language, and I feel like I lost a shy girl that I could have easily have had I FEEL JUST SO BAD. The thing is her long text reply time brings an emotional drain to me and her not responding currently has me feeling down? I feel sad and depressed even tho I have the looks and signs of attraction from other gorgeous women - HOWEVER THE TIME AND EFFORT I SPENT on this potentially easy lay has made me question if I can do it again this smoothly and this quickly. Ive been happy in uni up to this point - girls being flirty, men respecting men but now I just feel incomplete and a failure, it was so easy to get her number and now Im questioning if I can replicate those scenarios again - with the same type of girl

Now here is the questions that I ask: is there a possibility of sleeping with her now? if so what is my game plan? am in in the long game or have I just fucked up and the girl is a lost cause.

I can't express this feeling writing but when the feeling when u could have had something but didn't - it HURTS
note she has been an emotional drain cuz of her slow reply and she did say she was homesick at some point during the 4 weeks - this quiet energy gets to me - I used to be that person but now I'm outgoing but its still in my nature. Do I just accept that these quiet girls are no good, as I feel like a high value person should be going for the 10/10s

P.S - I'm not sure if this is bad but I'm living life atm by the day ie I'm responding on social media like within the hr or thinking overtime - so much pleasure can cause so much unease and wish I could go back to the rural quiet life where I was just playing video games - a simpler time

Again really sorry for the rant

 

[needforlove101]

Alright bois, i am now in a better mood: just done my very first daygame approach - worked like a charm - got number and asked for date which she agreed to. So heres a lesson to anyone - don't look back - it drains u - the missed opportunity I have, whilst yes i regret not doing better. At the end of the day seduction is a numbers game, and the more u fuck up, the more u learn, the better u get, the more numbers you get.

 

[happynanako]

You kinda of screw up at 6 and 8.
You could have taken the opportunity to drop her a call at 6 but you decided to follow up with double text.
8 - not sure what you were trying to achieve over here by bringing her to your room on a first date