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One of the key aspects of having a successful date is dressing better than the average man.
Let's think about it for a minute, shall we?
Girls HATE to go on dates! Why? Because they know most dates are lame and a waste of time.
Chances are even very young chicks already have been on lousy dates with men that really don't fit their criteria.
That said, let's examine the looks of the average dude going out on dates:
- slightly out of shape;
- little to no sense of grooming;
- zero impact on his overall style...not ugly, but he doesn't stand out at all;
When you don't dress up, even if you have good style, you are increasing the odds she's gonna put you in that average pool inside her mind.
And even sharp conversational skills are gonna have a hard time to help you to break out of that.
The solution
DRESS UP A NOTCH
Instead of casual, push for slightly formal (or business casual as some refer to it)
It doesn't matter how old or young you are, or the age gap between the two of you.
Always dress way better than the competition for a date!
Of course you won't wear a 3-piece suit for a walk in the park (unless its cold/snowing), but be mindful to wear at least a pair of formal shoes, formal pants (adjusted by a tailor) and a long sleeved adjusted shirt.
Holy shit POB, this seems like too much work! Well, let me tell you the practical effects of this strategy:
1) she feels shocked when she sees you dressed like that, because she was probably expecting jeans and t-shirt...this immediately spikes attraction, especially if she herself is dressed too casual;
2) you automatically created a familiar topic to talk about (fashion);
3) she becomes more receptive to sex talk (I think this is a side effect of her perceiving you as a more mature man);
4) It's easier to use the 3-bounce strategy and get SDL and SNL, even from online
5) retention becomes easier (maybe a formal dressed dude sends out slight better provider vibes, don't know)
6) you feel more confident (clothes make the man, is it not what they say?)
Below are some good comparisons so you guys can check the difference:
Check how the left guy looks more James Bond seductive
Although I don't necessarily agree with any of those styles, the third guy is probably the go to example here.
Some open chest action does not hurt if you are in shape
Of course always match belt and shoes!
Final thoughts:
- I'm talking about first dates exclusively here...night game and day game dressing codes are very different topics;
- If you have muscles, be very careful to not go over the top with the tightness of your clothes (or you may look like you are selling ass);
- Of course adjust it to your height and current shape;
Hope it helps you guys
~POB
Let's think about it for a minute, shall we?
Girls HATE to go on dates! Why? Because they know most dates are lame and a waste of time.
Chances are even very young chicks already have been on lousy dates with men that really don't fit their criteria.
That said, let's examine the looks of the average dude going out on dates:
- slightly out of shape;
- little to no sense of grooming;
- zero impact on his overall style...not ugly, but he doesn't stand out at all;
When you don't dress up, even if you have good style, you are increasing the odds she's gonna put you in that average pool inside her mind.
And even sharp conversational skills are gonna have a hard time to help you to break out of that.
The solution
DRESS UP A NOTCH
Instead of casual, push for slightly formal (or business casual as some refer to it)
It doesn't matter how old or young you are, or the age gap between the two of you.
Always dress way better than the competition for a date!
Of course you won't wear a 3-piece suit for a walk in the park (unless its cold/snowing), but be mindful to wear at least a pair of formal shoes, formal pants (adjusted by a tailor) and a long sleeved adjusted shirt.
Holy shit POB, this seems like too much work! Well, let me tell you the practical effects of this strategy:
1) she feels shocked when she sees you dressed like that, because she was probably expecting jeans and t-shirt...this immediately spikes attraction, especially if she herself is dressed too casual;
2) you automatically created a familiar topic to talk about (fashion);
3) she becomes more receptive to sex talk (I think this is a side effect of her perceiving you as a more mature man);
4) It's easier to use the 3-bounce strategy and get SDL and SNL, even from online
5) retention becomes easier (maybe a formal dressed dude sends out slight better provider vibes, don't know)
6) you feel more confident (clothes make the man, is it not what they say?)
Below are some good comparisons so you guys can check the difference:
Check how the left guy looks more James Bond seductive
Although I don't necessarily agree with any of those styles, the third guy is probably the go to example here.
Some open chest action does not hurt if you are in shape
Of course always match belt and shoes!
Final thoughts:
- I'm talking about first dates exclusively here...night game and day game dressing codes are very different topics;
- If you have muscles, be very careful to not go over the top with the tightness of your clothes (or you may look like you are selling ass);
- Of course adjust it to your height and current shape;
Hope it helps you guys
~POB
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