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HBEastAfrican (Last Monday) 40-50 minute interaction(?)
Something about africans and having dat ass. Well I hope so because it was hard to tell with her jacket. She had a very nice shape though.
What I looked like sort of.
Rough draft of what I was wearing Red sweater fit (Close to this)
Hair a mashup of this style and this (It’s sort of fucked up but it is presentable. My beautician mom roasts me nearly every time, but it has a bit of a just out of bed look I can style it to look more like this Nerd, but with my glasses I deadass look like that haha. Not exactly though.)
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HBSoftball (Last Wednesday) 10-15 minute interaction(?)
Something about softball girls and having dat ass. Plus being lesbians, but she wasn’t.
What I looked like sort of.
Rough draft of what I was wearing Blue Sweater Fit (Close to this)
Hair was the same
Something about softball girls and having dat ass. Plus being lesbians, but she wasn’t a lesbian.
I noticed her walk in the library with a real ogre looking woman who was also on the softball team. In no mood to deal with a 2-set. I have been both blessed and cursed with 2-sets before. Solo sets mostly go pleasantly though and or are less unpleasant if they don’t end up that way. My game just aint proper enough for consistent 2-set WORK.
Anyway those were my internal reasons for AA and not approaching. I was pretty sure she’d just be with the other girl so I went about my library business just fucking around and flirting with the librarians.
As I’m walking out I’m taking a brief scan of the room. I see some girls I previously approached and went nowhere with…that shit bothers me even still.
Anyway I catch her give a very intrigued glance at me as I’m walking out and funnily she’s all alone. This is rare. A separated 2-set…what a treat.
Anyway I run away. Ik ik. “What the fuck Mist? She AI’d you” Yeah well she was behind another set I’d approached before and I was self conscious plus pussy so I left.
Went to my hideout in my college and regrouped myself mentally. I knew I had to go back and approach her. I must seek to eradicate the inner bitch in me as much as possible if I have any hope of getting PIV action like ever.
So I grab my water bottle and prepare one of my canned approaches.
I reenter the the college hallways with a water bottle and a vague canned opener.
I enter the library and contemplate “meeting smooth” I’m not directly approaching her with an audience. That’s straight retarded in this venue and even if successful I have other women I want to meet and have already met present. Not an option.
I see a dude I actually don’t like at all and move in that direction past her. She’s solo still and one of the girls I approached her with left her. She’s alone now. I talk to him for a bit. Just shooting shit. He’s doing alright. He has a good heart just atrociously socially calibrated. Anyway I just cut the interaction as I’m not here for him just merely as an excuse to be in this direction.
As I’m exiting I walk by another girl who gives me a very deep look. It was weird. I mean my posture and vibe was nice today, but that was a very direct AI. We’re just looking at eachother. So many bored girls I guess. Maybe we’ve met before… not sure, but I wasn’t after her. She’s cute but not the target.
I go look at the STD pamphlets a couple feet from her and have an internal laugh because why the fuck am I looking at these lmao. I sell the act further by quizzically looking at the condoms.
PEAK HOVERING LADS
I turn around and in a few steps almost going by her to fake leave again then stopping
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HBHorsehips (Last Friday) 15 minute interaction(?)
Hair was the same.
Rough draft of what I was wearing Red sweater fit 2
I pull up to the school another day in paradise.
TODAY I AM DETERMINED TO APPROACH A MOVING SET.
I wanted to yesterday, but was extremely pussy. Ended up talking to a warm, but taken girl I’m normally awkward with as she’s taken, but has shown some openess. Idek man. Whatever.
Something about horse girls and having dat ass.
Actually for real. As I was saying when I pulled up I saw her exit her car and walk in the school. I was like DAMN. Parked and tried to get inside before her so I could casually *bump* into her.
Anyway I was too late. I searched low and high. Even caught another girl with ass I contemplated about whether or not was her… it wasn’t and I didn’t approach her for reasons I can’t remember.
I forget about her but mentally punch the air scout the place out to see what the volume of girls exiting their classes would look like and settle on a hallway stretch that’ll have many moving sets.
I’m amping myself up trying to get myself in the zone with a little rushed meditation and positive future projection.
I really want to get rid of my block with moving sets and develop some extended social freedom with the additional benefit of upping the odds I’m laid like a motherfucker.
I approach the hallway early and no one has left yet. They normally leave a bit early, but I’m confident I’ll catch them. I go to the restroom and give it a minute. The aim is to catch moving sets outside the door where I fear them most..
I guess that minute was too long as when I came back everyone was gone. Very confusing haha. They must’ve been out as soon as I went to the restroom. I go down the hall look at the time and see I literally wasn’t even gone that long…I mean it is Friday though lmao.
I turn around for no reason and there she is out of a classroom last. HBHorseHips. she’s MOVING. Here’s my moment…
I go towards her and she abruptly takes a seat a couple steps away from the classroom on a little table.
What the fuck? I’m both lucky and unlucky.
Any nervousness I felt is completely gone at this point. My bread and butter is stationary sets and I have a little momentum behind me. I have an internal chuckle then enter improv mode. I was aiming for a moving set though.
I go pass her and take a seat on a couch adjacent to her. Take a lot of space give a loud sigh and just chill.
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Inspirations
Sticking Points
Something about africans and having dat ass. Well I hope so because it was hard to tell with her jacket. She had a very nice shape though.
What I looked like sort of.
Rough draft of what I was wearing Red sweater fit (Close to this)
Hair a mashup of this style and this (It’s sort of fucked up but it is presentable. My beautician mom roasts me nearly every time, but it has a bit of a just out of bed look I can style it to look more like this Nerd, but with my glasses I deadass look like that haha. Not exactly though.)
Interaction
I was walking around my college doing some errands or fucking around and then I noticed this seated girl in pretty nice clothes just chilling in a very open area.
I don’t instantly approach and as far as I’m aware she didn’t really acknowledge me. She seemed bored and in her own world. I vaguely considered her cute, but I didn’t stare her down and was “doing” something.
Anyway I blew by her up the stairs and settled that if I saw her again I’d approach no matter what. Which is a cop out as anyone knows often you aren’t lucky to have her in a similar context and or she just outright is gone.
Sometimes…she doesn’t go though.
I’m going down the stairs and she’s still there. I stop on the little platform overlooking the whole room like this 850 × 565 and say
Mist: I feel so powerful up here.
She looks around. I’m sort of holding a little self amused grin I haven’t looked directly at her yet. (Speaker Centered Pre-Opener)
Mist: So tall and powerful.
She looks up and I forget the exact expression, but there’s this curiosity and warmth to it.
Mist: Like have you seen lion king?
HBEastAfrican: No.
Mist: No way really! Wow.
She’s grinning at me. This is quite absurd we’re now looking at eachother while I overlook her with a shit eating grin and tons of self amused energy.
HBEastAfrican: No I haven’t.
I pause for a moment thinking of another popular movie where there is a famous scene where the characters are overlooking a height.
Mist: Tell me you’ve seen titanic? Like come one. You’ve heard of it right?
HBEastAfrican: I have.
Mist: You’ve watched it though right?
HBEastAfrican: No I haven’t seen it.
Written out this looks a bit dry but there was massive vibe just off the opener and the absurdity of me power posing above her and grinning like an idiot. Very good boyish vibes.
Mist: WOW! (Being over dramatic)
I reenact some iconic poses from lion king and titanic which makes her giggle a bit and just amuse myself with this dumbs opener and misdirection using movies. After awhile her intrigue is way high and she just blurts in a cute but assertive way.
HBEastAfrican: Come down here!
Mist: Ok!
I come down and plant myself a bit from her so she she can get a look at me and to also look at her. It also works for pacing as making a beeline at her is way too much. We’re chilling
Mist: See I’m a bit shorter now, but as you can see I’m still pretty much tall and powerful. ( Self deprecation. I feel mixed about it now, but we were vibing and it was mostly me having a poke at her having to look up at me for a majority of the interaction thus far only for me to come down and be 5’6 haha.)
She makes some comment about it being awkward for her neck to talk to me when I was up on that staircase. It seemed like her trying to smooth out the transition as she really did seem to blurt that out haha. How cute.
We vibe for a minute and I’m giving her a look. She’s still seated and I’m standing. Sadly nowhere around her is a convenient place for me to sit, so we chat about something superfluous and I grab her name and then I comment on her boredom. Pause and then angle my body towards a place we can sit together.
Mist: Come with me. Let’s sit over there.
HBEastAfrican: Ok.
Off we go. A few steps to somewhere more convenient for a conversation ( I won’t be using that area again as it wasn’t nearly as convenient as I’d like for bubbling, but it would do and for whatever reason I’ve learned that my sets mostly seem to sink in deeper when others are passing by. Exhibitionist or something haha.)
I wait for her to have a seat and notice she goes across from me so I give her a small tease while I cut space.
Mist: Ah yes this is a job interview.
HBEastAfrican: *Giggle*
I grab a seat beside her, but not nearly close enough as this was my first set and admittedly I was retarded. Should’ve been closer. Anyway we are now more or less side by side and she’s good fun we are role playing a job interview briefly. Just teasing her for sitting across from me. I pretty much tease all girls who do that nowadays, but I’m a hypocrite sometimes.
Anyway we’re settling in and without skipping a beat we start talking. I’m cold reading her based off our interaction so far which sucks her in pretty deeply. Mostly whether she has siblings and bullshitting on her family dynamics which she eats up. I’m a good bullshitter. She tranced during my cold read for a bit or deep focused.
Some deep diving into where she’s from and where she’s going. What she plans to do and her worldview. Some compliments on her style here and there.
Key callbacks were created by chase framing her, teacher pupil frames due to her being a foreigner which resulted in her saying very sultrily “I can see you’ll teach me a lot.” Which ramped up sexual tension and to be honest I reacted like a virgin idiot haha, talking about flight school with future projection and we frames as well as connecting it to traveling and dreams. She tells me she’s a nurse and it fits. She’s shown very submissive things about her. Talks to me about how long she’s been in my small town how it’s so different here and people don’t really interact with eachother.
I learn this is her first semester here.
I scale back some of the teasing as she seems very very very invested in my words at some point. I continue chase framing, but I mix it with a compliment and warmth. Also I overexaggerate when teasing so it’s clear to her I’m being retarded.
A real pleasant time with a few sexually tense moments interspersed here and there and lot’s of her talking about her and me somewhat holding onto my intrigue. Also got to play around with the language barrier in order to firmly take teacher frame while also being a lovable asshole.
I mostly thread cut off myself. I did comment on me being a middle child, my mom being a beautician, grandmother working in health, and briefly about music so we had some similarity and rapport
Wish I could give more details of each verbal but I just want the quick and dirty. If you want elaboration I’m not too cloudy.
Anyway we were nearing the end of the interaction by my terms. She never really seemed like she wanted to go. I number close her after a soft close and message myself the “hey hottie”. Then I tell her to send me the spelling of her name which she does promptly.
This spikes her quite a bit, but honestly she was already pretty sparked off the rip.
I then pivot to hard close with this spark for a meeting tomorrow at a coffee shop near my place. She doesn't fight it, but it's sort of ambiguous. Hard close her a bit harder and it loses ambiguity, but she seems concerned. Tests and shit. Lot's of them. She's not lying ik.
With that we’re off. Never really seeming like we wanted to part in the first place. Some teasing and lingering holds us by a thread.
I don’t instantly approach and as far as I’m aware she didn’t really acknowledge me. She seemed bored and in her own world. I vaguely considered her cute, but I didn’t stare her down and was “doing” something.
Anyway I blew by her up the stairs and settled that if I saw her again I’d approach no matter what. Which is a cop out as anyone knows often you aren’t lucky to have her in a similar context and or she just outright is gone.
Sometimes…she doesn’t go though.
I’m going down the stairs and she’s still there. I stop on the little platform overlooking the whole room like this 850 × 565 and say
Mist: I feel so powerful up here.
She looks around. I’m sort of holding a little self amused grin I haven’t looked directly at her yet. (Speaker Centered Pre-Opener)
Mist: So tall and powerful.
She looks up and I forget the exact expression, but there’s this curiosity and warmth to it.
Mist: Like have you seen lion king?
HBEastAfrican: No.
Mist: No way really! Wow.
She’s grinning at me. This is quite absurd we’re now looking at eachother while I overlook her with a shit eating grin and tons of self amused energy.
HBEastAfrican: No I haven’t.
I pause for a moment thinking of another popular movie where there is a famous scene where the characters are overlooking a height.
Mist: Tell me you’ve seen titanic? Like come one. You’ve heard of it right?
HBEastAfrican: I have.
Mist: You’ve watched it though right?
HBEastAfrican: No I haven’t seen it.
Written out this looks a bit dry but there was massive vibe just off the opener and the absurdity of me power posing above her and grinning like an idiot. Very good boyish vibes.
Mist: WOW! (Being over dramatic)
I reenact some iconic poses from lion king and titanic which makes her giggle a bit and just amuse myself with this dumbs opener and misdirection using movies. After awhile her intrigue is way high and she just blurts in a cute but assertive way.
HBEastAfrican: Come down here!
Mist: Ok!
I come down and plant myself a bit from her so she she can get a look at me and to also look at her. It also works for pacing as making a beeline at her is way too much. We’re chilling
Mist: See I’m a bit shorter now, but as you can see I’m still pretty much tall and powerful. ( Self deprecation. I feel mixed about it now, but we were vibing and it was mostly me having a poke at her having to look up at me for a majority of the interaction thus far only for me to come down and be 5’6 haha.)
She makes some comment about it being awkward for her neck to talk to me when I was up on that staircase. It seemed like her trying to smooth out the transition as she really did seem to blurt that out haha. How cute.
We vibe for a minute and I’m giving her a look. She’s still seated and I’m standing. Sadly nowhere around her is a convenient place for me to sit, so we chat about something superfluous and I grab her name and then I comment on her boredom. Pause and then angle my body towards a place we can sit together.
Mist: Come with me. Let’s sit over there.
HBEastAfrican: Ok.
Off we go. A few steps to somewhere more convenient for a conversation ( I won’t be using that area again as it wasn’t nearly as convenient as I’d like for bubbling, but it would do and for whatever reason I’ve learned that my sets mostly seem to sink in deeper when others are passing by. Exhibitionist or something haha.)
I wait for her to have a seat and notice she goes across from me so I give her a small tease while I cut space.
Mist: Ah yes this is a job interview.
HBEastAfrican: *Giggle*
I grab a seat beside her, but not nearly close enough as this was my first set and admittedly I was retarded. Should’ve been closer. Anyway we are now more or less side by side and she’s good fun we are role playing a job interview briefly. Just teasing her for sitting across from me. I pretty much tease all girls who do that nowadays, but I’m a hypocrite sometimes.
Anyway we’re settling in and without skipping a beat we start talking. I’m cold reading her based off our interaction so far which sucks her in pretty deeply. Mostly whether she has siblings and bullshitting on her family dynamics which she eats up. I’m a good bullshitter. She tranced during my cold read for a bit or deep focused.
Some deep diving into where she’s from and where she’s going. What she plans to do and her worldview. Some compliments on her style here and there.
Key callbacks were created by chase framing her, teacher pupil frames due to her being a foreigner which resulted in her saying very sultrily “I can see you’ll teach me a lot.” Which ramped up sexual tension and to be honest I reacted like a virgin idiot haha, talking about flight school with future projection and we frames as well as connecting it to traveling and dreams. She tells me she’s a nurse and it fits. She’s shown very submissive things about her. Talks to me about how long she’s been in my small town how it’s so different here and people don’t really interact with eachother.
I learn this is her first semester here.
I scale back some of the teasing as she seems very very very invested in my words at some point. I continue chase framing, but I mix it with a compliment and warmth. Also I overexaggerate when teasing so it’s clear to her I’m being retarded.
A real pleasant time with a few sexually tense moments interspersed here and there and lot’s of her talking about her and me somewhat holding onto my intrigue. Also got to play around with the language barrier in order to firmly take teacher frame while also being a lovable asshole.
I mostly thread cut off myself. I did comment on me being a middle child, my mom being a beautician, grandmother working in health, and briefly about music so we had some similarity and rapport
Wish I could give more details of each verbal but I just want the quick and dirty. If you want elaboration I’m not too cloudy.
Anyway we were nearing the end of the interaction by my terms. She never really seemed like she wanted to go. I number close her after a soft close and message myself the “hey hottie”. Then I tell her to send me the spelling of her name which she does promptly.
This spikes her quite a bit, but honestly she was already pretty sparked off the rip.
I then pivot to hard close with this spark for a meeting tomorrow at a coffee shop near my place. She doesn't fight it, but it's sort of ambiguous. Hard close her a bit harder and it loses ambiguity, but she seems concerned. Tests and shit. Lot's of them. She's not lying ik.
With that we’re off. Never really seeming like we wanted to part in the first place. Some teasing and lingering holds us by a thread.
Number Close Followup
Last Monday
HBEastAfrican: Hey hottie!
HBEastAfrican or you Can Call me EA
Mist: Ok gotcha and stop it you’ll make me blush
HBEastAfrican: lol emojis
Mist: [pictures of food prep]
When you see me tomorrow just know
HBEastAfrican: what are you making
Next Day
Mist: I’m a chef!
Goodluck with your schoolday HBEastAfrican. I heard there’s a bunch of tests for nurses coming up
HBEastAfrican: Thank you very much Mist
Mist: Np. You still up for [Coffee Shop] at 5:00?
HBEastAfrican: Hi Mist how r u? n how is your day going?
I just wanna let you know if we can remake it next time I don't think I can make it today it's just very busy day
Mist: I’m chilling. Also don’t sweat it I’ll be in your same position pretty soon haha
Just throw out a day and I’ll give it a look HBEastAfrican. Deal?
Today
Mist: Mornin’
HBEastAfrican: lol emojis good Afternoon
Mist: You know what I just realized
HBEastAfrican: What?
Mist: Ok so you remember how we were talking about flight school?
The places you’ve seen and want to go to
HBEastAfrican: Yeah
No other messages after that so far… too lazy to think of anything plus admittedly not sure if I want to put much time in this set considering radio silence after blah blah blah I’m a smidge salty and also worried about the precedent. Easier to meet someone else. Always is for me. When it starts going downhill it’s better for me to go is my current mentality. Not conducive to learning game y’know, but I’m working on it.
HBEastAfrican or you Can Call me EA
Mist: Ok gotcha and stop it you’ll make me blush
HBEastAfrican: lol emojis
Mist: [pictures of food prep]
When you see me tomorrow just know
HBEastAfrican: what are you making
Next Day
Mist: I’m a chef!
Goodluck with your schoolday HBEastAfrican. I heard there’s a bunch of tests for nurses coming up
HBEastAfrican: Thank you very much Mist
Mist: Np. You still up for [Coffee Shop] at 5:00?
HBEastAfrican: Hi Mist how r u? n how is your day going?
I just wanna let you know if we can remake it next time I don't think I can make it today it's just very busy day
Mist: I’m chilling. Also don’t sweat it I’ll be in your same position pretty soon haha
Just throw out a day and I’ll give it a look HBEastAfrican. Deal?
Today
Mist: Mornin’
HBEastAfrican: lol emojis good Afternoon
Mist: You know what I just realized
HBEastAfrican: What?
Mist: Ok so you remember how we were talking about flight school?
The places you’ve seen and want to go to
HBEastAfrican: Yeah
No other messages after that so far… too lazy to think of anything plus admittedly not sure if I want to put much time in this set considering radio silence after blah blah blah I’m a smidge salty and also worried about the precedent. Easier to meet someone else. Always is for me. When it starts going downhill it’s better for me to go is my current mentality. Not conducive to learning game y’know, but I’m working on it.
Followup Meeting
Before the texts from to day and after leaving my last messages on delivered we bumped into eachother in the library.
She was happy to see me and broke the touch barrier. Pleasant and short. No mention of another meeting time
She was happy to see me and broke the touch barrier. Pleasant and short. No mention of another meeting time
HBSoftball (Last Wednesday) 10-15 minute interaction(?)
Something about softball girls and having dat ass. Plus being lesbians, but she wasn’t.
What I looked like sort of.
Rough draft of what I was wearing Blue Sweater Fit (Close to this)
Hair was the same
Something about softball girls and having dat ass. Plus being lesbians, but she wasn’t a lesbian.
I noticed her walk in the library with a real ogre looking woman who was also on the softball team. In no mood to deal with a 2-set. I have been both blessed and cursed with 2-sets before. Solo sets mostly go pleasantly though and or are less unpleasant if they don’t end up that way. My game just aint proper enough for consistent 2-set WORK.
Anyway those were my internal reasons for AA and not approaching. I was pretty sure she’d just be with the other girl so I went about my library business just fucking around and flirting with the librarians.
As I’m walking out I’m taking a brief scan of the room. I see some girls I previously approached and went nowhere with…that shit bothers me even still.
Anyway I catch her give a very intrigued glance at me as I’m walking out and funnily she’s all alone. This is rare. A separated 2-set…what a treat.
Anyway I run away. Ik ik. “What the fuck Mist? She AI’d you” Yeah well she was behind another set I’d approached before and I was self conscious plus pussy so I left.
Went to my hideout in my college and regrouped myself mentally. I knew I had to go back and approach her. I must seek to eradicate the inner bitch in me as much as possible if I have any hope of getting PIV action like ever.
So I grab my water bottle and prepare one of my canned approaches.
I reenter the the college hallways with a water bottle and a vague canned opener.
I enter the library and contemplate “meeting smooth” I’m not directly approaching her with an audience. That’s straight retarded in this venue and even if successful I have other women I want to meet and have already met present. Not an option.
I see a dude I actually don’t like at all and move in that direction past her. She’s solo still and one of the girls I approached her with left her. She’s alone now. I talk to him for a bit. Just shooting shit. He’s doing alright. He has a good heart just atrociously socially calibrated. Anyway I just cut the interaction as I’m not here for him just merely as an excuse to be in this direction.
As I’m exiting I walk by another girl who gives me a very deep look. It was weird. I mean my posture and vibe was nice today, but that was a very direct AI. We’re just looking at eachother. So many bored girls I guess. Maybe we’ve met before… not sure, but I wasn’t after her. She’s cute but not the target.
I go look at the STD pamphlets a couple feet from her and have an internal laugh because why the fuck am I looking at these lmao. I sell the act further by quizzically looking at the condoms.
PEAK HOVERING LADS
I turn around and in a few steps almost going by her to fake leave again then stopping
Interaction
Mist: Hey?
I wait. I’m not looking directly at her just yet. She’s on her laptop.
HBSoftball is at attention and waits a bit then I believe I remember her saying yeah.
I put on a small grin and imo in a way too small voice from my throat due to nervousness
Mist: Can you watch this for a sec (my water bottle)?
She takes a look at it. Sort of has an incredulous little look.
I believe she says ok. Hard to pay attention my mind was a smidge overloaded. Partially why I like this opener. I can leave for a bit regroup then I have to come back.
I deliver this playfully but partially paced quickly and still too weak imo.
Mist: Thanks. Keep it safe. I don’t trust this guy over there.
She giggles a bit at that and we have a small smile before I’m off to the restroom to regroup which is where I usually go. Either to piss or just throw water on my face after doing this opener. Think about my fundamentals and whatnot. Never too long though.
I walk back and we’re in.
My tone and pacing isn’t on point, but my vibe otherwise is a net positive, plus I believe her AI made it acceptable for my initial shortcomings.
Small grin.
Mist: Thank you very much!
HBSoftball: No problem ( Or something. I wasn’t present tbh.)
Mist: *Points at water bottle* he wasn’t causing you any trouble was he.
She gives me her attention off her laptop and a little smile.
HBSoftball: No.
Mist: That’s great as I really tried to raise him well.
For a bit longer I hold this thread and get her giggling acting like my water bottle is my son and just some self amusing dumb shit. Steadily my tonality and pacing is returning to me.
Vibe is good! Shaky but good enough and she keeps going between giving me full attention and looking at her laptop.
I kill the thread at a middle high point. By just saying nah I’m just playing and then
Mist: Can I sit here for like 5 seconds?
HBSoftball: Yes.
Now I’ll try my best to describe the remainder of the interaction.
I sit across from her as this is pretty shaky and I’m nervous. I position my chair away from her rather than square up my seating with her as she’s still on her laptop and it seemed like the most appropriate move as to continue the intrigue.
“Is he here for me? What does he want?”
Mist: So what’s the vibe today…. Out of 5. 1 being “I’m suffering and life is horrible.” 5 being “I’m literally on crack right now.”
She looks at me with the warmest expression and a feminine joy.
HBSoftball: 4.
I had a small pause as I felt this somewhat had something to do with the fact that I approached her. I’m narcissistic somewhat, so even if that wasn’t true it emboldened me and I entered my mode.
I toyed around with the thread a bit. Asking if it was lower 4 or higher 4 and I believe I said that’s a good amount of crack or something which got her smiling. She’s decently quiet and shy so I realize I’ll be carrying this one and she also keeps going from full attention to her laptop intermittently which prevents me from fully giving her my attention.
We begin discussing what she’s working on, her degree (teacher) pre-k, and where she was from.
I’m a bit cloudy, but here’s the keys in the threads
Her degree thread opened up room for me to relate with her and speak on my experience in education as well as boost my own state with a joke I used when I was in state one time and reuse whenever I meet a teacher because it spikes them a bit and it also reminds me I was in state at one point subconsciously. “ We teach the kids. We don’t beat them.” Made some funny threads with it before. But thread cut using intrigue so I can bait her into asking me my degree. Then I tell her I’m a stripper which makes her turn red and I hold the thread for a bit. Then tell her I’m just playing and she releases some of the tension, but holds the electricity haha. Tell her I’m in music. I don’t elaborate too much further. Still haven’t found a reliable way to use this information. She’s opening up talking about her mom and stuff.
Got her name finally. And held a retardedly long lingering handshake with massive eye contact. Neither of us letting go. I thought it was much since I reached across the table to get it but the fact that we were holding it for so long made up for it big time.
She’s working on a historical discussion about the Salem witch trials which I’m intimately aware of and is a great Segway into some secret society topics, but I don’t fully capitalize due to that hint of fear expressing my sexuality. I thought of a thread telling her why witches became synonymous with brooms, but settled with throwing those men under the bus and telling her I was slightly better after showing I knew a smidge on the subject. Should’ve stroked when the iron was hot on that one. So many juicy frames and gambits can be built off that. I only showed the very surface of my secret society. Am I even secret society. Tbh it still feels like I’m a scared little virgin a lot of the time.
Somehow I pivot to the fact that she doesn’t even know my name which makes her smile for whatever reason and she cuts through the silence to ask me my name. I put my hand out another time and we hold another prolonged ass lingering handshake. Eye contact, tone, and pacing on point I say
Mist: I’m Mist.
HBSoftball: Nice to meet you Mist.
Mist: Nice to meet you as well.
Then there is a short little tension filled whatever annnnd release onto the next thread
Where she was from turned to a relatively funny thread. The answer was boring and predictable, but I created a joke out of it and cold read her as European which she ate up, and was just like “WHY.” Just giggling. She’s still on her laptop but it noticeably isn’t getting as much attention as me.
Mist: Idk. You’re definitely French though.
HBSoftball: haha no way.
Blah blah I teasing
And then the highlight moment in this approach. I have her full attention.
Mist: Here. Say Viva La Revolution.
She has an incredulous expression but it is still pleasant.
HBSoftball: No I’m not doing that.
I thread cut to something briefly
Then call her French again
Which gets her giggling
I stop.
Full attention on her. Dead eye contact. Tonality from deep within and pacing sent from the heavens.
Mist: Say Viva….
I look at her with no internal doubt she will say this for whatever reason. I just look at her and wait. She looks back sort of deeply
HBSoftball:….Viva….
I’m not sure whether I had a grin or a blank psychopathic blankness probably a mixture. For whatever reason completely unplanned I go.
Mist: La…
HBSoftball: La…
She’s watching me. My each word. She’s deeply focused. So am I.
Mist: Revolution
HBSoftball: Revolution
That sits there in the silence for a bit. She’s tranced.
I smile. We’re squared up. I think she forgot about her laptop and whatever game she was playing haha.
Mist: Told you you were French
She releases and just has this pleasant demeanor and to her that is magnificent.
We don’t talk about much else of import. I do light us vs them framing by telling her people are crazy around us and to not believe anyone who says anything about me as little light things, but a big thing to note is after that little accidental very deep trance she was very reactive and compliant to even the smallest whim.
I point in a direction she’s there in an instant. I look at her she looks at me. I look somewhere she looks. She was in sync with my every move. It was weird af to me. I was confused sometimes. Like what the fuck girl I’m not even telling you to look that way or do that. Why are you so reactive? Compliance was at retarded levels.
I’m preparing to make my exit as I actually have a class.
I make some jokes about me being there longer than 5 seconds so she must be a kinda cool person or whatever. Which she was aight.
I tease her for not telling me I was there for longer than 5 seconds and then play with time. Basically stuff like “ I’m only allowed to stay for 7 seconds”
Then I slowly climbed up to 7.
I get up and cut space finally. Ask her about what her day will look like.
Say it was cool meeting her and go in for a farewell lingering handshake. Which we once again hold for a very long time for the 3rd and final time.
Buying temp is up and I decide to soft close into a number.
Start talking about coffee shops and ask her if she’s been to any.
Mist: You been to [Coffee Place]?
HBSoftball: No I haven’t. I don’t really go many places…not many coffee shops. Well a few.
She’s opened up and is qualifying on something pretty minor.
Mist: You should come with me sometime.
She tenses up. Seems to start closing up a bit and have a bit of a surprised expression.
I notice this, but it’s whatever. I’m in set too deep.
HBSoftball: Maybe…
Mist:…hmm
That maybe bothered me. I sort of felt like I should say something, but hey I’ve gotten that before. It’s whatever at this point
Mist: Ok cool. Let me add my number to your phone.
She hesitates, but complies. Which is no surprise, but the vibe is increasingly becoming a bit colder.
I do the skills number close. Some light vibing, but it isn’t getting to her and her eye contact is faltering. The laptop is returning back to her reality.
I’m already leaving though.
I hand her back her phone after sending the message and tell her to send me her name which she gives a non answer to only partially looking at me.
I exit giving her some chase frames which she gives quizzical looks to, but the last one gets a smile.
I exit stage right, tell a joke to the librarian and I’m off.
I wait. I’m not looking directly at her just yet. She’s on her laptop.
HBSoftball is at attention and waits a bit then I believe I remember her saying yeah.
I put on a small grin and imo in a way too small voice from my throat due to nervousness
Mist: Can you watch this for a sec (my water bottle)?
She takes a look at it. Sort of has an incredulous little look.
I believe she says ok. Hard to pay attention my mind was a smidge overloaded. Partially why I like this opener. I can leave for a bit regroup then I have to come back.
I deliver this playfully but partially paced quickly and still too weak imo.
Mist: Thanks. Keep it safe. I don’t trust this guy over there.
She giggles a bit at that and we have a small smile before I’m off to the restroom to regroup which is where I usually go. Either to piss or just throw water on my face after doing this opener. Think about my fundamentals and whatnot. Never too long though.
I walk back and we’re in.
My tone and pacing isn’t on point, but my vibe otherwise is a net positive, plus I believe her AI made it acceptable for my initial shortcomings.
Small grin.
Mist: Thank you very much!
HBSoftball: No problem ( Or something. I wasn’t present tbh.)
Mist: *Points at water bottle* he wasn’t causing you any trouble was he.
She gives me her attention off her laptop and a little smile.
HBSoftball: No.
Mist: That’s great as I really tried to raise him well.
For a bit longer I hold this thread and get her giggling acting like my water bottle is my son and just some self amusing dumb shit. Steadily my tonality and pacing is returning to me.
Vibe is good! Shaky but good enough and she keeps going between giving me full attention and looking at her laptop.
I kill the thread at a middle high point. By just saying nah I’m just playing and then
Mist: Can I sit here for like 5 seconds?
HBSoftball: Yes.
Now I’ll try my best to describe the remainder of the interaction.
I sit across from her as this is pretty shaky and I’m nervous. I position my chair away from her rather than square up my seating with her as she’s still on her laptop and it seemed like the most appropriate move as to continue the intrigue.
“Is he here for me? What does he want?”
Mist: So what’s the vibe today…. Out of 5. 1 being “I’m suffering and life is horrible.” 5 being “I’m literally on crack right now.”
She looks at me with the warmest expression and a feminine joy.
HBSoftball: 4.
I had a small pause as I felt this somewhat had something to do with the fact that I approached her. I’m narcissistic somewhat, so even if that wasn’t true it emboldened me and I entered my mode.
I toyed around with the thread a bit. Asking if it was lower 4 or higher 4 and I believe I said that’s a good amount of crack or something which got her smiling. She’s decently quiet and shy so I realize I’ll be carrying this one and she also keeps going from full attention to her laptop intermittently which prevents me from fully giving her my attention.
We begin discussing what she’s working on, her degree (teacher) pre-k, and where she was from.
I’m a bit cloudy, but here’s the keys in the threads
Her degree thread opened up room for me to relate with her and speak on my experience in education as well as boost my own state with a joke I used when I was in state one time and reuse whenever I meet a teacher because it spikes them a bit and it also reminds me I was in state at one point subconsciously. “ We teach the kids. We don’t beat them.” Made some funny threads with it before. But thread cut using intrigue so I can bait her into asking me my degree. Then I tell her I’m a stripper which makes her turn red and I hold the thread for a bit. Then tell her I’m just playing and she releases some of the tension, but holds the electricity haha. Tell her I’m in music. I don’t elaborate too much further. Still haven’t found a reliable way to use this information. She’s opening up talking about her mom and stuff.
Got her name finally. And held a retardedly long lingering handshake with massive eye contact. Neither of us letting go. I thought it was much since I reached across the table to get it but the fact that we were holding it for so long made up for it big time.
She’s working on a historical discussion about the Salem witch trials which I’m intimately aware of and is a great Segway into some secret society topics, but I don’t fully capitalize due to that hint of fear expressing my sexuality. I thought of a thread telling her why witches became synonymous with brooms, but settled with throwing those men under the bus and telling her I was slightly better after showing I knew a smidge on the subject. Should’ve stroked when the iron was hot on that one. So many juicy frames and gambits can be built off that. I only showed the very surface of my secret society. Am I even secret society. Tbh it still feels like I’m a scared little virgin a lot of the time.
Somehow I pivot to the fact that she doesn’t even know my name which makes her smile for whatever reason and she cuts through the silence to ask me my name. I put my hand out another time and we hold another prolonged ass lingering handshake. Eye contact, tone, and pacing on point I say
Mist: I’m Mist.
HBSoftball: Nice to meet you Mist.
Mist: Nice to meet you as well.
Then there is a short little tension filled whatever annnnd release onto the next thread
Where she was from turned to a relatively funny thread. The answer was boring and predictable, but I created a joke out of it and cold read her as European which she ate up, and was just like “WHY.” Just giggling. She’s still on her laptop but it noticeably isn’t getting as much attention as me.
Mist: Idk. You’re definitely French though.
HBSoftball: haha no way.
Blah blah I teasing
And then the highlight moment in this approach. I have her full attention.
Mist: Here. Say Viva La Revolution.
She has an incredulous expression but it is still pleasant.
HBSoftball: No I’m not doing that.
I thread cut to something briefly
Then call her French again
Which gets her giggling
I stop.
Full attention on her. Dead eye contact. Tonality from deep within and pacing sent from the heavens.
Mist: Say Viva….
I look at her with no internal doubt she will say this for whatever reason. I just look at her and wait. She looks back sort of deeply
HBSoftball:….Viva….
I’m not sure whether I had a grin or a blank psychopathic blankness probably a mixture. For whatever reason completely unplanned I go.
Mist: La…
HBSoftball: La…
She’s watching me. My each word. She’s deeply focused. So am I.
Mist: Revolution
HBSoftball: Revolution
That sits there in the silence for a bit. She’s tranced.
I smile. We’re squared up. I think she forgot about her laptop and whatever game she was playing haha.
Mist: Told you you were French
She releases and just has this pleasant demeanor and to her that is magnificent.
We don’t talk about much else of import. I do light us vs them framing by telling her people are crazy around us and to not believe anyone who says anything about me as little light things, but a big thing to note is after that little accidental very deep trance she was very reactive and compliant to even the smallest whim.
I point in a direction she’s there in an instant. I look at her she looks at me. I look somewhere she looks. She was in sync with my every move. It was weird af to me. I was confused sometimes. Like what the fuck girl I’m not even telling you to look that way or do that. Why are you so reactive? Compliance was at retarded levels.
I’m preparing to make my exit as I actually have a class.
I make some jokes about me being there longer than 5 seconds so she must be a kinda cool person or whatever. Which she was aight.
I tease her for not telling me I was there for longer than 5 seconds and then play with time. Basically stuff like “ I’m only allowed to stay for 7 seconds”
Then I slowly climbed up to 7.
I get up and cut space finally. Ask her about what her day will look like.
Say it was cool meeting her and go in for a farewell lingering handshake. Which we once again hold for a very long time for the 3rd and final time.
Buying temp is up and I decide to soft close into a number.
Start talking about coffee shops and ask her if she’s been to any.
Mist: You been to [Coffee Place]?
HBSoftball: No I haven’t. I don’t really go many places…not many coffee shops. Well a few.
She’s opened up and is qualifying on something pretty minor.
Mist: You should come with me sometime.
She tenses up. Seems to start closing up a bit and have a bit of a surprised expression.
I notice this, but it’s whatever. I’m in set too deep.
HBSoftball: Maybe…
Mist:…hmm
That maybe bothered me. I sort of felt like I should say something, but hey I’ve gotten that before. It’s whatever at this point
Mist: Ok cool. Let me add my number to your phone.
She hesitates, but complies. Which is no surprise, but the vibe is increasingly becoming a bit colder.
I do the skills number close. Some light vibing, but it isn’t getting to her and her eye contact is faltering. The laptop is returning back to her reality.
I’m already leaving though.
I hand her back her phone after sending the message and tell her to send me her name which she gives a non answer to only partially looking at me.
I exit giving her some chase frames which she gives quizzical looks to, but the last one gets a smile.
I exit stage right, tell a joke to the librarian and I’m off.
Number Close Followup
HBSoftball: Hey hottie!
Mist: Oh stop you’ll make me blush *blush emoji*
You know I just realized something
HBSoftball: Hey. I’m sorry but I have a boyfriend
Mist: Relax, I do too. We’re just friends. You europeans sure read into a lot of things smh
No other messages so far…and perhaps ever. I had my shot and I blew it. Easier to meet another girl or cuddle my metaphorical boyfriend.
Mist: Oh stop you’ll make me blush *blush emoji*
You know I just realized something
HBSoftball: Hey. I’m sorry but I have a boyfriend
Mist: Relax, I do too. We’re just friends. You europeans sure read into a lot of things smh
No other messages so far…and perhaps ever. I had my shot and I blew it. Easier to meet another girl or cuddle my metaphorical boyfriend.
Followup Meeting
She was in the library with a circle of women and we both caught each others eye, but I didn’t wave or anything.
I normally don’t engage with my sets past the initial approach. Starting to rethink this, but I have some thoughts behind why I don’t. If you’re curious I’ll elaborate and you can pitch in.
We just went about our lives. Onto the life with her boyfriend and I continued on with my metaphorical boyfriend. All is well.
I normally don’t engage with my sets past the initial approach. Starting to rethink this, but I have some thoughts behind why I don’t. If you’re curious I’ll elaborate and you can pitch in.
We just went about our lives. Onto the life with her boyfriend and I continued on with my metaphorical boyfriend. All is well.
HBHorsehips (Last Friday) 15 minute interaction(?)
Hair was the same.
Rough draft of what I was wearing Red sweater fit 2
I pull up to the school another day in paradise.
TODAY I AM DETERMINED TO APPROACH A MOVING SET.
I wanted to yesterday, but was extremely pussy. Ended up talking to a warm, but taken girl I’m normally awkward with as she’s taken, but has shown some openess. Idek man. Whatever.
Something about horse girls and having dat ass.
Actually for real. As I was saying when I pulled up I saw her exit her car and walk in the school. I was like DAMN. Parked and tried to get inside before her so I could casually *bump* into her.
Anyway I was too late. I searched low and high. Even caught another girl with ass I contemplated about whether or not was her… it wasn’t and I didn’t approach her for reasons I can’t remember.
I forget about her but mentally punch the air scout the place out to see what the volume of girls exiting their classes would look like and settle on a hallway stretch that’ll have many moving sets.
I’m amping myself up trying to get myself in the zone with a little rushed meditation and positive future projection.
I really want to get rid of my block with moving sets and develop some extended social freedom with the additional benefit of upping the odds I’m laid like a motherfucker.
I approach the hallway early and no one has left yet. They normally leave a bit early, but I’m confident I’ll catch them. I go to the restroom and give it a minute. The aim is to catch moving sets outside the door where I fear them most..
I guess that minute was too long as when I came back everyone was gone. Very confusing haha. They must’ve been out as soon as I went to the restroom. I go down the hall look at the time and see I literally wasn’t even gone that long…I mean it is Friday though lmao.
I turn around for no reason and there she is out of a classroom last. HBHorseHips. she’s MOVING. Here’s my moment…
I go towards her and she abruptly takes a seat a couple steps away from the classroom on a little table.
What the fuck? I’m both lucky and unlucky.
Any nervousness I felt is completely gone at this point. My bread and butter is stationary sets and I have a little momentum behind me. I have an internal chuckle then enter improv mode. I was aiming for a moving set though.
I go pass her and take a seat on a couch adjacent to her. Take a lot of space give a loud sigh and just chill.
Interaction
Mist: Wake me up when it’s summer break.
I look at her directly.
Casual vibe we’re chilling she has an inquisitive, but warmish vibe.
Mist: So much work and classwork haha.
She agrees.
Mist: Plus it’s cold. Like are you used to this cold?
HBHorseHips: Oh yeah.
Mist: Oh you’re from here? A country girl with the corn, horses, and cows haha (I do the last part in a country accent.)
HBHorseHips: …. I actually have all of those haha.
Mist: Oh damn you actually have horses… You’re crazy.
Threadcut
Mist: - Say, What class are you coming from?
Boom I’m in.
Threads discussed were teaching, special education, dreams, teasing, where she’s from, who she reminded me of, what I do, role play, chase framing.
Somewhat in order let’s dig into my mental recreation of the threads
HBHorsehips has a cool vibe to her and I’m liking the energy just off the jump
HBHorsehips: Oh…that class is elementary reading.
Mist: Ahhh you’ll be in pre-k teaching?
HBHorsehips: Yeah.
Attention not fully on her work but not fully on me.
Mist: Kids man! They can be lovely little things.
HBHorsehips: Yes for sure!
Mist: Except…when they’re not. Then they are little evil things haha
She looks at me and gives some sort of approval
Mist: Like they are brutally honest so sometimes you’ll walk away wondering “Is my nose really that big?”
She gets really into this thread. We banter a bit about it and relate on the little shit heads they can be and I pivot the thread
Mist: haha yeah…what exactly lead you to teaching though?
HBHorsehips: I was doing it for the money originally, and in high school I just decided to sign up and then I was just like-
Mist: Funny how that happens huh…you’re doing something you’re not thinking much of and then it changes the game… in it for the BREAD-THE MULAH and now it’s your whole path. It’s awesome.
She is super agreeing left and right and fully attentive to me.
Mist: I bet you miss it.
(I’m still a bit across the room from her btw I have to project. Just chilling.)
HBHorseHips: Yeah I do. I wanted to do it again and do it more.
Mist: That’s the other side of things. If those kids love you they love you hard. Get you feeling like you’re ontop of the world. No one else looks at you, cheers for you, has such outlandish reactions to seeing you. I bet they loved you.
There’s approval and we’re chilling. Temp is high it’s time to cut the space.
Mist: Holdup! I put one of my hands up like a monocle.
I get off the couch and start cutting space till we’re face to face. She just has this wide eyed cute little derpy intrigued look.
Mist: Do you know who you look like?
She’s waiting and murmers something. I hold the silence but drop my fake monocle. I sort of want her to get used to me being over there I get a thinking man’s pose going (Imagine one haha)
Mist: hmmmm. It’s from a show…. (I’m bullshitting. Idek think she looks like anyone yet haha. )
We have this tension filled dumb thread
Mist: She’s on Disney….Hannah Montana.
Taking time to look at eachother
Mist: You had a TV right?
HBHorseHips: Yes! One with an antenna!
Mist: Oh y’all country people have TV’s haha
HBHorseHips: Yes it was really big and it had an antenna haha.
Mist: Nice…when I was younger I had a TV pretty big as well…I was little as hell. It rocked when we moved. You know in hindsight…
I look at her and just hold for a second
Mist: It could’ve fell on me and I would’ve died.
She laughs at this absurd comment. She’s chilled with me being here now.
Mist: You know you’re a good student coming just out of class and doing your work.
HBHorseHips: Oh no!
Mist: Noooo?
HBHorseHips: I probably would’ve went home and gotten nothing done otherwise.
This shit is so boring written out but I promise it wasn’t haha. Low-key cold approach. Almost like we already know eachother. I aim for that. I’m in an environment where flashy shit is just a bad move.
Mist: Thank you wouldn’t have wanted to misinterpret you as a good student haha.
HBHorseHips: haha
Mist: So life’s basically YouTube til tok Netflix and shiz
HBHorseHips: That IS basically life.
I banter briefly about the bed calling to us more than school work. She is sucked in.
Mist: What is this anyway? (Touch the textbook so I can get a look and scoot in towards her a bit so we’re side by side. Makes the vibe way more cozy)
I just point at stuff on the page mindlessly
HBHorseHips: This is blah blah blah
She tells me about some discussion in her class and I’m just looking at her.
Blah blah blah
Mist: Doesn’t look too bad. You can always bullshit discussions
Banter back and forth on bullshitting discussions. She shows me her laptop allowing me to get closer when I ask and she has a sticker that says Faith Fear.
I point at it.
Mist: Freak fear.
HBHorseHips: Noooooo! ( she covers it haha) Looks at me with sort of motherly eyes playfully-(she moves her hand)
Mist: Faith…Freak
We do this goofy little look at eachother in sync then I thread cut with a grin before she confirms or denies and this thread has tension anyway.
So she’s a faith freak now since she never confirmed or denied haha.
We somehow get back to the work. I doubt it was smooth, but maybe it was. Felt smooth in memory and somehow I arrive at
Mist: Yeah you got this…. *slight pause and look her in the eye* I don’t know your name.
Without a break she goes
HBHorseHips: My name is HorseHips!
I slow it down
Hand up not very far since we’re decently side by side.
She takes it.
Mist: I’m Mist. Your name was…
HBHorseHips: Horsehips…
Mist: ah…HBHorseHips…. With a Y P ( I like this retarded thing I got from Goodlookingloser. You can choose a random letter after they introduce themself and just ask if it has that letter. It buys time. Distracts their mind from the fact you’re holding hands. Or just holds them in set a bit longer. Also funny as shit for me.
HBHorseHips: No! I P.
Mist: I can tell you’re for real squeezed my hand a bit when you said that haha. ( She didn’t. I squeezed her.)
HBHorseHips: Haha *role plays crazy girl squeezes my hand a bit for real*.
We hold hands for a while. Really nice bubble. She’s deeply focused. I’m not definitely aroused af at this point. Something was in the air. I notice people going by including my female work colleagues. I took a mental note of it. Wasn’t bothered more c curious if they were watching me and their thoughts. I mean I’m holding this girls hand with a lot of tension.
I have no clue what we were talking about she was deeply focused. Never seemed to pay them mind.
I moved her hand a bit and it was like she was mine. Like she didn’t care where I took her hand. Soon after we separated. I will note I’m not sure if it was a reaction of me seeing her pulling away or me just releasing and going full conscious and her pulling away, but it was natural and perfectly timed.
I did quite miss her hand though.
Threadcut to a picture of her dog on her phone misinterpreted as a horse. To which she tells me about her pets. I can’t remember that shit nor do I care too at the moment haha.
Then she says something to the tune of “ I’m not that crazy” in response to some tease I threw her way with very attentive eyes, but also sexual
There was probably 3 minutes in the interaction left… I’m fuzzy but we’ll skip ahead.
Mist: Imagine having to go to class soon.
HBHorseHips: Right now?
Mist: Yeah. I don’t want to sing high notes right now.
HBHorseHips: Oooo what do you do? (She was trying to hold me in set in hindsight. Fuck me… I actually had to go.) Is it music appreciation next to my class?
Teased her a bit with bait told her what I did then thread cut to a silly role-play about singing in random classes. A silly little thread.
Mist: They’re going to beat me for being one minute late.
She didn’t seem to care. She was saying something earlier about not even doing her work. She was like “Yeah I sat here, but I might just not do it.” I told her to do it. Dumbass that was an invitation to change up her logistics. Well I’d have to skip class. I might just do that next time honestly. She had nothing happening and wasn’t even doing her work the whole set.
I soft close a coffee date and add another and say “I don’t even like coffee.” Which she somehow says at the same time.
Mist: They have everything. It’s a coffee shop.
I’m holding my phone out. It’s charged as fuck…. I look at her.
Mist: My phones about to die. I’ll give you my number. (I put it away)
She hands it over.
Some banter while I type slow as hell doing skills text with an overexggerrated amount of emojis.
She calls me out on the absurdity of the emoji’s and says she’ll never send me that many I just smile at her and say huh. You sent that then chuckle.
I began heading away and I make a callback to her name ending with a haha and she gives me a very entertaining NO back as I walk away laughing.
There is something I’m missing. Something I felt like she was looking for similarity and or comfort and I teased. I believe it was in the “What do you do thread” I did answer though eventually. But it seemed low attainability like I didn’t take her seriously at all. Or maybe I’m reading into it…
I look at her directly.
Casual vibe we’re chilling she has an inquisitive, but warmish vibe.
Mist: So much work and classwork haha.
She agrees.
Mist: Plus it’s cold. Like are you used to this cold?
HBHorseHips: Oh yeah.
Mist: Oh you’re from here? A country girl with the corn, horses, and cows haha (I do the last part in a country accent.)
HBHorseHips: …. I actually have all of those haha.
Mist: Oh damn you actually have horses… You’re crazy.
Threadcut
Mist: - Say, What class are you coming from?
Boom I’m in.
Threads discussed were teaching, special education, dreams, teasing, where she’s from, who she reminded me of, what I do, role play, chase framing.
Somewhat in order let’s dig into my mental recreation of the threads
HBHorsehips has a cool vibe to her and I’m liking the energy just off the jump
HBHorsehips: Oh…that class is elementary reading.
Mist: Ahhh you’ll be in pre-k teaching?
HBHorsehips: Yeah.
Attention not fully on her work but not fully on me.
Mist: Kids man! They can be lovely little things.
HBHorsehips: Yes for sure!
Mist: Except…when they’re not. Then they are little evil things haha
She looks at me and gives some sort of approval
Mist: Like they are brutally honest so sometimes you’ll walk away wondering “Is my nose really that big?”
She gets really into this thread. We banter a bit about it and relate on the little shit heads they can be and I pivot the thread
Mist: haha yeah…what exactly lead you to teaching though?
HBHorsehips: I was doing it for the money originally, and in high school I just decided to sign up and then I was just like-
Mist: Funny how that happens huh…you’re doing something you’re not thinking much of and then it changes the game… in it for the BREAD-THE MULAH and now it’s your whole path. It’s awesome.
She is super agreeing left and right and fully attentive to me.
Mist: I bet you miss it.
(I’m still a bit across the room from her btw I have to project. Just chilling.)
HBHorseHips: Yeah I do. I wanted to do it again and do it more.
Mist: That’s the other side of things. If those kids love you they love you hard. Get you feeling like you’re ontop of the world. No one else looks at you, cheers for you, has such outlandish reactions to seeing you. I bet they loved you.
There’s approval and we’re chilling. Temp is high it’s time to cut the space.
Mist: Holdup! I put one of my hands up like a monocle.
I get off the couch and start cutting space till we’re face to face. She just has this wide eyed cute little derpy intrigued look.
Mist: Do you know who you look like?
She’s waiting and murmers something. I hold the silence but drop my fake monocle. I sort of want her to get used to me being over there I get a thinking man’s pose going (Imagine one haha)
Mist: hmmmm. It’s from a show…. (I’m bullshitting. Idek think she looks like anyone yet haha. )
We have this tension filled dumb thread
Mist: She’s on Disney….Hannah Montana.
Taking time to look at eachother
Mist: You had a TV right?
HBHorseHips: Yes! One with an antenna!
Mist: Oh y’all country people have TV’s haha
HBHorseHips: Yes it was really big and it had an antenna haha.
Mist: Nice…when I was younger I had a TV pretty big as well…I was little as hell. It rocked when we moved. You know in hindsight…
I look at her and just hold for a second
Mist: It could’ve fell on me and I would’ve died.
She laughs at this absurd comment. She’s chilled with me being here now.
Mist: You know you’re a good student coming just out of class and doing your work.
HBHorseHips: Oh no!
Mist: Noooo?
HBHorseHips: I probably would’ve went home and gotten nothing done otherwise.
This shit is so boring written out but I promise it wasn’t haha. Low-key cold approach. Almost like we already know eachother. I aim for that. I’m in an environment where flashy shit is just a bad move.
Mist: Thank you wouldn’t have wanted to misinterpret you as a good student haha.
HBHorseHips: haha
Mist: So life’s basically YouTube til tok Netflix and shiz
HBHorseHips: That IS basically life.
I banter briefly about the bed calling to us more than school work. She is sucked in.
Mist: What is this anyway? (Touch the textbook so I can get a look and scoot in towards her a bit so we’re side by side. Makes the vibe way more cozy)
I just point at stuff on the page mindlessly
HBHorseHips: This is blah blah blah
She tells me about some discussion in her class and I’m just looking at her.
Blah blah blah
Mist: Doesn’t look too bad. You can always bullshit discussions
Banter back and forth on bullshitting discussions. She shows me her laptop allowing me to get closer when I ask and she has a sticker that says Faith Fear.
I point at it.
Mist: Freak fear.
HBHorseHips: Noooooo! ( she covers it haha) Looks at me with sort of motherly eyes playfully-(she moves her hand)
Mist: Faith…Freak
We do this goofy little look at eachother in sync then I thread cut with a grin before she confirms or denies and this thread has tension anyway.
So she’s a faith freak now since she never confirmed or denied haha.
We somehow get back to the work. I doubt it was smooth, but maybe it was. Felt smooth in memory and somehow I arrive at
Mist: Yeah you got this…. *slight pause and look her in the eye* I don’t know your name.
Without a break she goes
HBHorseHips: My name is HorseHips!
I slow it down
Hand up not very far since we’re decently side by side.
She takes it.
Mist: I’m Mist. Your name was…
HBHorseHips: Horsehips…
Mist: ah…HBHorseHips…. With a Y P ( I like this retarded thing I got from Goodlookingloser. You can choose a random letter after they introduce themself and just ask if it has that letter. It buys time. Distracts their mind from the fact you’re holding hands. Or just holds them in set a bit longer. Also funny as shit for me.
HBHorseHips: No! I P.
Mist: I can tell you’re for real squeezed my hand a bit when you said that haha. ( She didn’t. I squeezed her.)
HBHorseHips: Haha *role plays crazy girl squeezes my hand a bit for real*.
We hold hands for a while. Really nice bubble. She’s deeply focused. I’m not definitely aroused af at this point. Something was in the air. I notice people going by including my female work colleagues. I took a mental note of it. Wasn’t bothered more c curious if they were watching me and their thoughts. I mean I’m holding this girls hand with a lot of tension.
I have no clue what we were talking about she was deeply focused. Never seemed to pay them mind.
I moved her hand a bit and it was like she was mine. Like she didn’t care where I took her hand. Soon after we separated. I will note I’m not sure if it was a reaction of me seeing her pulling away or me just releasing and going full conscious and her pulling away, but it was natural and perfectly timed.
I did quite miss her hand though.
Threadcut to a picture of her dog on her phone misinterpreted as a horse. To which she tells me about her pets. I can’t remember that shit nor do I care too at the moment haha.
Then she says something to the tune of “ I’m not that crazy” in response to some tease I threw her way with very attentive eyes, but also sexual
There was probably 3 minutes in the interaction left… I’m fuzzy but we’ll skip ahead.
Mist: Imagine having to go to class soon.
HBHorseHips: Right now?
Mist: Yeah. I don’t want to sing high notes right now.
HBHorseHips: Oooo what do you do? (She was trying to hold me in set in hindsight. Fuck me… I actually had to go.) Is it music appreciation next to my class?
Teased her a bit with bait told her what I did then thread cut to a silly role-play about singing in random classes. A silly little thread.
Mist: They’re going to beat me for being one minute late.
She didn’t seem to care. She was saying something earlier about not even doing her work. She was like “Yeah I sat here, but I might just not do it.” I told her to do it. Dumbass that was an invitation to change up her logistics. Well I’d have to skip class. I might just do that next time honestly. She had nothing happening and wasn’t even doing her work the whole set.
I soft close a coffee date and add another and say “I don’t even like coffee.” Which she somehow says at the same time.
Mist: They have everything. It’s a coffee shop.
I’m holding my phone out. It’s charged as fuck…. I look at her.
Mist: My phones about to die. I’ll give you my number. (I put it away)
She hands it over.
Some banter while I type slow as hell doing skills text with an overexggerrated amount of emojis.
She calls me out on the absurdity of the emoji’s and says she’ll never send me that many I just smile at her and say huh. You sent that then chuckle.
I began heading away and I make a callback to her name ending with a haha and she gives me a very entertaining NO back as I walk away laughing.
There is something I’m missing. Something I felt like she was looking for similarity and or comfort and I teased. I believe it was in the “What do you do thread” I did answer though eventually. But it seemed low attainability like I didn’t take her seriously at all. Or maybe I’m reading into it…
Number Close Followup
Last Friday
HBHorsehips: Hello hottie
Mist: Oh stop it HBHorsehips you’re making me blush
Did your vibe ever raise to atleast a 4 after I left?
Today
Mist: Mornin’
No other messages so far…not sure what my next move is. Thinking call back is a waste of time. Perhaps intrigue, curiosity baits. I’ve had success with that. Didn’t lead me to a date, but she was responsive at least. Damn that girl had a nice ass… Back to this girl though haha… not sure. Probably a dead set as far as phone goes. I have no clue.
Meet more women feel her out if we meet again. We most likely will. Maybe even tomorrow who knows. Wish her well.
HBHorsehips: Hello hottie
Mist: Oh stop it HBHorsehips you’re making me blush
Did your vibe ever raise to atleast a 4 after I left?
Today
Mist: Mornin’
No other messages so far…not sure what my next move is. Thinking call back is a waste of time. Perhaps intrigue, curiosity baits. I’ve had success with that. Didn’t lead me to a date, but she was responsive at least. Damn that girl had a nice ass… Back to this girl though haha… not sure. Probably a dead set as far as phone goes. I have no clue.
Meet more women feel her out if we meet again. We most likely will. Maybe even tomorrow who knows. Wish her well.
Inspirations
1. Sex in the City
Lobo did the skills number close and I’m in love with the little additions he added. Will swiftly be adding that.
Write the message then have her sign her name on the message and tell her to send it.
I normally just ask them to send their name, but this addition is nice compliance and then on another level it essentially comes off like she wrote it since she complies and accepts the frame.
2. Series of articles By Ricardus on movie seductions
“And if not. That’s cool too.
Repeat after me: “And if not. That’s cool too.
Your outcome is to have a fulfilled love- and sex-life.
And when it comes to that, you’re not outcome independent… you have your eye on the prize, and if you do everything you’re learning here, you can be SURE that you will achieve this goal."
But when it comes to the next specific girl you’re talking to… you’re completely outcome independent… because you know the magic number”
Yessir. I will beat this into my skull. I’m close, but all 3 of these sets depress me at some level as it shows me how far off I am.
I want “And if not. That’s cool too.” Permeated in my closes from now on. I might even just be sure to say it in each set from now on.
Lobo did the skills number close and I’m in love with the little additions he added. Will swiftly be adding that.
Write the message then have her sign her name on the message and tell her to send it.
I normally just ask them to send their name, but this addition is nice compliance and then on another level it essentially comes off like she wrote it since she complies and accepts the frame.
2. Series of articles By Ricardus on movie seductions
“And if not. That’s cool too.
Repeat after me: “And if not. That’s cool too.
Your outcome is to have a fulfilled love- and sex-life.
And when it comes to that, you’re not outcome independent… you have your eye on the prize, and if you do everything you’re learning here, you can be SURE that you will achieve this goal."
But when it comes to the next specific girl you’re talking to… you’re completely outcome independent… because you know the magic number”
Yessir. I will beat this into my skull. I’m close, but all 3 of these sets depress me at some level as it shows me how far off I am.
I want “And if not. That’s cool too.” Permeated in my closes from now on. I might even just be sure to say it in each set from now on.
Sticking Points
I’m not sure yet.
Retardation maybe.
All jokes aside
Retardation maybe.
All jokes aside
- Half hearted application
- Mismanagement of tension
- Moving too slow
- Lack of persistence and understanding of when it’s worthwhile
- Pacing
- AA
- Sexualization
- Time Management For Sarges
- Not enough moving
- Stiff execution of gambits, calibrating to her interest, and striking while the irons hot.
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