Advice for getting into sexual state / building sexual vibe?

[Bloom]

Curious if anyone has advice on getting into "sexual state" or creating a sexual vibe when talking with women.

I've been following @Gunwitch 's SMMA, and one of his big keys is getting into a strong sexual state that you then subcommunicate to the chick you're talking to. When I'm able to tap into a strong sexual state, my hook rate is way better and my dates go a lot better as well. The issue is that I find it tough to consistently get into a sexual state / create a sexual vibe on first walking up to a girl and chatting her up, especially if she doesn't give me any sexual vibe back. If a girl reciprocates some sexual state back to me, then it's easy for me to get into it and maintain it... but otherwise I'm having trouble actively "creating" a sexual vibe from nothing.

So far, I've found a few things that have helped, but each thing only does so much. One is inserting long pauses.......... to create sexual tension. Also, I've been doing vocal exercises to increase the resonance in my voice... and sometimes that tonality helps sexualize the interaction (and also sometimes put me into a sexual state when I hear my own "bedroom" voice lol). Also, of course, keeping deep eye contact when possible, and sprinkling in some triangular gazing. Lastly... I've noticed that when I can visualize fucking a girl before I approach her... that that can help me open with a more sexual vibe. And as far as a baseline lifestyle, I lift weights regularly and don't fap... so those basics are already in check.

Anyways, wondering if anyone else has specific "techniques" or actions or meditations that they do that help them cultivate and/or tap into a sexual state? Especially anyone who's familiar with SMMA (@Bacchus ?) and has figured out the sexual subcommunication?

 

[Toby2030]

IMO how you convey yourself is very important. Just a quick brainstorm:
Can you hold a relaxed and confident eye contact with her when you open or do you feel any kind of nervousness?
Are you calm and speaking in a relaxed fashion?
Are you speaking from your chest and are your voice conveying comfort and a sense of being relaxed and calm?
Are you using pacing and pausing to convey a sense of drama and intrigue in what you are saying?
Are you speaking too fast, too slow, hurried-nervous, slow-confused, slow-relaxed?
Are you using energy and enthusiasm when you speak?
Are you talking to her emotional side instead or her logical side eg. using very descriptive language with a lot of adverbs and adjectives?
Are you giving too much information about yourself away at first, and do you use open loops?
Do you masturbate often? - if yes then stop
Do you have your style in place and do you workout?
Do you get enough sleep and eat healthy?
Do you escalate the vibe and keep her in a limbo?
Do you break the tension when it's created or are you able to hold the tension?
Are you slowing the pace down?

 

[Regal Tiger]

What works for me is something called "state control". It takes a little bit of getting used to, but once you get to a point where you can visualize and truly, easily and naturally feel the type of energy you want to project it becomes like a 'switch' to turn on and off.

So for example, think about the last girl that really turned you on. Picture that moment. Allow your mind to transport you back to that moment and remembering what she looked like. What she felt like.

Once you have it, notice all of the little feelings running throughout your body. Once you've become aware of what those feelings and sensations feel like you'll start to notice more about those feelings.

For example, sometimes they have a color associated to them. Other times they have a weight, or even temperature.

These things will be different for different people but once you have them then they're yours.

That's the short version, anyways.


I'll use myself as an example:

1) My natural go to energy is an easy-going blue. For me, the person that represents what this energy truly is, is the character Patrick Jane from the Mentalist. It's like my natural state because of how calming it is (and people tell me all the time how calm they feel around me).
--> felt mostly from the upper chest and back
--> feels a lot like a calm pool of water, my personal oasis of serenity

2) Then once a girl is involved I can switch into my "Russel Brand" energy which is a pink-ish color for me. It's still fun-loving and easy-going but this one has more sexual undertones and a sexy flair. Plus, it's more likely to hook a girl.
--> felt mostly in the lower chest/stomach area
--> feels a bit hyperactive and more energetic, but focused

3) Lastly there's the George Clooney, which is more sensual in nature and is after a woman starts to trust me more (there's an article where Chase outlines how in the beginning women have a rising energy and then once they hook they start to lower their energy levels as they move through the seduction, once I notice that lowering of energy then that's where I also switch). This allows me to bring back in the calming effect while still keeping that underlying sensual/sexual tone. This one is a dark red for me.
--> felt in the stomach and even pelvis area
--> kind of a mixture of the above


More or less, this falls back into hypnosis. Which is just a state of extreme absorption in the moment and a loss of time. The example that everyone can relate to is like watching a really good movie. You're absorbed in the moment and you lose track of time until the movie ends and you 'snap' out of it. That, and the fact that your critical factor is reduced a lot so you can get to the subconscious easier, which is what you do during state control to figure things out.

Then, once you have those states you can bring them out when you want to much easier.

 

[Chase]

@Bloom,

One of my first articles on the site:

Picture the Conquest

I have long believed, based on my own experiences in my most primal state and what I have seen in some truly talented others, that the best and most prolific lovers in the world - the most skilled naturals and the most successful seducers - have a different way of seeing women than most men, and...

www.girlschase.com

Also, another early article:

Women as Sex Objects: Supercharge Your Game

This is for reasonably experienced guys. Newer guys will struggle with making this effective, I believe – it might even backfire. But for guys who are reasonably adept with women – if girls are easily attracted to you, if you’re good at getting them to follow your lead, if you have sex with...

www.girlschase.com

Should be helpful.

Chase