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Would appreciate tips on being in an affair and advice on giving information about myself. This affair moved faster than I expected and did not research about relationship dynamics. I just finished my newbie assignment a month ago!
This week, I entered into an affair with a married girl from Eastern Europe. She is a professional working in an office from 8-5 and lives with her husband in the same city as I.
Background info: On the first date, I stated I did not want to be her husband or seek a serious relationship.
The relationship turned from foreplay on the second date, to sex on the third. Before going back to her car to toss the salad, we had a conversation about what we wanted.
Three questions came to mind on the third date
-Should this be a purely sexual relationship?
-How often should we see each other?
-Do you tell your friends about me?
Her response:
1) She wants to do more things than just have sex, but does not have any ideas.
2) Does not want to plan too far ahead. Only available for lunch breaks, an hour after work, and weekend mornings until 11am. If husband notices unusual behavior, she has to stop seeing me.
3) Does not have any girlfriends in the U.S. Does not have anyone to talk about these things with including guys, fashion, hobbies, ect.
My response:
1) If time permits, we can hike, bike, or get a hotel room. My intention was spicing up the relationship besides having sex in the car.
2) I like to plan things out far ahead and said no more than once per week. Told her school and work were my top priorities.
3) I keep my personal life to myself and would not tell my friends or family.
This week, I entered into an affair with a married girl from Eastern Europe. She is a professional working in an office from 8-5 and lives with her husband in the same city as I.
Background info: On the first date, I stated I did not want to be her husband or seek a serious relationship.
The relationship turned from foreplay on the second date, to sex on the third. Before going back to her car to toss the salad, we had a conversation about what we wanted.
Three questions came to mind on the third date
-Should this be a purely sexual relationship?
-How often should we see each other?
-Do you tell your friends about me?
Her response:
1) She wants to do more things than just have sex, but does not have any ideas.
2) Does not want to plan too far ahead. Only available for lunch breaks, an hour after work, and weekend mornings until 11am. If husband notices unusual behavior, she has to stop seeing me.
3) Does not have any girlfriends in the U.S. Does not have anyone to talk about these things with including guys, fashion, hobbies, ect.
My response:
1) If time permits, we can hike, bike, or get a hotel room. My intention was spicing up the relationship besides having sex in the car.
2) I like to plan things out far ahead and said no more than once per week. Told her school and work were my top priorities.
3) I keep my personal life to myself and would not tell my friends or family.
