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Hi guys, this has happened a lot and I can't pinpoint what I'm doing wrong. I go to clubs for Night Game, chicks have occasionally given me really big AI's and IOI's, but as soon as I approach them they treat me like I'm a homeless beggar and couldn't be more disinterested if they wanted to be. I've put a few examples below:
Scenario 1
I kept making strong eye contact with this chick that kept looking at me a few feet away on the dancefloor, she'd look to the floor submissively, glance back up and smile at me. Her friends were going to the bar, she let all her friends go in front of her, so she was the last one in the line they made walking by and again made strong eye contact looking at each other as she walked by. I took her arm and she complied with a huge smile and asked her how her night was going, she smiled and walked away, looking back over her shoulder, and smiled again.
Her group came back next to us on the dancefloor, she started looking at me again before moving closer and we made incidental touches while dancing next to each other. Her friend was pushing everyone who came near them away, quite aggressively which put me off trying to dance with her. I tried to talk to her again and she looked at me like I was a beggar and ignored me. She kept looking at me later in the night and smiling but wasn't approachable.
Scenario 2
A chick walked by me a few times, every time we made strong lingering eye contact. There were always a lot of people in the way which stopped me from approaching sooner. Later, her group was next to the group I'm with and we make lingering eye contact again, it was strong "fuck me" eyes so I approached. She seemed very nervous but was talking to me. I tried to hang in set, but she seemed very dismissive to talking to me, she didn't engage much and kept looking away towards her friends, I exited telling her I was going to go back to my friends. Towards the end of the night, she's looking over again, I approach and again she seemed extremely disinterested in talking to me, it looked like she was looking to her friends for assistance to give her an excuse to escape.
Scenario 3
I was queueing at the bar with my wing and a chick turned around and said, "OMG you look just like (Famous person considered attractive)". I said thanks and moved in to start talking and instantly broke the touch barrier with a hug. She then complimented me on how nice I smelt which I thanked her for and complimented her on her outfit. She said thanks, we talked a little, but she seemed very reserved and trying to exit the conversation. There was some 7ft guy behind her that I thought could have been her boyfriend, I asked who she was out with to check and found out he was her friend.
I kept talking but it felt like she had one foot out the door of the conversation, she kept looking away and didn't seem invested, I thought maybe she's keen to get a drink and the queue is going down. I excused myself to go to the bar thinking I'll bump into her later. I bumped into her later, she smiled and waved and then hugged/talked to a fat guy standing near her (I think he was a friend in her group) but she blanked me from this point.
Any ideas what I'm doing wrong? Thanks guys!
Warrior
Scenario 1
I kept making strong eye contact with this chick that kept looking at me a few feet away on the dancefloor, she'd look to the floor submissively, glance back up and smile at me. Her friends were going to the bar, she let all her friends go in front of her, so she was the last one in the line they made walking by and again made strong eye contact looking at each other as she walked by. I took her arm and she complied with a huge smile and asked her how her night was going, she smiled and walked away, looking back over her shoulder, and smiled again.
Her group came back next to us on the dancefloor, she started looking at me again before moving closer and we made incidental touches while dancing next to each other. Her friend was pushing everyone who came near them away, quite aggressively which put me off trying to dance with her. I tried to talk to her again and she looked at me like I was a beggar and ignored me. She kept looking at me later in the night and smiling but wasn't approachable.
Scenario 2
A chick walked by me a few times, every time we made strong lingering eye contact. There were always a lot of people in the way which stopped me from approaching sooner. Later, her group was next to the group I'm with and we make lingering eye contact again, it was strong "fuck me" eyes so I approached. She seemed very nervous but was talking to me. I tried to hang in set, but she seemed very dismissive to talking to me, she didn't engage much and kept looking away towards her friends, I exited telling her I was going to go back to my friends. Towards the end of the night, she's looking over again, I approach and again she seemed extremely disinterested in talking to me, it looked like she was looking to her friends for assistance to give her an excuse to escape.
Scenario 3
I was queueing at the bar with my wing and a chick turned around and said, "OMG you look just like (Famous person considered attractive)". I said thanks and moved in to start talking and instantly broke the touch barrier with a hug. She then complimented me on how nice I smelt which I thanked her for and complimented her on her outfit. She said thanks, we talked a little, but she seemed very reserved and trying to exit the conversation. There was some 7ft guy behind her that I thought could have been her boyfriend, I asked who she was out with to check and found out he was her friend.
I kept talking but it felt like she had one foot out the door of the conversation, she kept looking away and didn't seem invested, I thought maybe she's keen to get a drink and the queue is going down. I excused myself to go to the bar thinking I'll bump into her later. I bumped into her later, she smiled and waved and then hugged/talked to a fat guy standing near her (I think he was a friend in her group) but she blanked me from this point.
Any ideas what I'm doing wrong? Thanks guys!
Warrior
