Any Good Sex Technique Resources?
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There was this one article. I could not remember. A GC article. Adapted Missionary. Not sure if it is the right article.
I'm not sure it is Chase or Ricardus, or there's 2 articles from both.
A lot of good stuff in there.
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It was of chase.. we even had a discussion on the chat the other day.. apparently we are ALL using adapted missionary.
Make Her Orgasm Hard from Sex in 8 Minutes or Less
I've had men ask me to write about my methods on how to make a girl orgasm since 2007, when I first mentioned the results I get with sex online... and I've always declined to write them. I didn't mind sharing what I did to pick up a girl. That's just a process. But sex... that's an experience...
www.girlschase.com
I would recommend Hector's videos as well. So you can become a true pornstar.
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Sex God by rose
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I believe the complete title is...
The Sex God Method by Daniel Rose.
The best manual on sex ever written. (I have read most of them.) Get it, read it twice.
The Sex God Method by Daniel Rose.
The best manual on sex ever written. (I have read most of them.) Get it, read it twice.
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Hey @Mike Silvertree can you recommend a sex book which has a big troubleshooting area? Lately I have a hard time staying hard..
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@https://www.skilledseducer.com/members/swagstar101.7144/ wrote...
Hey @Mike Silvertree can you recommend a sex book which has a big troubleshooting area? Lately I have a hard time staying hard.
Start by reading this post, which is pinned at the top of this forum.
www.skilledseducer.com
Let me ask a few questions.
When does this happen?
When this problem occurs, what was the behavior, attitude, state of the chick right before it happened?
What was your mental state as it was happening? What was your internal dialog? What was your reaction? The chick's reaction?
What is you age and general level of health?
Hey @Mike Silvertree can you recommend a sex book which has a big troubleshooting area? Lately I have a hard time staying hard.
Start by reading this post, which is pinned at the top of this forum.
Erectile Dysfunction - Fixing "Too Soft Erections": Full Set of PROVEN Tips
Nitric Oxide & Erections One of the essentials to having a solid erection is Nitric Oxide (NO). NO is used by many processes in your body, and making enough is essential to health. The primary source of NO is the lining of your blood vessels. The total surface area of this part of your body...
www.skilledseducer.com
Let me ask a few questions.
When does this happen?
When this problem occurs, what was the behavior, attitude, state of the chick right before it happened?
What was your mental state as it was happening? What was your internal dialog? What was your reaction? The chick's reaction?
What is you age and general level of health?
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Meanwhile almost every time I want to sleep with my wife... I can say in my youth it didnt happened but as I got older It got harder for me to get chicks and so I lowered my standard lookwise. In this time I always got hard and had only problems getting an orgamsn.
Now years later with my wife we tried a lot. And also I had orgasmns with her but only sometimes. most times I didnt get one.
I think because of the many fail attempts I'm just got demotivated and expect a negative outcome. that sets me under pressure and very self concious.
What do I think? thoughts like "oh no its getting small again", "it wont work out", "it must work" "Why the fuck isnt it working"....
Most of the time I'm getting pissed, angry or I try to ignore the problem and go back to watch tv or instantly go to sleep..
My wife is very understanding and tries to comfort me.
Im 33 at the moment. I'm feeling good and healthy but the truth is that I'm a bit overweight and I take fluoxetin and reagil. Also i think im porn addicted. My doctor found out that i have a Lack of Testosteron but the gel he gave me made me very angry so I stopped taking it. And sports is a hate job for me. I know I need to Do more sports... Nevertheless with porn I can come 3 Times a Day in 5 Minute...
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Go to a specialist on hormone replacement therapy, the gel is the worst possible treatment ever and very expensive...
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Donofdesire.com - he has some good stuff.
Plus 1 for Sex God method as well
Plus 1 for Sex God method as well
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My best guess is, the drugs you are taking are a problem. Fluoxetin, known as Prozac in the US, is a SSRI, and they are notorious for causing various sexual dysfunctions and libido loss in men and women. I assume by Reagil, you mean Reagila, which is an anti psychotic. I didn't find anything on it being linked to sexual problems, but weight gain is a common side effect.
Beyond that, it sounds like you have a lot of anxiety about sex, and that is an erection killer in itself. We have several nervous systems that regulate our bodies. The autonomic nervous system regulates most of the machinery of life, like digestion, heartbeat, all the various glands that secrete regulatory hormones and neurotransmitters. There are two halves to this system and one or the other is in charge at all times. The Sympathetic Nervous System is the Fight or Flight system that regulates your body during stressful moments, anything scary or stressful. The Parasympathetic system is the Rest and Digest or Feed and Breed system that takes over when you are relaxed. If you are stressed out over sex, your body will shift to the Sympathetic system and one of the things it does is ready you for battle, which among other things includes cutting blood flow to parts not needed for fighting, like digesting food or sex. That means no boner for men and a dry tight pussy for women. It is very hard to get an erection if you are stressed out. This is a feedback loop that almost always plays a part in erection problems with men.
You need to talk with your doctor about getting off those drugs. Unless you have serious problems, taking anti-depressants and anti-psychotics is likely to cause more harm that good. Up until a few decades ago, people managed life without drugs like that. You also have to be less stressed out when you have sex. It sounds like you can get an erection with porn, so the equipment works, which means the primary problem is the stress you feel, likely from pressure to perform, that is the problem. Perhaps address this with your wife and work together on reducing the stress you feel from pressure to perform. Do not quit those drugs without consulting your doctor. That can cause major problems.
Beyond that, it sounds like you have a lot of anxiety about sex, and that is an erection killer in itself. We have several nervous systems that regulate our bodies. The autonomic nervous system regulates most of the machinery of life, like digestion, heartbeat, all the various glands that secrete regulatory hormones and neurotransmitters. There are two halves to this system and one or the other is in charge at all times. The Sympathetic Nervous System is the Fight or Flight system that regulates your body during stressful moments, anything scary or stressful. The Parasympathetic system is the Rest and Digest or Feed and Breed system that takes over when you are relaxed. If you are stressed out over sex, your body will shift to the Sympathetic system and one of the things it does is ready you for battle, which among other things includes cutting blood flow to parts not needed for fighting, like digesting food or sex. That means no boner for men and a dry tight pussy for women. It is very hard to get an erection if you are stressed out. This is a feedback loop that almost always plays a part in erection problems with men.
You need to talk with your doctor about getting off those drugs. Unless you have serious problems, taking anti-depressants and anti-psychotics is likely to cause more harm that good. Up until a few decades ago, people managed life without drugs like that. You also have to be less stressed out when you have sex. It sounds like you can get an erection with porn, so the equipment works, which means the primary problem is the stress you feel, likely from pressure to perform, that is the problem. Perhaps address this with your wife and work together on reducing the stress you feel from pressure to perform. Do not quit those drugs without consulting your doctor. That can cause major problems.
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Lol those videos with the doll are rilarious
Yeah, pretty much the best way to make a girl cum, from penetrative sex anyway.
From my latest experiences I would question though how effective being "great at sex" is and making a girl cum lots of times is, it seems like lots of girls I've been sleeping with get mad that they cum more and more easily with me than they can give me orgasms, like they feel not so attractive or valueable because of that. But maybe it's just my approach to sex and post-sex stuff, deff a sticking point for me right now (other than getting dates at all in this rona shit world).
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I saw those videos. HAHAHA
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Every book and every audio product that David Shade ever produced. I have Daniel Rose's "Sex God Method," and it's nowhere NEAR the brilliance of David Shade's materials.
Ever heard of the "instant-orgasm-on-command ?"
The one-hour orgasm ?
Do you know what kind of orgasm is the most intense orgasm for most women ?
Buy Shade's book "Secrets Of Female Sexuality."
Then buy his audio recordings called "Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms."
Then buy whatever other products of his you like.
When women are beating your door down to get you to give them more orgasms, when they are bringing OTHER WOMEN with them to your place for threesomes, then and only then buy "David Shade's Manual." It is actually the first book he wrote, but it's also the most advanced. It is mostly about sexual hypnotism -- and it is very advanced.
David Shade beats all.
Ever heard of the "instant-orgasm-on-command ?"
The one-hour orgasm ?
Do you know what kind of orgasm is the most intense orgasm for most women ?
Buy Shade's book "Secrets Of Female Sexuality."
Then buy his audio recordings called "Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms."
Then buy whatever other products of his you like.
When women are beating your door down to get you to give them more orgasms, when they are bringing OTHER WOMEN with them to your place for threesomes, then and only then buy "David Shade's Manual." It is actually the first book he wrote, but it's also the most advanced. It is mostly about sexual hypnotism -- and it is very advanced.
David Shade beats all.
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Sex God Method is good, I agree.
I have a buddy I reconnected with who's in David Shade's community. He's apparently taught his girl to orgasm on command (on a verbal command -- he tells her to orgasm, she orgasms; this is a standard David Shade technique). David Shade is advanced sexology, though a lot of it really is for committed LTRs due to the rather lengthy training periods, as I understand it (apparently takes quite a while to train the 'orgasm-at-the-sound-of-my-voice' bit... something like 1+ years).
I was actually surprised David Shade is still around. Haven't heard him mentioned in ages. But apparently he is, it's mostly just all older guys from the earlier generation of pickup in his community, using the advanced sex stuff with their wives and LTRs.
Most of the newer generation seduction guys don't know anything about him and have no idea who he is (because he doesn't market himself in seduction circles anymore).
Chase
I have a buddy I reconnected with who's in David Shade's community. He's apparently taught his girl to orgasm on command (on a verbal command -- he tells her to orgasm, she orgasms; this is a standard David Shade technique). David Shade is advanced sexology, though a lot of it really is for committed LTRs due to the rather lengthy training periods, as I understand it (apparently takes quite a while to train the 'orgasm-at-the-sound-of-my-voice' bit... something like 1+ years).
I was actually surprised David Shade is still around. Haven't heard him mentioned in ages. But apparently he is, it's mostly just all older guys from the earlier generation of pickup in his community, using the advanced sex stuff with their wives and LTRs.
Most of the newer generation seduction guys don't know anything about him and have no idea who he is (because he doesn't market himself in seduction circles anymore).
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The best thing to do is to figure out how to turn a girl on. Get her turned on with your hands and rubbing her tits, and then sex is easy. To know how to touch a girl, the thing that taught me most as a teenager was a video about tantric massage.
something like this https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5f9272bb444cc i didnt watch this video, just skipped to where he was rubbing at about the 3 min mark and his technique looks good.
Aside from knowing how to touch her, the best thing to know is how to take your time with the 'build-up' sensations, and not rush to pussy pounding. If you can make her cum with your fingers in her, then translate that knowledge to your dick. And follow the same mindset of savoring each sensation.
When it comes to sex, she needs to be turned on and horny before it goes in. meaning shes shifting on her back, and aching for it. Like i said, you do it with your hands, or if u want, your mouth, but i hardly go down on girls.
Once you're working with your dick, you gotta take your time. This means use as little of your dick as possible. Girls LOVE the feeling of their being more, but once you bottom out, you've hit your ceiling. What you gotta do is keep climbing the sensations slowly before you give her the whole thing. Once you got a rhythm going using only the first 1/4 of your dick, you slide just a little deeper, and shes going to moaaan, then id pull back out to the first 1/4 and get another rhythm going, before doing the exact same thing of just going a littttle bit deeper, but this time she'll moan harder. This will happen each time you go deeper, so you need to take your time getting to your deepest.
I actually try to wait until shes about ready to cum before i bottom out. i will work her with maybe 3/4 of my dick until shes ready, then ill give it to her.
Aside from that, you just need to get a good relaxed rhythm going, nothing crazy like porn. you want to use a slow grinding motion, then mix in a few fast pumps here and there. You want to be changing up the timing and stuff, but not sporadically. something like "soft soft soft soft soft deeeep deeeeep soft soft soft soft deeeeep deeeeep"
Another thing is that girls like to get pounded and feeling your body pumping against their ass or against their body. This might be hard to picture, but try using your body to stop you from going all the way in with your dick. it depends on the position you guys are in, but if for example she's on top, and you're fucking her, shes riding, i will use my legs to hit her thighs and stop my dick from going all the way in. that way she feels like shes getting pounded, but i have dick left to spare. you dont even have to bottom out to make her cum, i'm telling you guys, girls love the feeling of their being more. thats all you gotta do is leave them wanting.
something like this https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5f9272bb444cc i didnt watch this video, just skipped to where he was rubbing at about the 3 min mark and his technique looks good.
Aside from knowing how to touch her, the best thing to know is how to take your time with the 'build-up' sensations, and not rush to pussy pounding. If you can make her cum with your fingers in her, then translate that knowledge to your dick. And follow the same mindset of savoring each sensation.
When it comes to sex, she needs to be turned on and horny before it goes in. meaning shes shifting on her back, and aching for it. Like i said, you do it with your hands, or if u want, your mouth, but i hardly go down on girls.
Once you're working with your dick, you gotta take your time. This means use as little of your dick as possible. Girls LOVE the feeling of their being more, but once you bottom out, you've hit your ceiling. What you gotta do is keep climbing the sensations slowly before you give her the whole thing. Once you got a rhythm going using only the first 1/4 of your dick, you slide just a little deeper, and shes going to moaaan, then id pull back out to the first 1/4 and get another rhythm going, before doing the exact same thing of just going a littttle bit deeper, but this time she'll moan harder. This will happen each time you go deeper, so you need to take your time getting to your deepest.
I actually try to wait until shes about ready to cum before i bottom out. i will work her with maybe 3/4 of my dick until shes ready, then ill give it to her.
Aside from that, you just need to get a good relaxed rhythm going, nothing crazy like porn. you want to use a slow grinding motion, then mix in a few fast pumps here and there. You want to be changing up the timing and stuff, but not sporadically. something like "soft soft soft soft soft deeeep deeeeep soft soft soft soft deeeeep deeeeep"
Another thing is that girls like to get pounded and feeling your body pumping against their ass or against their body. This might be hard to picture, but try using your body to stop you from going all the way in with your dick. it depends on the position you guys are in, but if for example she's on top, and you're fucking her, shes riding, i will use my legs to hit her thighs and stop my dick from going all the way in. that way she feels like shes getting pounded, but i have dick left to spare. you dont even have to bottom out to make her cum, i'm telling you guys, girls love the feeling of their being more. thats all you gotta do is leave them wanting.
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this is great advice and all ..
hope i get the chance to apply this to girls in real life
i just want to know if this applies to men with 4 inch dicks
asking for a friend, ofcourse ..
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yea actually, i think the same thing applies. would it be better if it was longer or thicker? ya.. but thats the same for every guy under 8".
just gotta do what you can with what you got.
another thing is if it starts to get numb for her, like she doesn't feel anything, you just gotta do something else for a little bit, this happens no matter how big you are. maybe take it out for a little while, suck on her titties and rub the puss and then when you go back in with your dick, take your time again.
If your fingers are bigger than your dick or close to the same size, don't put them in her. just rub her clit and run your fingertips through her slit and rub the bottom of her pussy opening.
then when you go back with your dick tease her with it for as long as you can, (as long as shes enjoying it), and suck on her tits and stuff. grab her ass, u know. make sex a full body activity, not just dick and pussy.
incorporate sexy stuff too, many girls like getting spanked or choked or have their arms pinned above their head. learn how to turn her on, and let her savor each 1" of ur d as much as u can
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Absolutely nothing in David Shade's box of tricks takes 1+ years. Whoever is telling you that is doing you a gross disservice.
His techniques -- which are mainly utilizing a woman's sense of hearing to amplify her sexual pleasure -- are instantly useful, even on a first date. The "instant orgasm on command" may take several sessions, several days, but his verbal techniques will produce incredible results on a first date.
For example, I can go into a bar and drag some hottie out to my truck and then, WITHOUT TOUCHING HER BELOW THE WAIST, I can make her have 5 orgasms within 30 minutes. I can then send her back into the bar to recruit another hottie to come out and go home with us for a threesome. All because I use David Shade's techniques.
Seriously, as I've been telling guys for about a dozen years, if you use Shade's techniques, you almost don't have to DO pickup. You will get so much referral business, pickup almost becomes superfluous. And I "date" 9's and 10's only.
Shade probably stopped promoting his materials to the seduction community because it's sort of a rat race. Two things that I don't care for in the pickup community is posts by guys who seem to 13-years-old and posts by guys who can't write worth a damn. And I'm not picking on the seduction community -- the entire internet is riddled with those two types of posts. It took me too long to get smart and stop reading those posts after a coupla sentences. Promoting to the pickup crowd is different from promoting to an older crowd, of course. The younger seduction crowd needs more sensationalism in the ads to get their attention.
I fear that Shade's techniques might end up becoming Lost Wisdom, if men don't keep them alive by word-of-mouth. Sort of like how the lessons of WWII have not been passed on to younger generations by the older generations, and now a good part of the younger generations are making the very mistakes that led to WWII. I've spent about a thousand dollars on Shade's materials and it was money very well spent. I'm going to pass all of those materials on to my son someday.
Chase, send me an email and I will send to you a sample of Shade's stuff that he uses for promotion. It will truly blow you away.
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