Hello huntmates!
I will briefly describe my situation.
I am 23. I am a Spaniard living in Poland.
Back in Spain (or with EU girls in general) I barely had problems to engage the girl, make it pass the 1st date and have sex.
Here I can only do that with 40-50% of the girls I meet up with.
I've had 20-30 dates or night approaches ending in an exchange of our social media with 20-30 girls in 6 months.
All of them from Tinder or nightclubs/house parties.
Of them, only 7-8 were 8-9s, the rest were 6s-6'5s. And maybe one or two 7s.
I haven't been able to engage with a single 8-9 for long-term sex
.
(Either within a relationship or within a FWB).
Even if we kiss on the 1st date and it goes really well with a lot of kino and interest from her !
(Which happens in 90% of my dates).
I am not interested in 1-night stands and then having the girl experience buyer remorse and ghost me.
I want to engage them and keep their interest.
What the hell am I doing wrong?
Now, it seems that in reality "nothing".
Ive compared my ratios to my foreigner friends' or to those of other poles and they also have the same problems (or even more!).
Everyone agrees that here the 1st-to-2nd-date ratios are lower.
But I won't comform.
I really desire and want to pick up beautiful slavic 8s and 9s with all my soul.
With the EU or Spanish girls everything was easier - thus no need for further game improvement on my part.
Thus I also see this as the perfect opportunity to really boost my game and take it to the next level.
(For now I think Im just average or slightly above average in terms of GAME)
Until now, I haven't had a "plan" or "routine/funnel" for my dates, I've just improvised.
What I wanna do now is to have/design one. I want to focus on generating a lot of connection with my dates, and also some value.
My questions are:
-Testing is key. It'll all comes down to just testing different routines ('date-funnels') and keeping the ones that works best.
Therefore my question is, where can I get some quality 1st-date canned materials? (I am specially interested in generating DAVs and Romance/connection). Do you have anything you can share? Do you know any books or something?
-When and How do you text your dates after the 1st one and arrange a second one? Could you describe it well? What are your success ratios with such approaches? Specially when it comes to conservative or slightly conservative girls.
-What is your method to really know what works and what doesn't? How can I find what I am doing wrong or where I screwed up?
In other words, and this is a very phylosophical and scientific question:
What is your method to create/extract knowledge from your and other's experiences?
If I could know with a 100% of certaintity the reason behind each flake, I could easily fix it.
Thanks for the support guys!
Once I create/design/find a successful funnel, I won't hesitate to share it with the community.
I will briefly describe my situation.
I am 23. I am a Spaniard living in Poland.
Back in Spain (or with EU girls in general) I barely had problems to engage the girl, make it pass the 1st date and have sex.
Here I can only do that with 40-50% of the girls I meet up with.
I've had 20-30 dates or night approaches ending in an exchange of our social media with 20-30 girls in 6 months.
All of them from Tinder or nightclubs/house parties.
Of them, only 7-8 were 8-9s, the rest were 6s-6'5s. And maybe one or two 7s.
I haven't been able to engage with a single 8-9 for long-term sex
. (Either within a relationship or within a FWB).
Even if we kiss on the 1st date and it goes really well with a lot of kino and interest from her !
(Which happens in 90% of my dates).
I am not interested in 1-night stands and then having the girl experience buyer remorse and ghost me.
I want to engage them and keep their interest.
What the hell am I doing wrong?
Now, it seems that in reality "nothing".
Ive compared my ratios to my foreigner friends' or to those of other poles and they also have the same problems (or even more!).
Everyone agrees that here the 1st-to-2nd-date ratios are lower.
But I won't comform.
I really desire and want to pick up beautiful slavic 8s and 9s with all my soul.
With the EU or Spanish girls everything was easier - thus no need for further game improvement on my part.
Thus I also see this as the perfect opportunity to really boost my game and take it to the next level.
(For now I think Im just average or slightly above average in terms of GAME)
Until now, I haven't had a "plan" or "routine/funnel" for my dates, I've just improvised.
What I wanna do now is to have/design one. I want to focus on generating a lot of connection with my dates, and also some value.
My questions are:
-Testing is key. It'll all comes down to just testing different routines ('date-funnels') and keeping the ones that works best.
Therefore my question is, where can I get some quality 1st-date canned materials? (I am specially interested in generating DAVs and Romance/connection). Do you have anything you can share? Do you know any books or something?
-When and How do you text your dates after the 1st one and arrange a second one? Could you describe it well? What are your success ratios with such approaches? Specially when it comes to conservative or slightly conservative girls.
-What is your method to really know what works and what doesn't? How can I find what I am doing wrong or where I screwed up?
In other words, and this is a very phylosophical and scientific question:
What is your method to create/extract knowledge from your and other's experiences?
If I could know with a 100% of certaintity the reason behind each flake, I could easily fix it.
Thanks for the support guys!
Once I create/design/find a successful funnel, I won't hesitate to share it with the community.
