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Sitting on beach on New Years Eve with best mates. Soon a bunch of girls stop and pose for a group photo 20 metres away (it's pretty dark) and my mate jokes about talking to them. I tell him to do it as he is way better looking then me and also has little trouble attracting girls he knows but approaching randoms gets him and the rest of my friends in a mode where they believe it isn't possible. I go 'dude, it's not hard' and walk over and demand compliance from around 7 girls. They start off with their walls up as it's dark and they can't see me completely, I level the playing field by making everyone including myself sit a while over (i didn't even know anything about them at that stage and knew i had to move them fast, as I had so much advice from Chase rush through my head). One started off (who I recognized as the leader, as the group did as she did/wanted) hitting me hard with defensive questions (who am i? why should we move? why should i show you this when we just met?) and I quickly built up a 'yes ladder' with compliance. Within minutes I had the leader and three others surrounding me and the others all with their walls down. They were even mentioning how amazing their night had all become from this approach and felt like we had known each other for years. That's largely due to Deep Diving on the fly and avoiding any silly comments. A minute later I was directing these girls even further away and breaking away one girl for myself, and one for my other friends each. Had them so much in a trance I could tell them to give me their expensive smartphones/cameras and they would do it! Started to escalate (only wanted a kiss and some messing around that night) and avoided my girls objections like I have never done before. Almost had her when I found out that she was heavily religious and her friends came and made her leave. At that stage I managed to get them to come back but shortly gave up as I realized this girl and her friends beliefs were very strong and didn't feel like working any more. All in all, awesome time essentially directing around a group of girls. Got my friends some new good friends and had a good time as I was on a high and went and met heaps more people on the beach and kept moving. This was my first real approach which I would never do before. Next time I'm going to set my frames a bit different, but this really showed me how to get compliance.
