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Approaching and Fear

nexus321

Space Monkey
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Why are girls always in groups of 3? It's so hard to approach them. I don't want to be rejected and have an audience witness it.
Yesterday I couldn't even approach I was so scared, which is odd because last week I was approaching without almost any fear (I was drunk). I was also completely solo so in my head I was thinking how strange I must be to be all by myself when everyone here is with their friends.
Pickup alone is so hard.
 

Sub-Zero

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Where are you approaching ? Don't approach groups until you can approach one.

Is it a bar ? If it's at a bar or a club just holla at her, that's what I do, I don't give a fuck about a group unless it's day game.


nexus321 said:
Why are girls always in groups of 3? It's so hard to approach them. I don't want to be rejected and have an audience witness it.
Yesterday I couldn't even approach I was so scared, which is odd because last week I was approaching without almost any fear (I was drunk). I was also completely solo so in my head I was thinking how strange I must be to be all by myself when everyone here is with their friends.
Pickup alone is so hard.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Marcellus

Cro-Magnon Man
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My mans,

Just some slight motivation, It gets much easier bro! Trust me, you'll be looking back at this when you conquer it and wonder why you were ever worried.
Also, just baby steps, go up to girls by themselves and then you can move up to groups if you want to. Go do some daygame at a medium-big city, plenty of cute girls walking around by themselves.
 

sneaky_charm

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Well not being able to approach sucks for sure. Been there, done that. Still do.

Maybe you need to warm up from the beginning so that you're in a social mood. This video should help you:

Sasha - Social Freedom
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jArghc51z3o&t=28s

As far as dealing with AA goes, watch these videos:

Sasha - Approach Anxiety
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FPbxzKF5Fgs

Sasha - I'm a Creep
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-MApVvos2Y

Nick Sparks - Approach Anyone
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBhxkOai2HM

RSD Max - Are You Gonna Talk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HE-2E8G9f3c

Now I don't do club game. But if you're talking about daygame, I've found that 3 or 4 girl sets are often quite friendly. As soon as you approach the target girl, the other 2 girls start to smile if they find you likable. Don't sweat it, just blurt out something.
 
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