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FS80

Space Monkey
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Hello,

I am new to the forum but not new to pickup. I am mainly doing daygame since three years (with some breaks and occasional approaching). I like daygame because I see most women who I like during the day. However, I am still nearly without any success. Sometimes I get into longer conversations with women, mainly when they sit or stand somewhere. With moving girls I have really bad results. They don't even stop or walk away after my direct approach, but it doesn't feel like they feel creeped out. Sometimes I get the feeling they can't handle the situation and want to get out or maybe it's because I approach from the side and they haven't seen me at all (I know Daniel Adebayo wrote an article about this called "Day Game Tips: Make Her Curious"). He suggests that the woman should have noticed me before the approach. Further, I still have many problems to approach the women who I really like. Another thing is when I see a woman at the traffic lights for example that I am in y mindset that she doesn't see me at all before I approach her because it might feel creepy. I don't know if that is the real case of just my vibe being projected onto her.

Has anyone any tips for me or might feel what is going wrong with my approaches? Thanks!

Cheers,
FS80
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Lucky

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Have you handled fundamentals because a woman will often first judge you on your appearance before your personality and if you have.
Have you been flirting and using chase and sexual frames? Because as Chase as said a woman will eventually lose interest after a while and if your not flirting enough you might get chucked into the friend zone
Or as you said with moving try to have an excuse ready like
"Hey let"s move over here where i can hear you better"
Or maybe
"Hey let's head to my place where we can pop some champagne and maybe watch a movie if your lucky (; /if you promise to be good (;" excreta
yeah so might want to double check this stiff with some of the people more experienced but yeah just a couple of questions to ask yourself cause if you don't flirt enough you probably won't get laid unless the girl has fallen for you really badly.
 

FS80

Space Monkey
space monkey
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I don't think my fundamentals are too bad. I dress very elegant and I often get compliments for my clothes (from women and men). I might not be the strongest man, but I am working on it doing regular excersises at the gym three times a week. I still got women compliment me on my looks and sometimes get eye contact when I walk down the street. Even in clubs women come close to me on the dance floor even though I am not that much into nightlife and don't know how to seduce women during the night. When it comes to flirtation you might be right. I am usually not that flirtatious and stick to "safe" topics. Nevertheless, I can be funny with women who I feel a connection with and I had some women coming home with me at the end of the first date (all from online dating though). My main problem is talking to girls during the day who I really like, get into a conversation and of course going on a date with them.

With moving I meant women who walk from A to B, not changing the location. I seem to do better with women who sit down or wait for a train/bus etc. But most women who I see and would like to approach are walking from A to B.
 

Lucky

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Okay so with joking around you have to be careful cause if you joke around to much you can come off as to playful and get slotted into the friend zone but I basically only use it for sexual humour. Now with your approach problem you need look at their face not their body by doing that they'll seem less cute and should stop you from getting too neverous and should allow you to approach. And with flirtation practice it on girls you don't really like it will help you train up yourself for flirting with cuter woman
 
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