Are dilated pupils real sign of attraction/interest?

[Whiteheart]

Many times I have read in seduction literature that if someone likes you, its pupils dilate. But is this really true? However, many times I would meet a girl that will give me strong eye contact with pupils dilated making her eyes almost black. Still, after some time of my let’s say acceptable game she will firmly reject me or be completely uncompliant when time comes for escalation. In fact, many of these girls don’t give me any escalation window.

Literally decades of times I would approach/meet a girl with dilated pupils and still she would be unreceptive at approach or uncompliant later in interaction.

The same thing happens and vice versa. Girl would have neutral body language toward me, reject me and later after rejection if we meet she would start to glance at me with dilated pupils.

The entire situation pisses me off. If girl doesn’t like me why she looks at me with horny, huge, shiny and dilated eyes? This way I can’t separate girls that like me and are actually interested in me from those who are not and avoid unnecessary rejections and waste of time.

Why girls do this?

 

[trashKENNUT]

The entire situation pisses me off. If girl doesn’t like me why she looks at me with horny, huge, shiny and dilated eyes? This way I can’t separate girls that like me and are actually interested in me from those who are not and avoid unnecessary rejections and waste of time.

Why girls do this?

They (girls) don't know.

In the past, i would say with absolute that yes, she likes you.

At a more pseudo scientific level, she has a boyfriend, husband. And she is fascinated by you but she can't slot you anywhere mentally.

"Value ASS-essing"
To make it simple: Role allocation.

She needs to put u somewhere, mentally.
Other times, she has sex with students
Haha i am joking. Kinda

Anyway, don't take her actions to heart.

It is complex at its source.

z@c+

 

[Derek da man]

Reading body language is rarely about any one sign, it is about a multitude of signs that give you a strong indication. I've been really using it to my advantage since lockdown was lifted (since around May in the UK). I work out from accross a room if a girl will be receptive to my advance before making any approach. Similarly I can read when to escalate, isolate and pull to home. Pupils are not a sign I really look for although I can feel my natural attraction increasing sometimes during a conversation and have put it down to my sub-conscious reading this and other small subtle signals.

Most bars, restaurants and clubs use low/soft lighting which causes the human eye to dialte in order to allow more light in so you can see better, hence this causes most people to have dilated pupils in such areas and therefore increases attraction signals to the opposite sex. Unfortunately this will still be the case even if she has put you in the "no" category!

 

[Fuck This]

 

[DarkKnight]

Dilated pupils is interest in my book, but it doesnt immediately mean the girl is available or a host of other things.

Attraction is not everything. The game is much more nuanced.

 

[DonGately]

It's much easier to notice better tells like lip-licking, hair tossing, neck baring and shoe dangling. Sparkly eyes and a big smile are the classic tell.

 

[James Cruse]

I think this subject of Pupil Dilation and under what conditions needs far more attention and exploration because I think there’s alot of answers that can come from Pupil Dilation.

I agree with the first poster: I’ve found myself talking to women that have large consistantly dilated pupils (during the day in well lit areas) and they are clearly interested and generally show this through other signals.

I’ve been realising that *ALOT* of women are aroused by me, many that shouldn’t be (married to my friends, married co-workers, girls that are too young, relatives (yes, big shock), girls that are clearly very shy, married older lady clients, “lesbians”, guys that I thought were friends that turned out gay and many other women) that you would not expect to be attracted to you.

I’ve found through the daytime in well lit areas that they have dilated pupils when looking at me and then shrinking when looking away (not looking at me).

At first, I honestly chalked this up to being non-sense science but the more I see it and the more research I conduct through pouring over medical studies, the more things make sense.

I came on the forum to search this topic because I’m finding that it’s a very consistant sign that a person is very interested in you that they aren’t aware they’re giving you. I wanted to see others experience of this here but haven’t found much on the subject.

Like another poster said above, I’ve also realised that just because someone finds you attractive/arousing (alá pupil dilation is arousal), it doesn’t mean they can/will have sex with you for

I think an even bigger realisation is that women blatantly lie about how much and how often they are aroused by men.

They could swear in court, under oath that only a tiny fraction of men are physically attractive to them but that consistant pupil dilation (in well lit areas) tells a very different story.

If anyone does have any further research or field experience for/against this subject, please share it here.

 

[DarkKnight]

I came on the forum to search this topic because I’m finding that it’s a very consistant sign that a person is very interested in you that they aren’t aware they’re giving you. I wanted to see others experience of this here but haven’t found much on the subject.

This is a very reliable sign.. I had girls keep trying to talk to me after this happened, it's basically a "WOW" response on their part.

 

[Train]

I think this subject of Pupil Dilation and under what conditions needs far more attention and exploration because I think there’s alot of answers that can come from Pupil Dilation.

I agree with the first poster: I’ve found myself talking to women that have large consistantly dilated pupils (during the day in well lit areas) and they are clearly interested and generally show this through other signals.

I’ve been realising that *ALOT* of women are aroused by me, many that shouldn’t be (married to my friends, married co-workers, girls that are too young, relatives (yes, big shock), girls that are clearly very shy, married older lady clients, “lesbians”, guys that I thought were friends that turned out gay and many other women) that you would not expect to be attracted to you.

I’ve found through the daytime in well lit areas that they have dilated pupils when looking at me and then shrinking when looking away (not looking at me).

At first, I honestly chalked this up to being non-sense science but the more I see it and the more research I conduct through pouring over medical studies, the more things make sense.

I came on the forum to search this topic because I’m finding that it’s a very consistant sign that a person is very interested in you that they aren’t aware they’re giving you. I wanted to see others experience of this here but haven’t found much on the subject.

Like another poster said above, I’ve also realised that just because someone finds you attractive/arousing (alá pupil dilation is arousal), it doesn’t mean they can/will have sex with you for

I think an even bigger realisation is that women blatantly lie about how much and how often they are aroused by men.

They could swear in court, under oath that only a tiny fraction of men are physically attractive to them but that consistant pupil dilation (in well lit areas) tells a very different story.

If anyone does have any further research or field experience for/against this subject, please share it here.

I've come across pupil dilation / attracted looks with the mouth slightly ajar. Is that something you've noticed as well?

 

[Skills]

I think this subject of Pupil Dilation and under what conditions needs far more attention and exploration because I think there’s alot of answers that can come from Pupil Dilation.

I agree with the first poster: I’ve found myself talking to women that have large consistantly dilated pupils (during the day in well lit areas) and they are clearly interested and generally show this through other signals.

I’ve been realising that *ALOT* of women are aroused by me, many that shouldn’t be (married to my friends, married co-workers, girls that are too young, relatives (yes, big shock), girls that are clearly very shy, married older lady clients, “lesbians”, guys that I thought were friends that turned out gay and many other women) that you would not expect to be attracted to you.

I’ve found through the daytime in well lit areas that they have dilated pupils when looking at me and then shrinking when looking away (not looking at me).

At first, I honestly chalked this up to being non-sense science but the more I see it and the more research I conduct through pouring over medical studies, the more things make sense.

I came on the forum to search this topic because I’m finding that it’s a very consistant sign that a person is very interested in you that they aren’t aware they’re giving you. I wanted to see others experience of this here but haven’t found much on the subject.

Like another poster said above, I’ve also realised that just because someone finds you attractive/arousing (alá pupil dilation is arousal), it doesn’t mean they can/will have sex with you for

I think an even bigger realisation is that women blatantly lie about how much and how often they are aroused by men.

They could swear in court, under oath that only a tiny fraction of men are physically attractive to them but that consistant pupil dilation (in well lit areas) tells a very different story.

If anyone does have any further research or field experience for/against this subject, please share it here.

Yes i made a post explaining it:

Socializing - The fake negative approach invite

ok guys remember when corvette/illuminatus explained about approach invites that Women do become sexually aroused by the presence of a guy who either subcommunicates alpha traits or just looks good to her in some way. It happens in microseconds, just the same as it does in men when they see a...

www.skilledseducer.com

 

[DarkKnight]

mouth slightly ajar

mouth ajar is sign of shock. That one definitely wants your progency

 

[James Cruse]

I've come across pupil dilation / attracted looks with the mouth slightly ajar. Is that something you've noticed as well?

Sometimes, but it’s more women I talk to everywhere I go.
Some of them are talking to me, others serving me - there’s been a huge variety of circumstances where their mouth couldn’t be ajar based on what they’re doing at the time.

 

[James Cruse]

Yes i made a post explaining it:

Socializing - The fake negative approach invite

ok guys remember when corvette/illuminatus explained about approach invites that Women do become sexually aroused by the presence of a guy who either subcommunicates alpha traits or just looks good to her in some way. It happens in microseconds, just the same as it does in men when they see a...

www.skilledseducer.com

This is the same conclusion I came to also - women may be attracted to you but they’re taken.

I made notes about me trying to make eye contact with women and them making it difficult and that’s the reason - they are in a relationship.

I have however found women with men (holding hands, standing with them) in public look at me and their pupils are huge.

It’s almost like they’re brazen and daring me to approach them while with their boyfriend.